Second, verbal punishments, such as insulting, undermining and devaluating, a cause a child to feel as inferior or unimportant member of a society. Introduction Parenting is a process of supporting and taking care of the emotional, cognitive, social and intellectual development of a child from the period of infancy to adulthood. The process involves various members of a society including parents, extended families and other community members. However, the techniques and strategies used in bringing up a child vary from one society to the other. This is mainly because parent 's perception is highly influenced by cultural values that stem from the cultural discourses and long-lived societal philosophies. Based on these factors, parents are categorized …show more content…
According to her, an authoritarian parenting is a style that refers to parents who demand but not respond. Such parents allow little open dialogue with a child and expect the child to follow a strict set of rules without much explanation. They usually rely on punishment to demand obedience or correct a child behavior. In contrast, authoritative parents are more open to a child and rely on advice and encouragement to teach a lesson. To apply these into the context of Eritrean society and create relevance to the parenting styles practiced in the country, the first two parenting styles, (authoritative and authoritarian) will be used in the essay. This is mainly because the authoritative and authoritarian styles are the most common and widely practiced among the Eritrean ethnic groups. Therefore, the essay is tended to provide a brief answer to the question, to what extent do the authoritative and authoritarian parenting styles affect child development in Eritrea? To provide a concrete answer to the question, the essay is organized and structured as …show more content…
Therefore, all members of the community have a collective responsibility of transforming cultural values and making sure if the newly born offspring is adopting those values properly as needed. Therefore, the life patterns and characters that a child is required to inherit and develop emanates from the culture. Based on the culturally constructed values and norms, community leaders formulate principles and guidelines for every member of the community. In this case, the assumption of a good child is framed and conceptualized as the one who retains and grows up with the values and norms reflect the specific culture. A child fails to follow the pathways that the community as whole set leads to a severe punishment and isolation from the community. Therefore, children, as other members of the community, are required to accept and follow community rules and fulfill the demands of the ethnic
Styles of Parenting 1) Authoritarian parenting is a style of parenting where the parents provide low levels of warmth and support accompanied by a high level of control over the children. An excellent example of authoritarian parenting is depicted in That 70's show by the main protagonist's (Eric) father, Red Foreman. The show's plot often is driven by Eric's attempt to hide his hijinks from his strict father in fear of punishment or the classic "my-foot-in-your-ass" threats. Red does not often show any warmth or support towards his son, whether it be spending quality time together or giving any type of compliment.
The authoritative style of parenting has the following characteristics: an expectation of independence and mature behaviour from the child and clear setting of standards by the parents; firm enforcement of rules and standards, using commands and sanctions when necessary; encouragement of the child’s independence and individuality. Baumrind (1991), stated that in parental control and support, authoritative parenting style is high. She found that the
I have also learned an important lesson. We never get the opportunity back for each time the parent pushes the child away. I should try my best to acknowledge the child’s feelings and meet the child’s interests, needs and wishes at any time. 6. Experiential Activity: (game, activity, hands-on, role-playing) Topics/Titles: Giant: Explore authoritarian parenting style
Identify one (1) television show or movie that depicts an authoritarian style of parenting, one (1) that depicts an authoritative style of parenting, and one (1) that depicts a permissive style of parenting. Explain the effect that each of the three (3) styles has on the children. The type of discipline you use can have a dramatic effect on your child’s development. Your discipline strategies can have a major impact on the type of relationship you have with your child. The different approaches to discipline can even influence a child’s mood and temperament into adulthood.
I want to explain mainly what the parenting style are. According to Baumrind and her colleagues, there are three parenting styles. These are authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive parenting styles. Baumrind focused on communication and interaction between parents and child. Authoritarian parenting style; parents who have an authoritarian parenting style set strict rules for their children and rules are important for these parents.
This essay describe the importance and results of parents impact they have on their children 's social development, which involved their children learning values, knowledge and skills enabling them to relate to others effectively. Furthermore, describing the role of parents, what influences that role, parents as role models and how parents implement different parenting styles and their impact? As well as focusing on children 's first relationships, attachments and how they relate to others as they mature to adulthood. The role of a parent is to take care of a child biological needs, provide safe, nurturing and supportive environment, to protect and guide, motivation and manage discipline however reality is that these are not always met.
Families that have a cultural capital have concerted cultivation. Children with who have concerted cultivation have a better use of verbal interactions with people. The parents are more involved in the child’s life. The parents sign them up for actives and encourage them. Unlike accomplishment by natural growth where the parents do not encourage their children.
Authoritarian style is the bossy parents who do not consider their children’s opinion, demanding and rather cold have been found to have negative effect on the children. Too strict authoritarian control (Farrington 1989) and harsh punishment (Farrington et al. 2003) appear to be linked to high levels of delinquent and antisocial behavior (Hoeve et al., 2009). Permissive style are the wimpy and lax parents, who are non-punitive and warm towards their children; authoritative style are the parent who set firm rules but warm and allow their children some autonomy. Finding shows that adolescents should have certain autonomy to grow and develop a sense of self (Steinberg & Silk 2002). Yet, too much autonomy can result in negative outcomes such as
The parents who practice this style often have a nice structure and schedule for their children. They also have consequences and expectations. The difference between authoritative parenting and authoritarian parenting is that children with authoritative parents have a better line of communication. Unlike authoritarian children, authoritative children feel that their voice matters and that their opinion is listened too, which will allow the parents to engage with the child and have more insight into the child’s life and understanding. Hughes and Morin could agree that authoritative discipline tends to result in happy and successful children, as well as children who are more likely to make good
The children of the Community are raised with a set of rules engrained into their brains. The most important rule of the Community is that they are forbidden to lie, with a focus on the younger community members. They are required to share every aspect of their lives, feelings and dreams, with each other. These Rules are enforced by speakers around the Community, in public places and in private homes, to ensure that all members of the society are obeying all the laws. They have no privacy.
Trifan, T. A., Stattin, H., & Tilton-Weaver, L. (2014). Have authoritarian parenting practices and roles changed in the last 50 years? Authoritarian parenting in the last 50 years. Journal of Marriage and Family, 76(4), 744-761. doi:10.1111/jomf.12124 Uji, M., Sakamoto, A., Adachi, K., & Kitamura, T. (2014).
Researchers outlined that a child’s temperament and reactions reflect the efforts that parents show towards their development rather than their parenting style. They indicated that the most important ingredient in a child’s development and parenting is the degree of warmth shown by parents versus rejection. It was analyzed that parental rejection has a negative effect on children from all walks of life. It is said that when the child encounters rejection (little or no attention) from parents they express or become ‘hostile, aggressive children’ and have it difficult to find or keep a meaningful relationship (Khalegue et al 2007). And as such they develop psychological problems that require professional intervention.
The quality of parenting style is very essential for children’s development. It will deeply and permanently affect children’s behaviors. In fact Haack (2014) suggest that corporal punishment helps to develop children’s moral. Children who come from strict family are more likely to be well mannered. However, there are some limitations and the result is not always be true.
How temperament, attachment and parenting styles contribute to child behavior Parenting goes beyond the requirements for meeting the simple survival needs of the child, and the parents have a significant leadership influence on how children turn out, including their personality, emotional development, and behavioral habits, as well as a multitude of other factors. It is essential for the overall development of children that parents be existent enough to support them, and this support nurtures confidence and growth in countless areas. One of the more important areas is the parent’s emotional involvement in their child’s lives. Sometimes, being physically present is not enough.
This study provides yet another reason why the authoritative parenting style is indeed the best form of parenting. Though scientists cannot directly identify the reason why children with authoritarian parents are shown to be heavier than those with authoritative parents, it appears that children with authoritative parents also have the ability to participate in family discussions and decisions that in turn help themselves (Salaman). The article mostly focuses on children up to the age of 11. It also only focuses on one point in time instead of the course of childhood. Puberty generally takes place between the ages of 9-16.