Ruth is really hard to like especially when we as reader see what's really going on with Dawn and what she's going through. Ruth always turns to Barbra thinking that one of these times something will change. I really think that that's a bad idea and she shouldn't do that. If i were Ruth and i kept getting nervous calls concerning a child i would try to do so much more than give the mother another chance. Dawn almost killed herself because of her mother not being there for her and loving her like normal parents would do for their children.
Another explanation for her depression, which I believe also to be inconsequential, is the husband’s sudden change in morals, from a charitable attitude of helping people to one driven by financial gain. It isn’t directly stated whether this change is caused by greed or by a new to provide for his wife. The final possible reason, which I believe is the most significant factor, is Sharon’s change in environment, from an intellectually engaging job where she was helping people, to a meer housewife stuck at home. Sharon had dedicated her life to her work, and was remarkable in her field of microbiology, but ended up staying at home to care for Jimmy, which was what I believe lead to her depression. Although Sharon had experienced many traumatic changes in her life, resulting in a depressed and debilitated state, the most significant factor was her change of environment and
Mrs. Ramsay, as well, wants to be woven to the memory of others (Woolf, 92). As a mother, a wife, and a hostess, she tries to protect, support, and harmonize people she interacts with. This similarity leads them to the feeling of imperfection. Even with his contribution to his study, Mr. Ramsay sees himself as insignificant. He suffers from insecurity, and this weakens him mentally, which even makes Mrs. Ramsay to think that her husband would have wrote better books if he had not married (58).
Normally, enough sleep can make our minds clear. However, due to the insomnia which can lack the concentration and focus on the study. For instance, I feel exhausted and cannot pay attention, to listen what teacher say. Also, I cannot effectively memorize the knowledge and concentrate the work what I need to do. When the teacher gives me a lot of work, I cannot cope with the amount of work.
On the other hand parents are the one who course all this problems in that case cause the resulting unprofessional leaders and unbehaviour, because the way they raised their children is unethical. Presently parents are very busy, they don’t take care of their children instead they leave them to the house girls. Parents they don’t teach their children good traits, example to work hard, to do job in team work, how to communicate, to pray, even to know the values of their tradition. Children they engage in watching programmed in the TVs, charting, sitting in the bad groups. That why at this present time children they don’t fear -God, obeys their parents.
It is evident that Melinda was depressed as she was biting her lip and cutting her wrist with the end of a paperclip. Due to her depression, she was not fully understood by many people, such as her parents and Heather. For example, when Melinda cut her wrist, her mom said, "I don’t have time for this Melinda" (88). Since her mom does not bother to take the time to comprehend her situation, it is clear that she does care about how Melinda feels. Moreover, Melinda’s behavioural issues stem from her depression and lack of desire to actively engage in her life.
However, the feel of home disappear when I reach home, as the house is in a mess, everyone is yelling at each other and I had become less and less understanding or familiar with my ‘home’. When I take this issue out, my mother and my sister think that is my problem as they are totally comfort to live in such environment. My sisters’ behavior and my mother’s viewpoint had again make me feel I am the ‘out-group’ person. I start enjoying the time I stay alone, or being together with Alex, and the interval of me going back home have become longer and longer, eve have the feeling of why should I go home, as they did not need
The more intense their feelings are towards their parents, the more real the veldt is. The setting also fuels the major conflict (person vs person). The veldt is described as a hot and abnormal location which symbolises the feelings of Wendy and Peter. The nursery was supposed to be a way to treat the children’s neurosis but the outcome turned out to be the opposite of what they hoped (children grew extremely attached to the nursery and the veldt). The HappyLife Home, which was purchased by George, is an automated house that does everything for the Hadley’s.
House-blessing is held at the time of house foundation where the owner of the house requests a pundit to perform rituals to make the house strong and safe from evils. Shama is very much influenced by this kind of custom. Therefore, she always irritates Mr Biswas to have a house-blessing ceremony whenever they build a house, she says that if Mr Biswas will not call pundit Hari to bless the house she will not live in that house. Shama keeps on insisting Mr Biswas to have a house-blessing and a shop-blessing when they live in their separate house. Naipaul is concerned about the miserable poor condition and inability of Mr. Biswas to conduct a ceremony.