It was dark in the room, and about fourteen guys I did not yet know and I were scattered around the room. I had just finished speaking, and all of a sudden, after not even a second of silence, someone stood up and said, “Can we all just take a moment and give Matthew a round of applause? He did not have to open up like that especially at his first event. Thank you.” It was at this moment I knew that I had discovered something special, and it is called BBYO.
BBYO is a teen-led Jewish organization that facilitates and allows future leaders to grow and develop.BBYO stood for B 'nai B 'rith Youth Organization until it became independent from B’nai B’rith in 2002. BBYO is a democracy. Teens get elected to serve on boards, and every rule is set by a motion made in a business meeting BBYO runs based off of parliamentary procedure and the needs and wants of the people. When I found BBYO I had just moved to a new town and had been struggling to make friends. I was sitting alone in my bedroom, and I heard there was an event coming up, so I decided to go for it. I had no clue how much of an impact that one event was going to have on my life in years to come.
I was and had always been a very shy and quiet person. I always kept to
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When I went to that BBYO convention and took that step out of my comfort zone, I realized that who I was then was not a person that I could get very far with in life, and as it turns out, when I stood up and told those fourteen guys about the things that I love, and the type of people with whom I want to share things with in life. I had just found the one place where I could change myself for the better. I started developing leadership skills that I never imagined I could have. I developed a sense of self-advocacy and if I ever had questions or problems I started to ask and tell people about them. I always go out of my way to meet people and make everyone feel included. I became a skilled public speaker, and the leader no one thought I would ever
My project has served my community and provided me with the practice of life skills. Despite extensive planning, there were some problems that delayed the project; however, my project was able to be completed. Through the planning and completion of the project, I was given the opportunity to learn more about myself; through leadership responsibilities. I realized the potential I have to make a change in my community. The struggles I encountered has allowed to me to be patient, accept things that I cannot change, and keep pushing onward to my
An excellent example of this is when many of my friends expressed their wishes of a more active lifestyle, I organized a trip to Dawson Forest for a hike/adventure at the ruins of a nuclear testing complex. I always seek interesting ways to interact with others. I have never felt as satisfied and accomplished as when I know that I have led well. I sharpened my leadership skills throughout the many clubs and activities of which I have been involved. I have been fortunate to be able to serve in the Beta Club, National Honor Society and on the production team at my church.
Personal Statement 1) As an individual I myself had trouble finding the inner leader I have within. Towards the end of my eighth grade year I was given the opportunity to learn about a program called C5LA. After going through the process of the application I was selected for an interview, and ended with a spot in the program. This program focuses on helping students become leaders. This is where I learned everything I know, as well as where I’ve experienced different leadership roles.
Leadership. My whole life I’ve been considered a leader where adolescent girls look up to me. It all started
“Changing perspectives. Chasing Lives”(BBBS). Big Brothers Big Sisters, also known as BBBS; is a mentoring program. BBBS form meaningful pairs between adult volunteers (“Bigs”) and children (“Littles”) in communities across the country. The Bigs and Littles are ages 6-18.
All growing up, Washington was a place of sunshine, family, and exploring. It was more than just a summer vacation, it was a second home. When I was 13, I became absolutely determined to save enough money to purchase a plane ticket and I set out to make that dream a reality. Once I had saved enough to get a roundtrip ticket, I pitched the idea to my mom, and because she wanted to reward my determination, she made plans for me to stay with my grandpa.
I became productive, influential, charismatic, outgoing, time oriented, and throughout everything I have very high self esteem and a positive attitude. In each of my prior jobs and in my C.A.P. roles, I have been placed in charge of others. In addition to providing me with the skills to pass on knowledge and inspiration, this has also left me naturally confident and comfortable with increased responsibility. I’ve taken my role as a leader very seriously, and while staying away from negative influences such as drugs and alcohol, I’ve led students to success and even to their own leadership roles within various situations. In addition to these leadership positions, I’ve pursued very early college
By working with a team comprised of people from other parts of the country and varying in age and life experience, I continued to learn and grow and learned that I could teach those more educated and older than
The night settles in, crisp air wafts through my curtains and sting my lungs as I shallowly breathe in. The couch was lumpy as usual, and the blanket was barely thick enough to protect my skin from the soft rippling breeze. Autumn weather, being my favorite, always reminded me of when I was younger. Autumn meant my mother would want to dress me in puffy dresses and big floppy bows that bounced as I trotted along. Leaves crunching under my small shoes that were buckled all neatly.
During the early months of the new year in 2006, my paternal grandfather died of a streptococcus infection. At that time my sister, brother and I were too young to understand, but we soon began to realize that a part of us was different and missing. Our family did not feel complete without my grandfather’s presence. Members of father’s side of the family were despondent and in a state of utter shock. Eventually with time and grit, they fought the sadness together and life resumed its almost as normal as before.
We had just gotten off of the tea cups, when we walked past Apollo's Chariot. My dad said as a joke “Hey Emily do you want to go on the roller coaster?”. I thought about it for a second and then I said, “sure”. He was surprised, but he said “let's do it!”.
Crisp,dark, dead, dry, smells of bonfires and candy was how I described this night but a night didn't do it justice. It was so much more than a night, it was a nightmare, a horror movie come true, all my biggest fears coming to life.. 8:30 p.m. on a beautiful fall night to be exact. Mom and dad out at the church halloween party, so I was left to tend to my rambush siblings who were covered with excitement about Halloween the next day. We sat on the couch watching television to pass the time. My house was two stories and creaked a lot, so much that I became used to it.
Throughout my life, I remained in a shy bubble where pushing myself from my comfort zone did not exist. Prior to my sophomore year of high school, I did not join any clubs, take upon leadership position, or go to school activities. The reason being was I relied on my friends therefore if they did not join a club, I would not either. I realized I was missing out on an abundance of activities because I was relying on people who could potentially not be by side at some point. Therefore I burst my own shy bubble and took upon a new adventure that would benefit me in the future.
Four years ago I used to be that shy, quiet kid at school who was afraid to talk to other people. Then one day I woke up and decided that I am not going to live like this and wanted to interact with other people. Ever since that day, I talk to a lot of people and I am involved in many different activities. It ended up being the greatest decision I have ever made and it has allowed me to discover different passions and want to be a leader.
Growing up I was always quiet, and never really built the courage to talk to people. I didn't have many friends, and the friends I did have I had trouble opening up to. I was always afraid of being myself in fear that people might judge me rather than accept me for who I was. After graduating from high school, I knew that I wanted to make a change and be a different person when I got to college. I wanted to be more confident and just be myself, not caring so much about what other people thought of me.