An Important Role Model

I have chose to write about important role models in my life that I admire. The people that I am going to be writing about have made the biggest impact in my life so far as to who I want to become in the future as far as a wife, mother and a sibling. My Mom was always the single mother who never got help from nobody not even her baby daddys. My big brother Tony was always the smart and responsible who was the “Man Of The House” he taught me many things that I now look forward to as an adult. Then there is my Grandma Brenda who had recently passed away, she was always the one who everyone could go to although she was the one who never held her tongue. Her death was one of the biggest hits that the family took, and opened other eyes to how dysfunctional

As the oldest he always did his part of being the big brother, not just the protective brother, but the sensitive, understanding and teddy bear brother. Dads are the ones that you should be afraid of your boyfriends to meet, well in my case it was my big brother. As I said before, my brother was the man of the house, he was the one who had to approve of the younger and the little sisters boyfriends. I remember the day that my brother met my now fiance, boy was I scared.. Not just because he was my brother and i wanted his approval but because there was so much bad in my relationship and I was scared that my brother would pumplet my fiance. My brother is the responsible one, he moved out when he was eighteen years old to be out on his own he would always say that he’s a man that he doesn’t need to live with his mommy. Well now that I’m almost eighteen years old I see it that way too, I now understand where he was coming from. Tony always paid his bills, he works a lot and shows me what it’s like to be an adult. It has its moment when it really sucks, but on the other side it is all bad. You can do things that you wouldn’t be able to do if you lived with your parent and you can do what you want as long as it isn’t illegal). My brother would be a great Dad our dads weren’t in our life much growing up so he knows to be the exact opposite of

The person I am today is all due to these three wonderful people who I am more than happy to call my Mom, Brother, and Grandma. In the future I wish to become a terrific mother like my own and like the mother who raised my mother. Although, being an adult and a mother is hard work, it’ll all pay off in the long run. My children will be the things that i will soon look at and think, did I do my best? As for being a wife, I do hope that I can be everything that my Fiance does wish for as for me to be. A mother that my children will look up to and think the same as what I think of my own. As to those in this essay I hope they know how much I love them and appreciate everything that they have ever done for me, continue to do for me, and everything they have and still will teach me in the future. Not only are these people my family, but they are my friends.. My BEST