Peter Levine once said, "I have come to the conclusion that human beings are born with an innate capacity to triumph over trauma. I believe not only that trauma is curable, but that the healing process can be a catalyst for profound awakening—a portal opening to emotional and genuine spiritual transformation." Nikki Grimes has gone through many traumatic experiences in her life, such as foster care, abandonment, a parent with mental illness, and abuse. However, despite her hardships, she was able to inspire many by rising above them and reaching her dreams of becoming a writer in her memoir, Ordinary Hazards. The most prominent piece of trauma Grimes had to deal with at a young age was her mother's alcoholic schizophrenia, which led her to have insecurities about how much her mother loved her. To cope with her mental illness, Grimes' mother turned to alcohol addiction. This left Grimes feeling a sense of dismissiveness and abandonment from her mother. Reflecting on her experiences, Nikki writes, "Why did mom love liquor more than Carol, more than me?" (Grimes 59). …show more content…
Early in her life, her father was not very present. When she asked why, he said that he did not know how to take care of little girls. So, he decided it would be best to have someone with experience take care of them instead. In response to this, Nikki writes, "I wasn't sure what kind of answer that was, but I couldn't help thinking maybe Carol and me should've been little boys" (Grimes 88). This further added to the uncertainty Grimes had about her parents' love for their children. However, her father does rekindle their relationship through black activist literature. This is shown on page 285 when she says, "The more I read, the madder I got... but my father kept me dreaming of what words I might bring to the world" (Grimes 285). This period only further inspired her to work for her
Melinda uses a hyperbole to over exaggerate the situation of being trapped in the janitor’s closet with the rapist, Andy Evans. Comparatively, Hara Estroff Marano, the author of The Art of Resilience, writes, “Resilient people don’t walk between the raindrops, they have scars to show for their experience” (Marano). To get her point across, Marano had to make an overstatement by telling the readers that resilient people don’t take the easy route, they have
She confronts the fact that the doctors and nurses who were treating ill patients, were themselves suffering both emotionally and physically. Having just experienced the trauma that was bestowed by Hurricane Katrina, these caretakers suddenly found themselves working around the clock to treat others. They did all of this without having the necessary time to mentally recover, which proved that they were simply unable to perform at the highest level. “Lamm’s rationing directive rankled for many reasons” (Fink, 47). Not only professionally, but it is also well established that experiencing a trauma has detrimental effects on general human psychology, “The stress of the disaster narrowed people’s fields of vision, as if they wore blinders to anyone’s experience but their own” (Fink, 151).
The novel that she co-wrote with her father
She loved her and cared for her as she went through high school. Her grandmother gave her hope and inspiration, advice and warning, and most of all love. She cared for Melba so much and hated all of the torture that the black people
“Astonishing and extraordinary! You have to read this book. It will mesmerize you, confound you, and eventually inspire you!” Which was stated by a best selling author, Jack Canfield. In the nonfiction book, Scared Selfless, by Michelle Stevens she develops her theme, that not only does one need to know about the abuse and trauma that individuals go through but how to seek recovery.
She talks about her father and his dependence on alcohol, her mother’s mental illness, and the problems the rest of her family had to deal with. Her family was almost continuously digging through the garbage for food scraps to relieve their starvation. Also, her family was constantly doing the “skedaddle”; running away from the law. I could not imagine having the life that she had. Some of the stories that she wrote about are unbelieveable because of how terrible her parents treated her.
Her mother died when she was at a young age, though that made her become more determined with the desire to expose her mother to the world and gain new
She knew that a family's love for one another is the most resilient strength. Therefore, her husband was able to live through his brother's death and in return, she was his shepherd "I helped your father get safely through this world" (Baldwin 42). Consequently, she can see the similarities between her late husband and her youngest child, how they both carry the weight of their blues onto their shoulders unlike our narrator, who had instead internalized it. She must open the eyes of her eldest son to this tragic narrative of the world, he needs to look out for his fellow black brother, “I guess I didn’t want to believe this. I guess she [the mother] saw this in my face” (Baldwin 42) he quotes.
She started experiencing the brutal truth of the outer world as when her mother was alive she was given every comfort never made her realize that she was a slave. This clearly means that to deal with the hardship around
Her book describes the hardship and struggle she faced growing up in Little Rock and what it was like to be hurt and abused all throughout high school.
Stephanie J. Shannon’s story is one of struggle, survival, and healing as an example of how to regain
Everyone needs to find the endurance to express themselves when they go through trauma, and Anderson had Melinda express herself through art, as well as comparing herself to others, and having conflicts with others. “Mr. Freeman: “This has meaning. Pain.” The bell rings.
While Tanya felt helpless and that her efforts were in vain, she reached a fork in the road and had to decide whether or not she was getting anything effective accomplished. In the end, Tanya, along with other community organizers, created a healing zone for anyone suffering trauma and offered the community hope and healing. This concept of hope and healing is the central message
She seems to be asking her father for his time even though he has no more to give. She has previously been neglected by her father and she feels that she deserved more of his time. It becomes obvious that the speaker has yearned for a relationship with her father for a long time when she says, “i wish you were rich so i could take it all”(line 10). She longs for some time with her father and wishes that he had more time so she could have a relationship with him. The relationship between the speaker and her father has seemingly been nonexistent her entire life meaning that he was not
She relates the experiences of her father. “When the overseer untied