Old Home New Findings As individuals find different ways to cope with the monotony of their daily lives, the individual would travel around the globe in search of a new discovery. Little did the individual know, when they return to their homes, they will return to their daily routine like any other day. This creates a thirst to constantly stay stimulated whenever the individual is bored, making them rely on external changes rather than changing their mindset. In the essay “On Habit”, DeBotton speaks about room traveling and how keeping a positive mindset can benefit those who find their neighborhood boring. Individuals can indeed change their lives without having to make any external changes, simply by being comfortable alone will affect their lives and having a positive mindset have an impact on traveling. If an individual is happy during their trip, the trip will be a great trip regardless of where the destination is. By simply having a positive mindset, a simple …show more content…
Being able to learn how to entertain oneself means the individual will learn how to be happy even when there is nothing to do. As DeBotton writes,” The sole cause of man’s unhappiness is that he does not know how to stay quietly in his room”, not being comfortable with oneself could affect everything in a way, like how people see you and how they will treat you (DeBotton 60). Individuals would leave the room because they want to look for happiness, but they do not understand that by doing that the happiness is not truly theirs. This happiness comes from others and when the individual is hanging out with the person that leaves, the individual will go back to being alone. That is why the main issue with individuals is the inability to cope with solitude; but if the individual train to persevere through the loneliness, then the individual can find true joy in traveling
I agree with Wallace on this because when I’m writing an essay in the library, I’m more concerned with finishing my essay and going to bed than the girl that can not get her papers to print or the boy who is waiting in line to go to the bathroom. Considering that we are living our lives from our perception of life, we live in solitude caring about ourselves. We would rather get our to- do list done with, go home to an empty home and live in solitude due to our hard- wired default
Often times as human, we reflect constantly on our actions and past experiences. Sometimes, we regret our bad habits and try to change the ways we act towards certain experiences in life. As one tries to change their bad habits, they start to realize that their actions were a result of something that effected them in life. In “Breaking Habits” by Alain de Botton, the author talks about exploring one’s surroundings and looking at life with a new set of eyes. De Botton writes about the many benefits of traveling by yourself, which helps break one’s bad habits.
The essay “On Habit” was written by Swiss-born writer Alain de Botton. In his essay De Botton discusses several subjects related to a particular mindset. He raises many questions in his essay for example: how people think when they go away on vacation, what forces us to look at the environment and our surroundings in a different way, how our surroundings causes changes in our behavior. The subject matter of De Botton’s essay was “Travelling Mindset.” Alain de Botton also shares with us his experiences while travelling, he went to Barbados and he listed all the activities that he had partaken in.
Some of the forms of entertainment listed include listening to storytellers, drinking alcohol, dancing to music and going to the movies. The foreigners find happiness in these activities and seem to forget their troubles, if not for a brief moment. For example, when a man gets drunk “failures [dull] and the future [is] no threat… and hunger [does] not skulk about” (327). And at dances, when the music starts to play, there are “feet on the bare ground… hands ‘round and swing… hair [falling] down and panting breaths” (329). Sometimes migrants just need a break from the many suffocating issues that choke them daily, and these activities provide a good diversion of thought.
At the end of Walden, Thoreau writes “I left the woods for as good a reason as I went there. Perhaps it seemed to me that I had several more lives to live, and could not spare any more time for that one. It is remarkable how easily and insensibly we fall into a particular route, and make a beaten track for ourselves”. In recording this belief, people can infer that Thoreau would be distressed with the systematic lives of people today. The repetition of the same activities day after day without adventure would bestow sorrow in his
There is an old Moorish proverb that reads, “He who does not travel, does not know the value of man.” That quote resonates deep within me because I have a yearning to use my education to empower those in need. In order to do so, I need to see and experience the world outside of the one I am accustomed to. Curiosity is one of the traits that define the person that I am; because of this trait I always ask questions about the world around me and the people I meet. This is one of the driving forces behind my desire to venture outside of the United States to learn a new language and culture.
People choose to move away for various reasons, including extreme jobs promotions, traveling for experience, spreading culture around the world, etc. Exquisite developments such as cars, trains, and planes have made these activities attainable to people who choose to move away from their birthplace. Since moving is an open option, transportation is another step towards independence in humans all around the world. “Life goes by in the blink of an eye. So be sure to appreciate the many moments with family and friends that make your life complete.”
For example, Sasse views travel as, “...an opportunity to help our kids to get out of their comfort zones, learn to see different social and economic arrangements.” (Sasse 18). Ben Sasse views travel simply as a way to get out of one’s own bubble to learn about the various living situations that people, even a neighborhood away, experience. Therefore, although traveling is not the only way for a kid to be made aware of the different circumstances that people around the world experience on a daily basis, it is one of the most effective ways as they will be able to experience them firsthand. This sentiment holds true in my own life as well as for many others.
People need authentic human interaction to be truly happy. This claim is supported by the novel, Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury, the film, Pleasantville directed by Gary Ross, and the article, Why Loneliness Is Bad for Your Health by Nancy Shute. In Fahrenheit 451, people need authentic human interaction to be truly happy. This is supported with Montag and Mildred’s relationship and how Mildred says the parlor walls are “really fun” (18), but she still tried to commit suicide.
Many people who take trips to other countries use it to escape the boredom of their own life and to have fun in another country. Taking vacations can provide excitement when heading to different locales, give a person the tastes and sights of a new place, and overall provide a sense of pleasure to a tourist. However, there is an aspect of this that many tourists do not get to see. In her essay A Small Place, author Jamaica Kincaid makes this aspect very clear. Kincaid, along with many other natives of foreign islands, believes that tourists are “ugly human being[s]” who seemingly feed off the boredom and desperation of the natives of a certain place, creating a source of pleasure for themselves (Kincaid 262).
This is the only way of life I know, getting somewhere, unpacking, starting to settle down only to pick things up back again to start a new journey. This way of life has given me the tools and skills necessary to view things through a different lens, to be acceptant of others cultures and traditions and open to different thoughts and ideas. Upon living all over the map I am filled with the desire to learn, experience and continue to steep out of my comfort zone. I tend to study at the University of Wisconsin-Platteville to continue to extend my horizons
The feeling of doing nothing while traveling frequently caused anxiety for people who are used to their daily work routine; taking pictures while traveling offered people a sense of purpose when they
Have you ever been really bored and don’t know what to do? Boredom is not the best thing have. Boredom is the worst because it can get you in trouble and hurt. The reason why boredom is the worst because it may get you hurt.
As I lay on the couch, I ask myself the question that probably plagues so many teenagers today: “Should I go and get myself a pumpkin spice latte?”. I have the ability to go out and get myself one, so perhaps I will. This sense of freedom doesn’t come from the immediate rights granted to me in the Constitution; I get my sense of freedom from Baby Blue. Baby Blue is what I lovingly refer to my truck as, it may not be a light shade of blue as the name would suggest, but it is a vibrant blue, and I actually consider it my baby. A Ford F-150 that replaced my families rusting Ford Ranger about two and a half years ago, has become my ticket to a life of freedom.
Travelling helps us to know more about different lifestyles, cultures, cuisines and festivals. Visiting new sights and exploring new places increases our knowledge and widens our global perspective. We get to learn so many things about different cultures and customs. It makes us open minded and gives us a new viewpoint about life and it also changes some of our bad habits.