A fast moving society can have its advantages and disadvantages. Perry Patetic in his passage “Fast Moving Society” argues that the advantages in living in a mobile society are outweighed by the disadvantages. The author supports his claim by first explaining how families might separate by distance. He continues by giving an example of a family that had to separate. The author’s purpose is to point out that the distance could tear a family apart in order to discourage people from moving to different places in order to maintain strong relationships. The author adopts a judgemental tone for people everywhere.
People should not have to stay close to family or friends to maintain their healthy relationships that they had while they are together.
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Patetic illustrates this issue by saying “We tend to lack the close supportive relationships that people in former generations enjoyed”. Patetic says this is because with technology (cars, trains, planes), families can’t find the time to see or make contact with each other very often. This argument is a problem that can be solved because there is technology (social media) that can really help with this problem. A good example of this technology is Facetime, an app that a person can use to have face to face communication even though they are miles away. Facetime is a good example because many people can use it. Although it lacks human touch, it is still useful because you can see face to face and see expressions.
In my personal experience, living in such a mobile society means that the time spent apart causes the time spent together to be more meaningful. I have family on the East Coast that comes down to California once every two years. The time spent with them is more meaningful for sure. People don’t have to forget their relationship due to distance. There are families overseas that make sure to have time to chat. The distance isn’t the problem, it’s the effort that both of the people puts in for
The way our society is now people lose their close relationships with people they love due to mass transportation and a quick moving society. Perry Patetic in this excerpt, argues that “We often lose track of old friends”. That is caused by “living in such a highly mobile society”. The author supports his argument by first confessing that having such a high society it is easy to leave a family or loved one. He continues by claiming a new transportation is bad and loses relationships.
They are constantly on their devices; cell phones, iPads, laptops. If there is any interaction, the topic involves social media. Ray Bradbury the author of “The Veldt” took notice of technologies adverse effects when this short story was written in the 1950’s, and responded with a fairly accurate depiction of how technology affects relationships. Bradbury uses the lack of family interaction to show how technology causes a disconnect
‘The way we become more human is by paying attention to each other,’ he said. ‘It shows how much you care.’” (Richtel). This over usage of technology creates limited contact with other people, reducing the intimacy of relationships.
Without friendships and bonds humans can grow very depressed and lonely, but with phones and computers people have access to thousands of others ready to be befriended. Technology has miraculously transformed our
“I am not the same having seen the moon shine on the other side of the world” -Mary Anne Radmacher. In his excerpt, Perry Patetic suggests that we lack the close, supportive relationships that people in former generations experienced. The author supports his claim by first demonstrating how technology advancements make it easier to move away. He continues by explaining how long-distance relationships lack closeness. The author’s purpose is to inform younger generations the disadvantages of a fast-moving society so that family and friends will remain a first priority.
This chapter of Reclaiming Conversation by Sherry Turkle essentially focused on the effect technology can have on the bond of a family. The writer depicts different families to prove how social media has creates a false sense of closeness in family relations, when in reality it drives us further apart. As explained in the section named “Left to their own devices”, a teenager named Alli finds herself in a situation most families are currently in. Alli is not able to rely on her family for emotional support and instead seeks comfort from thousands of strangers online. This is a common situation in which teenagers feel more comfortable going out of their way on social media to obtain advice from strangers, instead of having a conversation with
It has made communicating with my mom and dad much easier. They work in aviation and are away from home often, yet through Facetime, I am able to talk and see them everyday. America’s gift to my generation is Technology. Technology has saved so much money. What used to be carrying a book, is a file on an iPad or iPhone.
The distance between them is yet another obstacle from getting their family together and it gives them the motivation and inspiration to love and care
The communal ties of interconnectedness have been frayed as well. Technological innovations, such as the TV and the computer, have exacerbated social isolation; therefore, leaving
According to this theory, nature of love is changing fundamentally and it can create either opportunities for democracy or chaos in life (Beck & Beck- Gernsheim, 1995). Love, family and personal freedom are three key elements in this theory. This theory states that the guidelines, rules and traditions which used to rule personal relationships have changed. “Individuals are now confronted with an endless series of choices as part of constructing, adjusting, improving or dissolving the unions they form with others” (Giddens, 2006). For instance, marriage nowadays depends on the willingness of the couples rather than for economic purposes or the urge to form family.
According to Lindsey Craig in her article “Technology -- we all love it and we all use it, but how is it affecting us?” she stated that “Technology is making us more alone, because instead of interacting with our friends in person, we are dependent on using our phones or tablets. We start to compare
We had so many problems before and were drifting apart I did not think we would be able to resolve those problems if we were in two different states and could only talk by letter and an occasion phone call. I also realized that maybe I was not ready for the kind of commitment that would come with dating a guy who would constantly be moving around the world. While long distance relationships are not impossible, they certainly are harder especially when you are only eighteen and want someone who is in close proximity to you, not in a different country. In the book Lane, Abigail, and Gooch define proximity as being, “a component of attraction theory that is based on the idea that we are more likely to be attracted to people who are in closer proximity to us than to those who are not” (121). My ex and I were always together when we were dating, we spent more days in a week together than not, so for us to go months at a time to years at a time would be a difficult adjustment for us.
Many people, especially young people, have been consumed with the use of social networking. Nobody can take their eyes off of their phones, and that has resulted in real relationship connections withering. When a family is eating together or watching a movie in the living room to have some family bonding time, children lose attention and instead focus more on what 's going on in social media. When people hang out with their friends, they are still consumed with their phones even though
It helps people express their inner self. For example, some use technology because they don’t like to have direct contact with people, while others use it to increase their contacts. But this thing wouldn’t affect the peoples personality? They also say that, social media helps connect the physical distances with family and friends who live in another state and it is a bit difficult to stay in contact with relatives and friends without using technology because of the distance in between. But, does Skype substitute the intense feelings and sense of belonging experienced through human face to face interaction?
People also stay connected and interact with one another, with their peers, people of similar interests, and even their family members. This helps strengthen their relationship even if they are busy with their daily routines. In addition, social media sites have become a platform for youth with similar interest or common discipline to get together, building connections and opportunities for their respective careers. Youth claims that social media not only makes their lives easier and efficient, it has become their lifestyle. While social media has seems to bring people together and help one another stay connected, it has created social isolation in regards to BBC News report.