The parents’ actions after the change from them caring for their children to the nursery caring for them shows that they are scared of the change. The parents are scared that there are going to be further changes to their family and want to change it back to before the nursery. However, some disagree with this theme and say that the main theme of the story is abandonment. They say this because there are many points in the story which showcase abandonment. The children’s actions also support the theme of people are scared of change.
Parents mostly view holding back the truth from their children as a simple means of protection of their children (Bridges, 2010). Parents seek to protect their children from being hurt by information that they view their children cannot handle (Lott, 2014). Matters such as separation of parents have seen to contribute a significant share of the lies that parents feed children. Parents assume that they can withhold the truth from their children about their marital issues thinking that they will tell the truth to their children later in life when they can understand the complexity of the matter at hand. Taking this example, when the children enquire about where their parents are when they are not at home.
Children can be in a really bad situation that harms their health, education, anger, and depression. Their behavioral problem can rise at school as result of depression and anger. Immigration should stop deporting immigrant parents should stop because it affects children behavior, school performance and increase the number of children in foster care. Immigration deporting immigrant parents should stop because it affects children 's behavior.
When parents choose to unwind a child, the entire family is affected. The siblings of an unwound child would likely go through extreme emotions (Shusterman 29-30). They could feel powerless because they cannot prevent the unwinding, and they could go into despair as one would expect from a child losing a sibling. These two combined, if felt strongly, could cause depression. Additionally, after witnessing a sibling being torn away from the home and then knowing that their parents might try to unwind a child again, the child might also experience fear, for his or her own life could be at stake in the future, which would only further tension in the family.
If the two parents were to ever have a serious argument that could not be overcome, the stress could pass on to the child depending on how the parents deal with the situation. Any tension between the parents could be observed quickly by the child and lead to the child being distracted instead of focusing on their academics or other activities in life that they should worry about. In some cases, a divorce could be too detrimental or expensive to go through with, so parents would continue to stay married, eventually making it uneasy for the child to cope with. The child could also feel pressured into taking sides as well. If the love between the parents fade away, the child could be heavily affected after observing the relationship changing between their parents.
Chris Crutcher , wrote this book for teens to open up more to their parents to speak out when they’re feeling a certain way. Not bottle up their emotions and become stressed and depressed over the situations they’re put in. He also wrote this for parents who ride they kids to the point where they’d rather die than play sports. Sports are supposed to be fun and entertaining. But if you as a parent put your child down and make them feel bad for doing something wrong is where you mess up.
Some negatives of a society that accepts unwinding could consist of unethical unwindings. For example, a parent who is viewed as overly-protective, can unwind their child because of the slightest mistake. When a parent who gives their kid some freedom and isn’t so hard on them when something goes wrong, is less likely to unwind a child. With that said, more children would deem it unfair that their friends parent aren’t unwinding them for the same thing, causing more kids to run from their homes, and their families. Another negative outcome of unwinding is that it is not ethical in a case where a parent can choose to end a child’s time on earth for whatever reason they want.
Have you ever wondered what the effects of adoption has on a child? Many children will have long term emotions about their adoption when they find out. Some may feel like they do not belong or like they are meaningless. Children may feel grief or lost in this world due to the adoption and unable to ask about their birth family because they do not want to disappoint or make their adopted family upset in any way. Adopted Children will feel grief, loss and they will also suffer long term, physiological, as well as have trouble tracing their history(LHAA).
I feel like a parent should not tell their child who to date. Maybe who not too. Parents have the right to share their opinion especially when that relationship they are seeing is bad for their child. I feel like you shouldn’t date someone your family already disapproves of, because even if you hope that eventually they will approve of him/her they probably won’t you will just have lingering parents disapproval. Although it is that childs achievement to learn from the mistakes they have had.
The following groups feel that marriage should be dealt with in different manners. The functionalist believe that the incest taboo keeps the family members, from being confused about their role in the family, and it is a way to socialize the children. By feeling and believing this way, it leads them to look outside of the family for a wife or husband. They also believe that the new technology and all of the extra curriculum things for the family to do puts restrictions on the families. There is not any family time now as it was.
I mean I am not a marriage counselor and this is just an answer for a simple homework assignment, but married partners should be able to come to one another on things that bother them because if there is no trust then what is the point of marrying someone (for love)? Spouses should be allowed to keep secrets from each other, if it is a surprise birthday party, gift, or wonderful gesture. Secrets tend to rip relationships apart because it suggests a lack of trust and usually when one spouse keeps a secret, they lie to their husband or wife. Furthermore, lies are never positive, even if the truth is hard to hear, it is always better
“Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not to themselves”-Abraham Lincoln The two texts that we read were Narrative life of Frederick Douglass and Sojourner Truth: Ain’t I A Woman they tell us about their life and what they had to do in order to get their freedom. When there was slavery, it divided people like African Americans and Americans. The people that had freedom were white men and not black men or women.