For better understanding, the terms listed below are defined consequently and functionally on how they are used in the study.
Illegitimate. It pertains to those children whose biological parents are not married at the time of the child’s birth. They are the respondents of this study. Parenting Style. It describes the four types of parenting behavior when disciplining children. In this study, it is categorized into: authoritative, authoritarian, permissive and neglectful parenting style. Authoritative Parenting Style. Refers to the rearing style wherein the parent tends to become a typical mother or father where they support their illegitimate child in any aspect with proper guidance. Authoritarian Parenting Style.
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It is one of the variables in this study where an illegitimate child can learn to manage or control his or her emotion in different situation. Motivating oneself. It is one of the variables in this study where an illegitimate child inspire and encourage his or herself that everything happens for a reason. Empathy. It is one of the variables in this study that where an illegitimate child understand the situation that he or she where in. Social skills. It is one of the variables in this study where an illegitimate child can still cope up in his or her environment.
Self-esteem. It is the self-confidence and self-respect of an illegitimate child. It can be high or low. In this study, it is measured by Sorensen Self-Esteem.
Emotions. It is where an illegitimate child has been feeling. One that has been measuring in this
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Low extraversion or Introversion is defined as someone who tends to be shut-ins. Introverts are more likely to be people “of few words”, people who are usually quiet, thoughtful, reserved, introspective and more on contemplation. Introverts are more comfortable being alone and living by themselves. They depend on their alone time to recharge. They also tend to keep their social circle limited. (Jung, 1967)
Agreeableness. Agreeableness concerns your orientation to others. It is a concept that explains on how you generally interact with others. High agreeableness is related to healthy midlife adjustment and strong social support. These are people who are friendly and endearing to others. A person who scores high in agreeableness, tends to be friendly and optimistic, to be respected, well-liked, and sensitive to the needs of others, likely have few enemies, and are sympathetic (Lebowitz, 2016).
Conscientiousness. Conscientiousness factor has been linked to conformity, achievement, and seeking out security and excitement. It is also strongly related to post-training learning, effective job performance, and intrinsic and extrinsic career success. Those high in conscientiousness tends to value duty, order, self-discipline and achievement. While a person who is low in conscientiousness is much more likely to procrastinate, impulsive, impetuous and to be and disorganized (Lebowitz,
Retrieved from https://webcourses.ucf.edu/courses/1219515/files?preview=58099701); Published in the same slides, various adoption studies investigated theories of criminal behavior and found that “the criminality of the biological father was a strong predictor of the child’s behavior [and] when the biological and adopted parents were criminals that increased the chances of the child becoming delinquent” (Hagan. (2016). Introduction to Criminology (9th Edition). [PowerPoint slides]. Retrieved from https://webcourses.ucf.edu/courses/1219515/files?preview=58099701). Noting that Aileen’s father was a known criminal and that her adopted parents (her grandparents) were also deviant, the conclusion can be drawn that Aileen was not only genetically predestined to become deviant but she
Mostly all couple is programmed in this manner. When they have no option they love the adopted child and they love their own neglecting the adopted child without caring for the child’s psyche when they are blessed with a child. Kurt Vonnegut compares them to a machine which has neither love nor emotions. Human mind has some criteria to find such rules and regulation for others and their own. Sacred Miracle cave is polluted and it resembles resemble like Moby Dick, The Great White Whale.
However, the author argues that the problem of having the “unwanted” children will cause problems in the future. One of the problem is many people from young to older ages are in jail because the crimes they do. Most of these people were born to poor families which usually trigger them
This style involves setting limits, but being flexible (not making few rules or creating unquestionable laws/rules), encouraging responsibility and paying attention to and being sympathetic towards the child (not using any discipline at all or using very strict punishment), and consider themselves as guides (not authorities or friends). What are the limitations of Baumrind’s description of parenting styles? Baumrind didn’t consider socioeconomic, cultural, or temperamental distinctions, didn’t focus on the parent’s actions, didn’t acknowledge that some authoritarian parents are also loving, and did not recognize that some permissive and lenient parents provide a great amount of verbal guidance to their children. What seems to be the worst parenting
Parents also have to be aware of problems post adoption. Children are often asking many questions, such as “ Why did you chose to adopt me”, or “ Did my birth parents not love me?”. The role of an adoptive parent is rewarding, however it can be difficult. Children also often wonder why their parents left them. Being exposed to substances in the womb, such as alcohol and drugs, no structure in family environment, inadequate nutrition, and placement at an older age can all put a child at risk for these problems.
Psychosocial theories "work from the viewpoint that deviant sexual behavior is a response to external factors and that there is an interconnection between psychological and sociological variables that influence sexual behavior. Sexual behavior is a learned response to particular conditions, and deviant sexual behavior is the outcome of inappropriate socialization. This may result from personal experiences, such as childhood sexual abuse, or be influenced by general factors, such as pornography. " Alcoholic and explosive caregivers raised Aileen, that behavior was later reflected in Aileen herself. At a very young age, she became pregnant after being raped by one of her grandfather's friend.
Closed adoptions remove all trace of a birth parent -- some even going as far as to create a new birth certificate for their adopted child with the names of the adoptive parents on it and the names of the birth parents removed (“Introduction to Issues” 1) Open adoptions help eliminate the feelings of neglect and abandonment an adopted child typically feels when his birth parents give him up. Professionals raise the topic of the psychological effects that come from closed adoption and how “shrouding adoption in secrecy and shame [leads] to long-term emotional problems for children and parents” (“Introduction to Issues” 1). The “secrecy” surrounding an adopted child’s origins makes adoption seem like something negative that adopted children should be ashamed of. However, adoption shows the highest form of love and should be celebrated, not shunned. A family who actively chooses to take in another child and loves and cares for him like their own exemplify the maximum amount of goodwill and love in this world.
The foundation, on which Baby’s development was formed, was fractured before she was born. Baby was raised in an unstable and derelict environment, paired with absence of familial support, which hindered her childhood development. The stigma she encountered from her social networks enhanced her struggle with moral contradiction and personal integrity. Consequently, her understanding of social and moral values deviated from societal norms. I.
Permissive parenting style is when parents tend to be lenient and may only step in when there is a serious problem. There may be few consequences for misbehavior because parents have an attitude of "kids will be kids. " Permissive parenting is potentially a harmful style of parenting simply because permissive parents take on more of a friend role than a parent role. Few rules are set for the children of permissive parents, and the rules are inconsistent when they do exist. This lack of structure causes children to grow up with little self-discipline and self-control.
The Outsiders and Family Relationships One would think that conventional families are the most beneficial to a child’s mental, as well as physical health, but that is not always the case. There are many perfect parents, in every sense of the word, that have children that, well, aren’t good in people in general. Many unconventional families may also produce phenomenally great children. Sure, conventional families have more of an advantage in raising their kids, because they have the resources to do so, but there are exceptions.
I want to explain mainly what the parenting style are. According to Baumrind and her colleagues, there are three parenting styles. These are authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive parenting styles. Baumrind focused on communication and interaction between parents and child. Authoritarian parenting style; parents who have an authoritarian parenting style set strict rules for their children and rules are important for these parents.
In fact, Part III of Random Family demonstrates the undesirable occurrences a person endures as a result of mal-parenting
Some of those factors include, family orientation, socio-economic status, and social structures or demographics. Diem and Pizarro (2010) discussed the relationship between social structures and family homicides or familicides and how these types of homicides are brought on by demographics within the household. Diem and Pizarro (2010) additionally discussed the broadly different types of family homicide such as the murder of a parent by an offspring (parricide), the murder of offspring by parent (filicide), the murder of a sibling (siblicide) and murder of a spouse (intimate partner homicide). There are a number of theoretically known causes that lead to family homicide such as, jealousy, stress, rivalry and a disruption within the
Ted Bundy was born as an illegitimate child and his grandparents felt humiliated when his mother gave birth. Charles Manson was rejected by his parents and born to a 16-year-old prostitute an alcoholic David Burke awaits was adopted when he was just a few days old and had a travelling child heard of Paddy theft and bullying. These bitches all experienced dreadful child size and has played a crucial part of who they
The connectedness hypothesis states that many adolescent will continuously rely on their parents for support throughout their lives; thus, when additional children join a family, first born(s) may feel threatened (Lam 2100). If this situation is not treated carefully the first born may develop traits such as neurotic and criminal (Badger and Reddy 46). Nextly, middle children are known to shine athletically, and may find themselves acting as the peacemaker in their family dynamics. (Combs-Braughn 17; Eckstein and Kaufman 72) Furthermore, many second born children have the ability to feel more comfortable among peer groups, and leaving