1.1 Background of study
The reason that I am interested in studying online dating is that I wanted to understand how people perceive ideas of finding love in the online world. After searching for love, two strangers can fall in love with each other. To me, love is a very mysterious thing and anyone can fall into it at any time. When I was studying in primary school, I heard many rumours from my female and male friends that they liked each other. Anyhow, many of them were just puppy love where it ended after finishing school. Soon on later, I studied in secondary girl school, where rumours existed in a different way. I heard my friends knew new guys in online using social networking sites such as Facebook, Friendster which were started to
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In 1995, World Wide Web has created before the availability of online dating (Thottam, 2016). After that, email is accessible to the users in year 1998, followed by arise of dating websites in 2000 and the enhancement of video dating in 2003. In 2004, social networking sites such as Facebook are developed. In 2007, smart phones were introduced to the mass markets and its mobile dating apps are getting popular with the ability to track location in 2012. Besides that, sexual orientation of homosexuality is promoted in online dating since 2009. Dating through the Internet is getting more acceptable in the eyes of the public and until today, different kind of websites is invented according to different types of interests such as sexual orientation, religion and ethnicity. For instance, Plenty of Fish, OkCupid, Match.com and Tinder are among the few popular dating websites (Masculine Profiles, 2014). Bulletin boards, newsgroups, web, magazines are promoting this service until it is now a new platform for people to meet with each other. Based on Kennedy (2010), Internet provides dating users a unique experience as it includes audio, images and databases of personal background; besides, provides users the preference in location and enhancement in communication. The dating pool is infinite and unlimited whereby users can talk about anything, with anyone at anywhere (Kennedy, …show more content…
Scammers will tend to create false profiles with fake information and photos. After knowing them, scammers especially from foreign countries will find chances to cheat users’ money with the excuse of helping to resolve money problems in some medical or travel emergency. In a research done by Telenor group, 400 users aged from 18 to 65 were surveyed in four countries, which are Malaysia, Thailand, India and Singapore (New Straits Time Online, 2016). There is one out of five Malaysians have fallen for online dating scams (The Star Online, 2016). Scammers will tend to create a fake profile on online dating site to elicit money. Besides that, online dating scam was appeared to be among the top methods of scamming in these Asia countries, which accounting for 14% of the survey results (White, 2016). In addition, not only scammers will cheat for the purpose of money, online daters will also deceive others for romantic love by presenting their idealized manner (Finkel et al., 2006). Due to the accessibility of online dating, anyone can use the forum to represent whoever they want to be (Westminster, 2016). For instance, they will lie on their socioeconomic status, age, hobbies, interests or physical appearance (Koester, 2016). Apart from that, with the endless options provided in online dating, some people are not motivated to put their efforts, time and commitment in just one
As humanity continues to grow and social medial overtakes our young minds… how will rumors affect our lives. Do we believe everything we see, read, and hear? How will our opinions form if we do not know if the truth is being told or if it 's simply a rumor. Truth be told...if we are already thinking a rumor is the truth how can we differentiate between truth and rumor.
Even added in a quote saying “60% of young adults believed "most people can't be trusted””. This inclines the reader to feel the writer's thought when they explained this, not only are trust issues very real but also proving the point that being friends with someone first before dating them is a very smart idea. Moving back to online dating Cox brings more information about unsafety when it comes to online dating. “52% of Americans reported encountering what they believed to be a scammer on an online dating platform.” (Cox).
In the present world, smart phones, tablets, and social networking services have transformed the way people communicate with each other. The advancement in technology has allowed people to connect wherever and whenever they want to. However, that was not the case for young couples living in the eighteenth century in the United States. The identification and engagement among young couples in the United States went through a significant evolvement to become what is today.
eHarmony distinguished itself from other personal sites by offering a tightly integrated system that encompassed a personality profile, which fed into a matching algorithm, which then led into a guided communication. Users would answer 258 questions covering 29 measures of compatibility. The matching algorithm would connect people with at least 25 similarities in compatibility and inform both individuals. The individuals would then send to the other person 5 easy multi-choice questions provided by eHarmony. Once both parties answered they advanced to the next stage where they were asked on “must-haves” and “cant-haves”.
Personal Connection: The Most Dangerous Game I don’t agree with Rainsford when he says that the world is made up of two classes- the hunters and the huntees because everyone can be both the hunter and the huntee at one point. For example, the human being is always learning, no matter how old he or she is, but that person can also teach other people with their knowledge, in which they becomes both- the teacher and the student. In The Most Dangerous Game, while General Zaroff was looking for Rainsford in the second day, “his foot touched the protruding bough that was the trigger. Even as he touched it, the general sensed his danger and leaped back with the agility of an ape. But he was not quite quick enough” (Connell 10).
Creating relationships is common when people are sharing lives with others. Technology will enable the world to be in relationships through photos, videos, text, and music. Individuals who are in a good virtual community share common interests with each other. Then, step by step, people are compelled to understand individuals and care for them regarding their lives. Some individuals are able to meet a number of these new, on-line friends, face to face and connect with them as if that they had been with one another for
With the obstacles accompanying modern dating, people constantly question about their willingness to spend the rest of their lives with others (Browne 16). Today, modern technology forms a significant part of people’s lives. Browne postulates that technology impacts dating to significant extents. Currently, technology facilitates long-distance relationships as the Internet provides online platforms on which people from different parts of the world meet. On the contrary, such platforms lead to adulterated relationships as individuals do not spend time together to know each other.
This helps her point that online dating might be a better source to find love. The online portion of dating might help “ attain a higher level of psychological and emotional intimacy…”(527). Anjula Razdan did a great job at backing up all of her ideas and theories, by including
Summary #1-Teen violence is still a big problem In the article “Teen Dating Violence Is a Serious Problem” by sadie F. Dingfelder, it state that teens violence is a serious problem that can really affect your health and other negative consequences. "I thought I was a pretty aware parent,"(Dingfelder). In this quote it explain that teen violence is extremely bad, and even parents don’t realize how bad it is because they thought their child will never be capable of such thing or that their child will never be in that kind of situation. Teens violence is something people don’t want to talk about because they don’t really knows how to talk about it, or something people know about but choose to be quiet about it.
People sign up on online dating sites to find love and a partner to make a family
This may include taking certain precautions for personal protection, and avoiding being alone at large events. Since the Internet is widely used as a tool by human traffickers, it is vital that the public be taught how to protect themselves in the cyber world. Training the public, particularly children and teenagers, on proper Internet and social media usage can be an invaluable tool in preventing further victimization efforts by human traffickers. Partnerships with concerned citizens, civic groups, and social groups will assist law enforcement in the prevention and detection human
eHarmony is an online dating website created to match single men and women for long-term relationships. Eharmony 's matching system is based on its 29 DIMENSIONS® algorithm. The search system is based on questionnaires to match couples based on features of compatibility. Their Compatibility Matching System narrows the field from thousands of single prospects to match the customer with compatible matches. eHarmony assumes that every successful long-term relationship consists of three components: Deep psychological compatibility, Interpersonal chemistry, and Physical
That is why the conduct of online dating is much different as compared to traditional dating. According to Lim (2007), due
Dating sites and applications has been created year 1995. Online Dating is a way for people to find and contact each other through the Internet to arrange a date, usually with the goal of developing a personal and romantic relationship. Online dating allow users to create a profile and uploading personal information including age, gender, sexual orientation, location, and appearance. Once a profile has been created, members can view
with the availability of free online dating websites gives an endless amount of people to meet. There are several advantages with this form of dating, but there are also many disadvantages to be aware of before deciding to go into the world of online dating. About 81% of online dating users lie about either their height, weight or age in their dating profiles. Some people suggest doing a background check before talking or connecting with them to make sure they are not lying about themselves. Several individuals have been hurt while online dating, multiple studies have claimed that breakups are more common in couples who meet online than the couples who meet face to face.