A homeowner, college graduate, good job, no children. 27 years old meeting the man of my dreams on the internet. Within two weeks he moved in with only two grocery bags of clothing. Engaged 4 months later, married one year later only to find out he was a cheater, thief, abuser and a bigamist. Three years later, we are pregnant, homeless in a hotel and still loyal. When enough is enough I left and now after the pain, I have a better home, beautiful child, master’s degree and living in peace. My healing after the pain.
October 5, 2005, I was a homeowner, a recent college graduate, good credit, no children and a great job. I had everything but a husband. I had been online for a while dating. This time I found a man with goals, seeking a wife,
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Within two weeks he had moved into my home. When he moved in with only two grocery bags of clothing I should have known something was going on. After four months of dating on in the middle of a New Year’s Eve party at my parents’ home my dad stopped the music and gave him the microphone. He got down on one knee and popped the question every woman dreams of. “Will you marry me?” I cried and everyone was screams happy for the occasion. After the excitement I looked at the ring only to realize the ring was borrowed from my sister. At this point I was so excited it did not matter to me. I was engaged to a man who loved me. So I …show more content…
I personally don’t believe in divorce. Marriage is until death do us part. Out of the blue a friend called and asked me to look at the husband’s criminal record. I was a little upset as to why she was looking him up however, today I am so thankful to her. His criminal record showed that he was charged for a crime he committed on 10/28/2006 with Bigamy. That was our wedding date. I contacted my local county clerk’s office and was told I was not married to this man. Most women would be heart broken and sad. I felt as though God had answered my prayers. The next day I was 5 months pregnant and my husband came to my job for no reason and cut two of my tiers on my car. I knew it was time to go. I call a girlfriend and told her I was coming to stay with
We were jumping in excitement wanting to run and see my little brother down the hall. Our family was there all day, visitors coming in and out like a
The number one thing I’ve learned in this entire process is that the only way anyone can rise from the ashes and make something out of the debris that is their life is to change themselves. I’m not talking about changing your zip code, or rearranging your face or other body parts. I’m talking about digging deep, looking within and taking responsibility and accountability for your own mess. For me, I had to accept that I should have never married my husband; I knew he wasn’t the man for me. I have to accept that I was impulsive and emotional and didn’t plan or prepare for my next step after telling my husband I was done.
Wow, you were already at the bottom of the island without needing to go through any obstacles. Thank your enemies for doing so. Killer looked like that he was taking a few glances to your happy form, actually smiling and thinking were Law could be. A wonderful idea popped into your mind when you saw Kid and Killer talking with each other.
Finally, we were able to afford our own apartment. Two years later, David asked for my hand in marriage. We have been together for seventy-five years, and hopefully more to come. We have our beautiful children, grandchildren, and great
Born in Dallas, Texas raised in Houston, Texas, I was the type of kid that didn’t need much or that moved around a lot. I was a young dreamer wishing to be something big. I had all the support I needed, but I was just a kid… The type of family I had was the type that will give you what you want but on one condition. That condition was that you’ll have to earn it.
My leaving devastated my mother but it was too much for me. I just had to go. It broke my heart to leave my family. Especially Melissa and Ava who leaned on
But finally I had to embrace it because I kind of had to be at the wedding. Things get a little blurry and wild from here on but I remember a couple things. Sitting down watching my sister walk up the through the chairs in a beautiful sparkling white dress. My sister and that guy said many things up there, he even made up a cute poem for her.
My most critical moment of thinking came as I was deciding to leave Dallas and move to Philadelphia. My husband received a lucrative job offer in Philadelphia right after our engagement and we both knew that a long distance relationship was not for us. He had finally found a good position in the Field that he was passionate about but he wouldn 't budge if I decided to stay in Dallas. Even though I had no desire to leave Texas, I would never have wanted to be the one responsible for him giving up a wonderful opportunity.
He even gave her a ring to wear. He used his own money to buy the ring and had been carrying it around for months, waiting for his chance to propose. Luckily, he got his chance when his friend Sarah Goddard took him to a meet and greet session with the artist.
The day I had knee surgery. On February 14th my mother woke me up with a smile on her face to lighten the mood a little, because the next morning would be the day that I would have my first surgery ever. I was really clam in the morning like any other day. It really didn 't hit me that I would have surgery
Without any passion in her voice she answered, “ Cater to him now, love will come later.” All of the other girls in my family were at least engaged to be married by the age twenty-one. Unlike them I had a different plan for myself, I always spoke my mind without hesitation; It was clear to all members in my family that I was going places without permission from a man. I felt it was my responsibility to end this, and I was willing to go through whatever it took to prove a point. I wanted to be free to
My boyfriend and I both had good paying jobs, and families that would continue to love and support us, so I knew everything would turn out okay. We had decided together to wait to tell our parents, but we did share the pregnancy with a few close friends and siblings. Things were quickly begining to feel exciting. We were talking about baby names and what sport he would play. (I wasn’t far enough along to know the gender, but I just knew he was a boy.)
In Conclusion, marriage is a great process which can build great relationship that is full of happiness and love. Because of men’s thinking control over women, marriage processes cannot be successful all the time. Most of the time, men’s actions lead to the divorce. After the divorce, the people who are blamed are women. Most of the time, men are shown that they are innocent, and women are the guilty people.
It was a beautiful wedding. Ackley was my best man. You should have seen it, you really should have. We have two kids: a son and a daughter. Our son's name is Allie, and boy, he has red hair just like my brother's was.
It took me about 2 years to find myself and know where I belonged. My behavior has improved, I know how and when to approach people. I’m also more involved with my education and I make goals for myself. I’m done having