They also wouldn’t approve of obesity. It showed you were self conceited. But Angie overcomes being fat and she loses weight. As everyone made fun of her she got self conscious and wanted to lose weight. Lasty, theres some swearing and calling names.
She points out that the children are put under the unnecessary physical burden that their week and developing bodies can’t handle. This kind of harsh physical activity can hinder their growth. The fear of the physical pain makes the children quit and they hardly enjoy the sports at all. I recall when I used to make lame excuses avoid playing in the field because a huge guy kicked me once and I developed the fear of heavy build guys. Other than this the excruciating selection trail leaves the hopes and dream of the young children’s in shambles when they can’t make the cut due to one mark.
I was so hurt when I had to present in front of the class. Students would make fun of me but what left a laceration on my heart, mind, and soul was when my teachers would say “you will never make it” and “you are retarded”. Teachers would exclude me from activities because they thought I wasn’t smart enough. Have you ever been lost and hurt at the same time? I was hurt and lost at the same time.
there are too many reasons that we wish to change all the choices we have made. i, myself, have done something that i really regret is being unbrave. i will never forgive myself for that choice and will always feel stupid when i think of it. "Unbrave" is when i never say what is on my mind. In school i have trouble communicating with the people around me.
If you act like you don’t care about people you should care about, you won’t know what you 're missing in your life till you lose it. I unfortunately have lost the care that I didn’t care about and it’s really hard because at this age I need it the most. That is how I am tested because I have to fight to get passed what they have told me and try to believe that what they have said is not true and to not be hurting. I feel like I am being tested because I acted like I didn’t care about people who cared about me and now well they don’t care about
Shame, vulnerability, Empathy, and Blaming are all signs we are unsecure with ourselves and that we are afraid to grow and expand being who we are. All these feelings and actions take a toll on our interpersonal relationship and our perceived self without us even knowing, this changes our self-worth our confidence how we show ourselves to the world. Not only do all these take toll on our mental health but also on or physical action. Let’s look at shame vulnerability empathy and blaming a little more. Shame comes in many forms depending on the person, everyone handles it differently.
They say it’s because they care and they wanted the best for me and maybe, maybe they did or do but the pain of knowing they did something behind my back and finding out by another person is terrible, makes you feel like you can’t ever trust someone again. And when someone else comes along you don’t know if you can believe them and trust them or maybe in reality they’re just using you and talking about you behind your back. Those kind of things are what make someone be depressed or have anxiety or etc. Loyalty and trust is very important to me and if you break that I’ll probably never forgive you even if I say I do, but it’s something I’m working on and trying to get better
For example if in your family you have a younger sibling and you get jealous because your parents are always paying attention to your younger sibling and everything that your younger sibling wants will be given by your parents .And you, if you want or you ask something to your parents first they will ask if is it important ? they will have doubt or don’t have trust on what is that. So you feel bad on that as a experience I feel so disappointed, hopeless and starting to hate my parents if they will get mad on me I feel that I’m that I’m not belong on this family because they always see my mistakes and always me, the lazy and not that ideal child of a mother and father. Just like in a
23 years later, I still deal with bouts of sadness and anxiety. Sometimes those feelings just kind of come up on their own, but when I am stressed about anything, they always get a hold of me and I have to try and calm myself down. Buying my house was one of the most stressful things I can remember doing and it was made worse by the anxiety that the stress brought on. I found my self worrying about my mother becoming ill, or one of my children, losing my job, not being able to pay the mortgage and becoming homeless. I know that buying a home is stressful for anyone, but I also knew that my anxiety was getting the best of me.
Smith AM, Scott SG and Wiese DM (2016, p.2) experienced that these injuries can cause mood disturbance, self-esteem and problem of focusing. Indeed, the pain in my hand wrist prevents me from concentrating in anything, and sometimes I get frustrated only because my hand hurts consistently. I felt sad, and I was losing faith. I even thought that I did not deserve to eat. That time, however, passed when the injury was treated.
While this was expected, my emotional and mental health also took a toll. I was drained and overwhelmed after the continual spew of information from the doctors. The feelings of sickness and worry was making it hard to do much of anything, especially when at school. It was evident that constantly thinking about the problems that could arise was not helping me complete everything that had to be done. My life continued to spiral as I struggled to keep up with my physical and emotional health on top of the mountain of work expected from me.
My depression was something I allowed to alter me; in school, at home, around my friends, in sports. It ate away at me. The constant anxiety and feeling of complete hopelessness was nearly unbearable. There was no way to get away from it, no safe place for me to go to. I felt embarrassed, weak, telling myself
"When I 'm feeling fat and people make fun of me for being fat, the first thing I think isn 't I should go to the gym or I should be healthier. The first thing I think when people make fun of me, when people spend their time tearing me down, is, ‘Wow, I 'm a piece of trash.’" Indubitably, some students viewed the video and who know how it affected them personally. Hopefully, people do not take the words of this outspoken stranger to
She would rather not speak at all than to be judged on something she said. The fear of saying something others deem “stupid” constantly plagues her mind. Hiding who you really are is a sad way to live. You can’t really enjoy life this way. So why wouldn’t be able to change this?
My attitude started to change, becoming more rambunctious, starting to be more moody and gloomy, incapable of listening to rules. I was just getting worst by the days. All I really wanted was to have a little fun. For a sensitive person you get hurt very easily. I, being called names, was not the best