Remember how many bad friendships you had in your life? How many people let you down, those who, with complete disregard for your feelings, just lied and betrayed you? And, how somehow it felt so easy to be in the presence of your best friend? But, did your best friend actually made you a better person, remained with you through thick and thin, or they ended up forgotten in the tides of time? What is a good friend for you? Well, you can answer that one by yourself. For me, a good friend is someone that I feel free around them, with whom I have fun, I don’t need to hide my true self and they understand me, without passing judgments on me. They will feel embarrassed by my idiot pranks, they will be the proudest cheerers during my victories and they will be the last to leave my home during my downfalls. They will know me, correct me, and know when something is wrong, show concern but without …show more content…
Be surprised by them, their talents and celebrate them whenever you can. Though you have to be the mountains around their river that keeps it flowing to the sea, you can also enjoy the ride as they discover their own identities. There is no perfection in being a child, or parent. It is important to develop this relationship of trust and friendship before they become adolescents. At that stage, they will seek fiercely for their own independence and try to stay away from you as much as they can. Remember the age when you felt ashamed of your parents, even though you loved them still? This is a reminder that you are not their “friend”, that they will have other friends and that they will seek other people with whom to socialize and learn from. Though this is a phase that will eventually pass, they will grow out of it and come back to you. The stronger your educational bases are set at the early ages, your openness to them and their trust with you, the easier it will be for both of you to cross the raging waters of teenage
Friends look out for you and teach you new things, be kind and treat everyone the way you want to be
In life, a true friend is considered to be one of the most important things a person can have. Sometimes friends get in trouble, and when they do it’s your responsibility to help them. The soldier from Panos Ioannides’ story “Gregory” and Ronnie Quiller from Joseph Whitehill’s “The Day of the Last Rock Fight” both have friends that they constantly try to keep out of trouble. When in trouble, a friend will do everything in their power to assist you.
In the novel, The Outsiders, S.E. Hinton focuses on the theme everyone goes through trials but its how you go through them and what you take away that define you. “A true friend is an angel sent from God, he stands by your side through the good as well as the bad, and loves you when you don’t love yourself, dear friend, thanks for being my lifeline.” -Unknown. Friends are your lifeline and can get you through everything. They love you when you think your not doing so well, they’ll never turn you down when you’re going through a tough time and are there every step of the way.
Coming of Age Coming-of-age is difficult for both teens and parents. The parents often have trouble parenting when the teenager is disrespectful and confused. Teenagers do not realize that their parents have been in the same shoes as them and know what is best for them.. Coming-of-age involves recognizing different perspectives.
Friendships are tested in many ways. Often, close friends, will come to each other with their darkest secrets, secrets that could be harmful to themself or others, for example, an eating disorder. In these times, the recipient of the secret is faced with a dangerous choice- to betray the friends loyalty and trust by seeking help, or stand back and watch the situation unfold, potentially ending in calamity. Oftentimes, teenagers especially feel bound to keep the others secret, no matter what problems arise.
What is a friend? A common response to this question seems to be someone who accepts another for who they are. Another less used response to the same question is someone who leave another better than they once were. These two half definitions of friendship come to gather to explain that friend is someone who takes another how they already are and leaves that better than their previous state. True friendship often adds loyalty to ones character resulting in acts of courage.
They are very impressionable at that young age. Their teachers may be the only positive guidance in their life at that time too. Social/Emotional Development Some of the ways I would support the growing of social and emotional development would be to control my own emotions and behavior around them. I would be trying to teach them how to control
Tough love. Selflessness. Making hard decisions for friends when needed is key to a good friendship. A great example would be if someone is really struggling, a friend will do what they can to help them no matter how hard it can be. This connects back to how friendship comes with sacrifices.
People say friendship is key to life and i really think it is because they help you so much in ways you can't even explain.
Friendship “A best friend is someone who you can talk to, who won’t judge you, loves you for you, and most of all, makes you feel like you are worth something.” Even though this is written by an anonymous person, it is still extremely empowering. During the novel Freak the Mighty, Max and Kevin demonstrated a strong friendship. In fact, when they accepted each other without judgment and made each other feel like they belonged, their friendship grows. Friendship is important because having a good friend can get you through rough and frustrating times.
Most relationships begin with some form of communication, whether it is verbal or non-verbal, so being able to communicate effectively is important for developing positive relationships whether with children of differing age groups or adults. The way we come across i.e. the tone and volume of our voice, our body language, whether we keep eye contact etc. and the messages this sends out is important because if we relate to others in a positive way then it will be easier to develop a more positive relationship. Another important factor of effective communication is being able to listen fully to what is being said and to respond in an appropriate way whether it is to another adult, a teenager or a child. To make sure you both fully understand
What defines a good friend? The average person will have developed numerous friendships throughout their lives, but what determines which friendships will be lifelong or temporary? Family can be constituted as individuals you love, trust and care about, I personally consider my friends as family since those are the traits that produce quality character in an individual. There are many ways to define a good friend but the keys traits a friend should have are being trustworthy, loyal and caring.
PSYCHOSEXUAL THEORY OF DEVELOPMENT This is an assignment given in Adolescence and Learning to explore Sigmund Freud’s psychosexual theory of development. This theory describes how the personality is developed over the course of childhood through various fixations at each stage. The five stages are oral, anal, phallic, latency and genital. Each of the psychosexual stages is associated with a particular conflict that must be resolved before the individual can successfully advance to the next stage (McLeod, 2008). According to Freud, a person who successfully completes these stages forms a successful and healthy personality whereas if certain conflicts are not resolved at the appropriate stage fixations occurs which result in failure
College represents something different to everyone. The student will be accountable for attending class, navigating around campus, and obtaining help when needed. When young people leave home for the academic world, they embark on a new journey that includes independence, adventure, and uncovering their individuality. Most students are not prepared for the trials of academe and end up feeling overwhelmed. College life can be a hard adjustment.
Most people will come across a person that they will become very close with and call them their best friend. Zach Martin is my best friend and there are many reason for that. He is a very trust worthy person, he is fun to be around, and he is like a brother to me at this point. Also, if I ever need help with something he will come to help me if he can. Zachary Alan Martin is 5’8” and weighs approximately 170 pounds.