As far as childhoods go, I can reasonably say that mine was atypical. At the time, my childhood was like a fantasy shrouded in sunlight, grass stains, and an indescribable warmth that can only be called love. However, looking back with what I know now, I realize it was so much better and so much worse than that. An important part of who I am comes from the fact that I live on top of a hill without another house for two miles in any direction. That meant my five siblings and I had ample fields and forests to wander aimlessly through. Whenever I recall this time I can't help but remember playing hide and seek, tucked behind a tree, heart pounding, hoping not to be found, but giggling when I am. Moments like these contribute to the sunshine of my youth, …show more content…
My house being secluded was fully intentional, my dad wanted us to be able to wander but he also held anxiety and insecurity in his heart, so he created an environment away from people and what he considered dangerous. The only places we went were to see relatives or the grocery store and even sometimes we weren't allowed to do that. I remember so many things we weren't allowed to do, some small ones being that we weren't allowed to use the microwave because he thought we would get radiation or that we weren't allowed outside if it was windy because a tree might blow over on us. I never thought these things were odd and I didn't realize how it would shape the person I would be. I only knew that my siblings were my best friends, it didn't matter that the age difference from the youngest of us to the oldest was 18 years, we cared about each other and we cared for each other when things would get dark. When my parents would fight my oldest sister would take us for walks, she watched us, cared for us, and held us responsible for our actions. It wasn't until after I first went to school that I realized the effects my childhood had on
Having caring parents that supported each other and did not bicker all the time. Having a work at a jewelry shop at the young age of 13 and being abused
My childhood was not most would consider to be easy. Both my mother and father had addiction issues that forced my younger brother and I to care for ourselves. By the time I reached the fifth grade, I had attended five different elementary schools. On the days that I did actually go to school, I was not on time. A few years later, I moved in with my grandparents, and my entire life improved.
I was only five years old when my mother left me home alone for the longest ten minutes of my life to drop my brothers off to school. It was a blizzard outside and I was sleeping cozily tucked away in my bed when I suddenly awoke out of nowhere and started searching for my mother in the house stumbling over the few silly bands I owned; I was a bit of a Scrooge when it came to spending money. My mother was nowhere to be found, so I started to stall my worries by watching
Growing up it was just myself, my sister and my Dad, and on the occasion visiting with my mother every other weekend, and when she was gone, us two girls spent it with my grandparents on my mother’s side of the family. Without having my older sister around to assist me with school work or such, I happened to learn my lessons with the little aid from my teachers while at school. Not having an at home older
I was the fourth of four children in my family. We lived in a humble middle-class home in central Ohio. We did not have many amenities that families have today; we had no cable, air conditioning, computers, or internet. Summer days were spent playing outside riding bikes or a game of hide-and-seek. Being outside was a natural thing to do as a child; it was after all where some of the best experiments came from.
Since the young age of 7, my parents have been separated. We were a family of 4 now in a new town. Tarkington a small town in the middle of nowhere was where we decided to settle down and start over on our new life in the middle of the school year I must add. But growing up in predicament made me mature a bit faster than expected and has shaped me into the person I have become today. Tarkington was one of the best things that could have happened I grew as a person and got more involved than I ever had before.
My brothers and I, as per my father 's wishes, were to start not only a new school year but to start a life with his family and him. We slept on the floor, which I found kind of strange since the other kids slept on beds. The nights were bitterly cold in a house we knew nothing of. We didn 't have blankets to keep warm, so we improvised using jackets. We had to ask for permission to even the smallest of things.
Occasionally, my dad would sleep in a different room in the house. One day shortly after the end of my fourth grade year, when what was to be a summer to remember, my mom broke the news to me and my brother. It had ended. Mom and dad were getting divorced. I remember feeling shocked and confused.
It was times like this when I could truly see the beauty of nature. Nothing else would be on my mind just the extreme wonder of the amazing world around
My life started out on the West side in the heart of the ghetto. By ghetto, I do not mean the houses looked a little rough, I mean people would run through our front lawn chasing each other with knives on the regular. I do not remember too much of the house because we only lived there until I was about two, but it was an old classic Victorian style house. We had many bats as roommates.
At around nine years of age two significant events occurred. First the announcement by my parents that I would be a big brother soon, not something I was thrilled about. The second event one way worse and more terrifying than a sibling, it was, a move. Yes my parents for one reason or another decided moving to a secluded sub-division fourteen miles away from town would be best for us. I was in absolute awe, how could this be happening?
When I was younger I did not know who my parents were and I always thought I was the only child. Until I was about five was when I had first met my biological mother and my life changed drastically. I had visits with my mother until I was my be six years old then she stopped. Then when I was eight I moved to my fifteenth and last foster family (not home because I moved to my foster mother 's mom 's house when was thirteen and currency still live with them).
I grew up with strict parents. They always let my brother go outside and play because he was a boy, yet I had to stay inside and do chores. I would always sneak out through the back because I wanted to play also. As I got older things got worst, I hated having the midnight curfew while my friends had to be home by two in the morning. The time went by I started making bad decisions and it got to the point where my grandparents didn 't want to deal with me anymore and so they passed me to my mother, which is where i 'm currently living now.
I really enjoyed my childhood because in my eyes I have very special parents that have taught me a lot about parenting a how to survive in this world today. I love the person that I have grown into today and really hope that when I have children they will appreciate me the way that I appreciate my mom and dad. Hope that I can give them the best of two
Although this caused a huge division for a relationship with my parents it caused my siblings and I to get closer. When they would fight we would do things like play board games in our bedrooms or listen to music to try and drown out the screaming. This was how life was up until my 16th birthday. My parents had separated and my siblings and I had to leave our house and go live with my aunt and uncle for the week of my birthday. Although I was close with my siblings we did not have relationships