People In Life Relationship Relationships

PROFILE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

It is not compulsory to enter into relationship with everyone. And don’t either assume that any relationship exists between you and anyone else until you have profiled and determined that it actually exists. This is necessary for people intending to involve in new relationships to avoid disappointments. Your assumptions may be wrong and result to chronic heartbreaks as what you assume to be true may be false.
Thus you need to profile every relationship to know whether it worth’s investing your life on it. Let me share a story and through it stress the need to test your assumptions.
I once attended a management training programme where the facilitator told a wonderful story of what happened several years back in a psychiatric hospital where he did his medical internship. According to the story there were two psychiatric patients among others that

This will help you to choose and know how to relate with each person. They are as follows:

The Nowhere People
The first group is the nowhere people. They are called the nowhere people because they aren’t going nowhere despite being in a hard motion all the time.
In life journey you would evidently see people who are going nowhere yet they are in constant motion all the same. In actual sense these group of people are stepping backward. They are discouragers in the circle of relationship with pessimistic and doubting binoculars. Never do they believe in themselves, or in their dreams, no and not in the dreams of others. They are naysayers. They are out to kill their dreams and yours also.
Associating with them will easily lead to obscurity and oblivion. If you can, do help to push them up into actionable and result oriented motion. And if you can’t, take a walk from them or else you will begin to sing their song very soon.
If you don’t know where you are going you end up going everywhere and or