1.) Identify a fear that has prevented you from achieving the desired goal. Discuss a time where you overcame a fear that led to growth or success.
My biggest fear has been my anxiety and fear of failure. No matter where I would go or what I would do I had to overcome that anxiety just, so I could open that front door and go outside. I had let it hold me back in the past and it had stopped me from doing so much that I wanted to do. When I started classes at our local college, Central Alabama Community College, I use to be terrified to get out of the car and go inside. I had the fear of being judged based on my age, height, weight, clothes, etc. One evening my children asked me when was I going to start going back to school, I always responding
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In the end, being able to face my fears head on, I was able to be alone with just my children and I in our own place. It has forced me to be successful in making my own decisions and become confident in them. My success is that I can go to school now, work a part-time job, have help at home with our children and the household duties. It may not seem like much to most but to me overcoming the small fears have led me to believe that I can overcome any obstacle that comes our way, together, as a team. Yes, I went through a difficult divorce at a hard time in life. Seven years later facing my worst fear and soul-searching, I have been blessed with a wonderful husband, an amazing stepfather to my own children, father of 2 more wonderful children and a big family who will always stand beside, not behind, me and walk with me through my journey of life in AIU and other life goals. Being able to get the support from my husband has helped me overcome my anxiety and lead me down a path of life that I can be proud of and have the feeling of self worth and self love. My husband has helped me overcome my anxiety by providing a stable life for us. He went with me to see my …show more content…
1.) As Michael Jordan stated in his last paragraph “who become I am ready to accept failure. Everyone may fail. But I don’t want to say that I don’t try.”
From my personal experiences, you will never know if you will fail or not if you don’t push yourself to try and find out. So with that being said face your fears head-on. Swallow your pride and take that leap of faith. Enter into that next class and prove you have what it takes to be successful.
2.) For my second strategy, I would recommend that you and I should learn our self-worth. In Unit 3, Self-Worth & Being Successful Ramp Up Activity, Dr. Christina Hibbert described her way of learning self-worth by using a pyramid structure.
At the bottom of the pyramid, it started with Self-Awareness. In self-awareness, you find your strengths and weaknesses.
The middle of the pyramid it has Self-acceptance which is where you learn to accept your strengths and weaknesses.
Last but not least at the top you have Self Love. Self Love is where you learn to love yourself and begin to make sure your needs are meet in
Learn to fail.” By Angel B. Perez, the author explains how a student gained his attention through the honesty the student provided when asked what he expects to learn or experience in college. The student answered with, “I look forward to the possibility of failure.” Failure
For two years not one person told me I had looked happy. It was simple, but it clicked and made me realize that I did not need the negativity that I had lived in the shadows of for so long. I was more important than the relationship and I wanted more out of life than the inconsiderate person I saw in the mirror behind the foggy glasses. I wanted to be free of the ridicule and negativity from my peers and family that surrounded my day-to-day life. I wanted to have friends again, and most of all I wanted to be successful.
I did not realize how dramatic the change would be in our relationship with my mother. After her return home, we both struggled to find our roles in the house and that was a huge challenge. The arguing between my mother and step-father became more obvious and illustrated just how different things were at home since my mother’s departure.
I believe in the value of personal growth and learning for yourself. Personal growth is assessing my skills and aiming for my goals in life without the help from others. Similar to Siddhartha, he ventures off on his own to find Nirvana from his own experience because you cannot learn it on your own. I personally grow every summer when my parents send me away to camps or colleges and I must learn values like responsibility, independence, and to ‘find myself’, which is my Nirvana.
There would be times in my life where I would be in a stressful situation but if I acted scared it would only be more difficult to have success. Accepting that failure would occur helped me build confidence as a player and as a person. I began to feel more comfortable in situations that used to scare me, such as public speaking. In high school I took various classes that required me to speak in front of large crowds. Accepting that failure was a part of life and growth allowed me to succeed in situations that used to scare me, softball allowed me to do
The original model includes biological and physical needs at the bottom of the pyramid, right above that comes safety needs, at the third level is loving and belongingness needs, esteem needs, and at the top of the pyramid comes self-actualization needs (Jones, Michael). Psychological trauma occurs when you have had an extremely stressful or traumatic
Just because you fail once, doesn’t mean you just stop and give up, you try harder the next time to accomplish your dreams and it could lead you to a successful
I 'm not afraid anymore, because I learned that you genuinely cannot succeed by
I do not let fear stop me from doing what is right. In school, I try not to become discouraged when I do not understand lessons being taught or homework. I will ask the teacher for assistance if I am having difficulty learning. Also, I grew up to hate being scared. During Halloween, I would never want to go to a haunted house.
Absence of Fear “I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear” (Nelson Mandela). Have you ever really thought about the things you fear and why you fear them? Recently I have read some texts that have gotten me thinking about this quote. This quote has a lot to compare to “The Lottery” by Shirley Jackson.
For someone to think about someone else’s feelings before their own is a very noble thing to do, but that gets even more so when that “someone” is only eleven years old. This is how the life of an 11-year-old her changed forever. The essay Finding the Strength to Fight Our Fears written by Terry Ahwal. Grit is having passion and perseverance for something truly important to you. Grit is having the stamina to keep your goal throughout your life.
When my sister and I would have separate rooms, I decided to appeal to the logical part of my brain about my fear of the dark, telling myself that total darkness allows one to fall into the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) stage faster. Armed with this knowledge, I slept for the first time without light and woke up with no nightmares and feeling well-rested. By overcoming that fear, it changed the way I looked at what fear really was. In conclusion, fear is moments that are considered to be dangerous from an emotional standpoint but is actually the key to feeling a sense of pride and courage when one overcomes these obstacles. What I had regarded as a useless function of emotions just meant to keep people from their potential, I discovered that it was the opposite; fear is meant to allow people to recognize their limits, and have them motivated to push past them, to reach your true potential in
Those who are missing this level could fall victim to several dangerous behaviors. Next, the fourth level focuses on esteem and having other people’s respect. Finally, the last level is self-actualization (Taormina & Gao 156). Self-actualization refers to fulfilling ones goals and improving oneself to reach a point of happiness (Textbook 44). Thus, the main ideas of Maslow’s theory are commonly placed into a pyramid to represent the reaching of each
According to Maslow 's Hierarchy of Needs, self-esteem is the fourth stage and it means prestige and feeling of accomplishment (Maslow, 1943). It includes achievement, status, dominance and self-respect etc. At first, he was an honor and outgoing person. The praise from teachers gave him confidence, he got the respect from others. These boosted his self-esteem.
Family Background: I was born on January 11, 1999 in Miami, Florida. I spent most of my early childhood with my grandparents while my parents worked. My grandfather would wake up in the morning to make sure my brother and I went to school safe and by the time we finished there was always a homemade meal waiting for us, it was something I looked forward to. In spite of us having had a language barrier and them no longer being around the influence they instilled on me is tremendous. From them I learned to have the strength to deal with other challenging obstacles life had to offer.