Six months ago today was like many other days. I could wake up earlier in the morning and Skype or called my mom over the phone in Africa for at least 20minute every day because she was all I got and my motivation. We could talked over the phone about my future and how she could attend my graduation in the year 2016. I was so excited after 6years I could finally see my mom again and not on any occasion but on my graduation day. She could be granted a visa from Sierra Leone to come see me graduate. Prior to the spring semester I had a good fall semester and I was really happy because my mother was proud of me being the only son to attend a university. I had just moved out of my adopted parents’ house with other friends who I trusted too, because …show more content…
We end up losing our apartment and here I was homeless and still attending school. My adopted parent hear about all the struggles I was undergoing and they decided to let me move in with them until I recover again. Moving backed things were getting better until I was involved in a car accident, I was not injured, but my car was totaled. In the midst of all this situation over the past month, losing my job, losing my apartment, involved in a car accident, I was still in school which affected my grades greatly. My teachers were patient with me for quite a while because they knew what is like to lose someone. I barely recovered from my misery, I ended dropping most of my classes because I was struggling with transportation to school, I was too depressed to go to my classes and I missed so many school days which was impossible for anyone to make up. Some of the teachers I had prior to the spring semester knew the changes in my school performance because they knew I was a good student, especially Dr. Balliro who was greatly helpful during this period. I had Dr. Balliro in two of my classes and he really sticks by my side because he understands what is like to be an immigrant and being depressed in a foreign country. My GPA dropped below average to an average that I have never experienced as a student before, because I dropped most of my classes and the classes I …show more content…
I think I was able to find this strength through the prayers and support of many friends and also an amazing counseling group in school who kept me knowing I was normal for feeling how I felt. Today I mourn differently after months of counseling. After the spring semester ended, I decided not to give up on life and my education, because all my mother wanted for me was to be successful in life. So I decided this past summer in order to honor my mother, I enrolled in three courses, African American Literature 1, Social Work Practice 1&11 and I had 2As and 1B compared to my grade in the spring. In the fall I still continued to keep that dream alive I enrolled again and in my mid-terms grades I had A&B. This is to show how far I had come and how prepared I am to put my past behind me and honor my mum. After my summer courses my GPA is above average level, which caused me to lose my financial aid and federal funds. I will be graduating next year May because I already done my senior audit, please give me one more chance to achieve my dreams because without the federal loans and financial aids it will be impossible for me to fund my education and I never want to relive that moment of dark stages in my life again. I am so determined that after graduation next year May I will enroll in the master program at Delaware State University and this can only happen if I have the fund to sponsor my education. Now I am
As I end my sophomore year at Old Dominion University I think about all that I have accomplished in the past two years. I think about traveling to Peru and volunteering at an Hogar and Hospital as a Freshmen, Becoming Co-President of the Women’s ministry for ODU’s Catholic Campus Ministry, and to working hard and receiving good grades in all my classes. Not only do I think about all the work that I have done so far but I also think about my family and all the sacrifices they have made for me. I think about my parents waking up early every day to go to work just so we could have food on the table and a roof over our heads.
Freshman year came along and I wanted to attend Sullivan High School. I wanted to come back to my hometown, I was just missing the people I started it all out with in the beginning. My dad and I had all of the paperwork finished already to go for me to attend Sullivan High School in August, but my mom refused and wouldn’t budge to let me go. She didn’t want me going to Sullivan, she wanted me to stay with all of my new friends I had made at Owensville. She thought my best bet would be to stay and proceed to go to OHS.
After high school I am hoping to attend Indiana University to major in Human Biology in pursuit of one day becoming a physician’s assistant. During my high school years I have put fourth much effort to succeed to the best of my ability. I have taken many courses throughout the years that have pushed me and allowed me to start shaping the career path that I plan to take. During the summer before my junior year I found out that my parents were getting a divorce. When I found out, the only thing I could think about was how my life was never going to be the same.
Not being able to keep up with my classes lead me to having to take incompletes in a couple of my classes and making them up at a later date. Through my freshman and sophomore year I struggled to heal and spent most of my time with doctors rather than teachers at school. Once my junior year came, I started to return to my old self and began being able to handle
My life took an interesting turn when my mother told me I would be moving to a different country, fear took over my body because that meant I would have to start from zero. On January 1st, 2011 my mom gave me the exciting news that her fiancée, now husband, had started the process to bring her to the United States so she could become a permanent resident, live with him, form a family and start a brand new life. I remember her face blighting up to every time she spoke a word but that smile faded once she told me I could not come with at that time because of the expense of the process. I understood why she could not bring me with. We had economic and emotional issues going on.
I have always been a dedicated, passionate student but when these financial and medical problems disrupted my everyday life and education, I began to struggle. My confidence in my academic abilities was shaken. Nothing had prepared me for such a lack of resources, financial constraints, and my health condition at such a young
Standing there looking into my mother’s eyes filled with intent and worries, I was speechless. At this instant, I was able to budge a smile and move myself, despite being frozen from the news, to embrace my now widowed mother. Despite this tragic event, my dad had a dream, a vision that his two sons would achieve the American Dream filled with infinite opportunities that can be obtained with a higher education. To this day, I continually strive to live up to the American Dream my dad envisioned for me.
Helping out my mother with the bills, working full time and commuting to college, seemed like the destined plan for me after high school. Nonetheless, it came as a shock to everyone when I confessed, I had accepted my admission to Texas A&M. My family took it the worst at first, as it seemed if I wanted to run away from the responsibilities that had suffocated me up to the minute I pressed
I never once thought I would be in this predicament when I entered high school. The failure I have experienced during my junior year took it’s toll on me. Already struggling with depression and anxiety. I was driven into an even darker path. However, my mother got me through that dark time.
So life had to drastically transition from me being a lax sophomore that depended on my parents to plan everything for me and keep me in check for school work to living on my own and not having that sturdy support. At this school when I was learning to become an independent individual I had many opportunities to work on my time management and scheduling, and I had to learn how to get over my emotions on my own as a teenager with no parent or sibling to express these feeling to. Also through this whole school experience I had to have relationships with my teachers independently be able to figure out compromises and create bonds with them, without the help of parents and keeping a handle on my
I have encountered a number of health issues, which have hindered my abilities to partake in many activities. As a naturally driven person, it was very difficult to accept the fact that, amongst other things, my schooling was being put at a standstill. I have blamed myself for the past few months, despite what everyone has told me: “it's not your fault,” “you couldn't control it,” “it's okay,” etc. I often question the actuality of what has developed over this past year, and I wonder “whether I could have altered the outcome?” However, as challenging as my life has been, I have come to accept that things do not always go as planned, and that you must always persevere.
This year is important for me; now, I am a senior In Mercy College. I remember being a freshman and not understanding the idea of what life was outside high school. The transition was scary because I had to start over again; however, the experience was worthwhile. I am grateful for Mercy College for providing me with the scholarships that I needed to further my education. I hope to own my practice as a psychologist and I am here to thank my mother for supporting my decision.
Which led to me becoming more independent as I started to get more involved in my School. I can say I’ve experienced a lot positively and negatively getting hurt during my sophomore year really affected me but the way I’ve worked back showed my determination and
I am also the first in my family attaining an education. I did not have my mother’s insight of what to do and/or what to expect from college. My main support were my counselors; they helped me not feel alienated as a student. Despite all the circumstances and
Thinking back on those days makes me feel a lot of regret for putting myself into that situation. Thankfully, through my emotional roller coaster, I was able to find true friends who helped me though every step of the way. Once I reached rock bottom, I knew that the only way was up, but everything that I grasped at seemed to dissolve in my hands. My friends abandoned me, my grades slipped out of control, and emotionally, my heart felt like a punching bag that had received one upper-cut too many. I struggled in this stage for a time, until finally, I was done.