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Overcoming Shyness Essay

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f you are one of thousands who suffer from shyness or anxiety, follow these simple strategies to build self-confidence while overcoming shyness forever. Many people suffer from anxiety, shyness and a sense of bashfulness in all sorts of social situations. These feelings are normal but, if not dealt with, they can take over and become a habit. Firstly, think about yourself differently. Instead of saying you are shy and anxious, which has negative connotations, try thinking about yourself as reserved. You are someone who prefers to take their time in social situations and that, perhaps, you are selective about whom you engage with. This is more positive and the more you think about yourself this way the more confident you will become. At the …show more content…

You could choose to go to community-based classes where you can practise your conversation skills with your class mates or you could think about hobbies you might be interested in and join a social group that has that interest as its main purpose. This way you will be meeting people who have the same or similar interest to you. When you first join a class or club ask to be introduced. Get a fellow-attendee to introduce you to fellow participants. This will help you connect with other guests over the topic of common interest and pursue a conversation more effortlessly. Finally, learn and practice the art breaking the ice and then how to engage in small talk. Most people are enthusiastic about sharing their stories. Favorite sports, travel destinations, kids, opinions of celebrities, movies and other current events make great conversation starters. Steer away from conversations on social or economic status, health, faith, and other personal details. Watch for gestures of discomfort when you ask questions. Being a valued member of the social group is fundamental to all of us. We want meaningful interactions with other people. These tactics will help you achieve this. When you focus on improving your communication skills while overcoming shyness, you will find that people easily warm to you and you will build

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