Ajoke Adebayo
PSY 210
Beiye Gu
10/5/2017
PARENTING STYLE IN UNITED STATE AND AROUND THE WORLD
Parenting is similar around the world. Every parent shows love and support to their children regardless of race, culture and ethnicity. The only different in parenting is discipline, values and cultural beliefs. There are other factors that can influence ways of parenting, which includes personal experiences, traditions and values.
Personal experience plays a lot of roles in parenting a child, when I was growing up my mother vow that none of her children will be full house wife, due to her horrible experiences in the hands of my late father’s family. My mother and father had good relationship, father loved mother so much he believes his wife do not need to work. My mother was a stay home mom. When daddy died due to accident, my extended family took over all his property and drove mom away. Mother suffered a lot and vows that all her children will be
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In Africa children do not pay bill until they finished school or married, as long they are with their parents, but in US parents and children share bills together. You are also not allowed to have boyfriend until you are independent, but in America society, even elementary school kids have boyfriend.
The parenting styles we use are very important in our children lives.
Works Cited
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"Because I Said So! (Cover Story)." Australian Parents, Jun/Jul2006, p. 16. EBSCOhost,
This style involves setting limits, but being flexible (not making few rules or creating unquestionable laws/rules), encouraging responsibility and paying attention to and being sympathetic towards the child (not using any discipline at all or using very strict punishment), and consider themselves as guides (not authorities or friends). What are the limitations of Baumrind’s description of parenting styles? Baumrind didn’t consider socioeconomic, cultural, or temperamental distinctions, didn’t focus on the parent’s actions, didn’t acknowledge that some authoritarian parents are also loving, and did not recognize that some permissive and lenient parents provide a great amount of verbal guidance to their children. What seems to be the worst parenting
Every way that a parent goes about raising their child will have a unique result. Written by Bianca Mgbemere and Rachel Telles, “Types of Parenting Styles and How to Identify Yours” is an article outlining different approaches to parenting and the outcomes each of these approaches has. Each of these major parenting styles are classified by the “different reactions” that the “children which they are used on” harbor (Telles & Mgbemere 1). Telles and Mgbemere expand on four types of parenting styles: neglectful, permissive, authoritative, and authoritarian. Estep, Hanna, et al. utilize these same parenting styles in their study outlined in the report “THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PARENTING STYLES, GENERAL DEVIANCE, ACADEMIC DISHONESTY, AND INFIDELITY”.
Parenting style is one of many factors that strongly influence child development. It is most often created by their cultural background. Parenting practices vary from differ culture ultimately determines the outcomes of child development. Each culture has specific styles of parenting that instill values on children particular to that culture. While comparing Indian and American parenting styles in discipline, respect, and mindset, it is clear that parents are influenced by their culture.
Another example of the permissive parenting style shown
Since Jeannette was responsible for the budget that summer and Rex was questioned about the use of the money. The Walls parents are not disciplinary over the children when they misbehave which is another characteristic of authoritative parenting. “Their disciplinary methods are supportive rather than punitive”Psychology: What They Are and Why They Matter.” The Four Styles of Parenting.
Ceballo analyzed immigrant and U.S born parents using authoritarian parenting style to encourage academic success. She emphasized on the impact of parent’s commitment, facilitation of their child’s autonomy, non-verbal expression and access to supportive faculty, to academic success of a Latino student. Ceballos interviews U.S born Latinos/as who were from low-income families and who attending Yale University as the first in their family to get a college degree. Throughout these interviews she discovered that working-class parents viewed education as the primary source for social and economical mobility. Therefore they could not directly help with academic work but were more lenient on their parenting as long style as it benefited their education.
There are four major recognized parenting styles: authoritative, neglectful, permissive, and authoritarian. Each parenting style uses a different approach to discipline.
I want to explain mainly what the parenting style are. According to Baumrind and her colleagues, there are three parenting styles. These are authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive parenting styles. Baumrind focused on communication and interaction between parents and child. Authoritarian parenting style; parents who have an authoritarian parenting style set strict rules for their children and rules are important for these parents.
This last concept is notable because cultural differences in parenting choices may affect how the state (and society) respond to non-traditional ideas. While some are benign, such as ignoring a crying baby, some are seen as less benign, such as physical punishment. A last consideration in discussing parental rights, responsibilities, and punishments is the potential for cultural variation. In the United States, parents are assumed to possess the intrinsic right to raise their child in a manner of their choosing.
Authoritative parents are sensitive and loving to their child, like permissive parents, however they also demand respect and responsibly from their child, like authoritarian parents. This type of middle ground parenting lies the foundation for emotional stability to be built up in a child. The loving and sensitive parenting fosters stable and assured attachments while it also prevents kids from developing internalizing problems; at the same time, enforcing limits makes children less likely to become involved in drug and alcohol use, juvenile delinquency, or other antisocial behavior. The unstable person, on the other hand, is subject to fairly wide, frequent, often unpredictable mood shifts, harmful impulsivity and inappropriate intense anger
Parenting styles usually do not go into full effect until the child can understand and react. According to Hibbard and Walton (2014), parenting styles are extended to two factors as to what parenting styles will teach their children. The two factors include: Demandingness, which is the standards or demands that are set by the parents. Responsiveness pertains to how the parents react and communicate with their children (Hibbard & Walton, 2014, pg. 270). There are four known parenting styles: Authoritarian are parents who are coercive.
How to parent an eight-year-old? Well lucky for me I have one that I live with every day. Parenting style is something that I believe you develop over time. We take things we see from those around us, how we grew up and sometimes we just figure out what works best for us through trial and error. Our texts breaks parenting down in through groups Authoritarian, Permissive, and Authoritative.
The parents believe that they are correct in the ways they are raising their children are going to be similar in both categories. Few parents will admit that styles of parenting is wrong so, they are going to either have a bias or not be open to critical analysis of their current parenting methods. This does not mean that one style is particularly better than the
Different parenting styles can have an effect on children’s needs and behaviours; this is because the way parents raise their child and the way they are brought up can have an effect on the way they behave in certain situations as they may have different views. Children can learn different behaviours and attitudes from their parents and the way they are brought up. Children have different needs that parents need to meet in order to make them feel comfortable in their environment, for example a need a child may have could be security. It is important that children have security in their home as they need to feel safe and secure in their home environment when they are with their parents. Another one of children’s needs is love and secure emotions,
College educated families, value autonomy, questioning the status quo, and creativity. Both parenting styles enforce behaviors of careers similar to their own. (S. Jackson, Lecture, February 9, 2015) It is important to talk to guardians over their view of discipline and what they expect from their children. There is a big difference in parenting styles.