It is not every day you have an assignment that has you write your own obituary. It is not every day that the time of your death in which the assignment takes place is at the very moment you walk out of class or at the time you chose to write the assignment. I never once really thought of my own death, I have not thought much about my life honestly. I wake up day after day like clockwork; Wake up, check social media, drag myself out of bed, decide if I want to wear makeup, look at myself often with dislike, get dressed for the day, get in the car with my friend, the same playlist the very playlist that is not my type of music but keep quiet and go to school, and come back home. Not realizing that at any time, any place I could die. Not realizing …show more content…
Another way could be our car could have caused the accident and I did not survive the crash, my last moment alive could be staring wide eyed in shock as the car that is not stopping and only an arm length away that just ended my life. The assignment makes me sad, confused, and empty. Sad because I do not put much value on my life as I should, I live for others not myself. Confused because in the process of living for others I let them step all over me. Sad that every time I have helped others being a shoulder to cry on, the person that they could talk to, the person they know will help them with anything they need for them just use me. Sad because those I have helped, love, and cherish more than myself would take the chance to steal from me, talk down to me, and hurt me mentally. Confused because I don’t know who I am personally only what others think of me. Confused because I know I have a purpose I just haven’t had the energy or will power yet to do so. Empty because every day that goes by I feel like walking flesh going from point A to point B, not taking in the life around me and appreciating
A question in life that isn’t asked often enough is, “Do any human beings ever realize life while they live it? Every, every minute?” People rarely take a step back and ponder about how fortunate they are to encounter the little things in life; the things like eating, sleeping, exercising, conversing, and more. They take it all for granted. The idea of death may seem like the end, but really it is the beginning of a new experience.
ID#513295 who entered the trailer to locate the body and declared time of death at 1934 hours. Roberts did not disturb the body, nor the scene. The deceased was later identified by his Florida Drivers License as William Gilley. I spoke with the property managers Mike Kenny, and Brian Fannon. Kenny advised they received a call from Gilley's boss who grew concerned when he had called out sick and then did not show up for work on 10/22/15 when he was scheduled.
At first when I was told I would be able to speak my mind as to what my thoughts would be on the effects of what happened and what Mr. Wilson should receive as a time to serve I knew exactly what to say, but when you begin putting pen to paper you get lost and all the fears and anxiety continue at a high level. Below are what continue to haunt me and my children on a daily basis. I still recall the time you woke up and looked over at me with this crazed look in your eyes. You kicked me so hard in my right jaw and right upper arm. I fell into the night stand, then onto the floor next to the bed.
We respond in different ways towards death, in various situations and our attitudes towards death vary. For most of us it is difficult to imagine our own death yet alone accept it. Upon birth our time here is limited we never know when death will call or how it will happen which frightens most of us. Our fear for death is quite evident and affects us regularly.
I believe the greatest one is the Jazz funeral because this isn’t a boring funeral, like most funerals are just burying the body this one actually more fun and unique then all the other ones and I’m pretty sure everyone is probably doing this one since the jazz funeral is the best one. It’s unique and enjoyable because a jazz marching band leads the coffin and everyone else, while playing gloomy music, but when they finish burying the coffin, they play cheerful upbeat music and everyone even starts dancing, they all dance and share stories of their dead loved one. I like this one and everyone should too because even though this is not as weird as some other ones, it’s not that lame or boring, it’s pretty calm.
Each and every time my mother responded either by doing what I asked, like cuddling with me, or by answering my questions and saying, “You were deathly allergic to an antibiotic they gave you. You can’t leave just yet. Who’s Brunner? You missed the volleyball game last night and the girls are worried about you. Today’s Friday Jocey.
Losing someone in life is not always associated with death. My grandmother was diagnosed with Parkinson 's disease at the young age of 48. In time, this disease took my grandmother’s life both mentally and physically; therefore, taking her away from me as I knew her. If seen today, she looks like my grandmother; but after interacting with her, it wouldn’t seem as if a 59 year old woman was talking. My grandmother’s disease was a major obstacle for me to get over in life, but eventually I overcame it and made the best out of the situation.
Growing up, I’d always thought that death was the worst thing that could ever happen to a person, but it wasn’t until halfway through my sophomore year that I discover the truth. I had never really thought about the horror of watching someone you love wither away into a shadow of their former self; that was something that happened in books and movies, not in real life and definitely not to me. I was only 15 when my grandmother finally decided that it was time to take my mom up on her offer and come live with us. Her motivation? She knew she didn’t have much time left and wanted to spend her final moments at our house with her family.
My uncle Tommy Reece was buried Wednesday surrounded by family and friends. A funeral is a time for reflection and respect and following the body to the grave brings closure, so I’ve heard. With that said, I have yet to attend a visitation or go to a funeral that there wasn’t something strange to occur. Strange in a funny way, haphazard way, or an eerie way. When my aunt and I went to the florist to pick out flowers, I said to the owner, “Please avoid selling any “do-dads.”
Stood at the foot of a bed, on a sunny late July afternoon, I watched someone die. It happened in a small beige dormered room with blue carpet, cheap knocked about pine furniture and a large hospital grade bed. Family pictures were randomly placed on the walls and an old NHS red battered wheelchair was folded up in the corner. My partner’s father, not long past his 75th birthday, lay in the bed gasping for air; his one good eye unfocused and I noticed that the for the first time in the ten years that I had known him the TV was off.
From the beginning, children are taught to fear the concept of death. Most people spend their lives fearing death, but it’s not death that they are afraid of. It is part of nature to die, and our minds know that, what scares most people is the thought of death before they have had time to accomplish what they want in life. In “When I Have Fears That I May Cease to Be,” John Keats put into words how people feel about dying before they have been successful in whatever mission they have set forth for themselves. His poem touches the reality of people’s feelings though imagery and figurative language.
Coming from two different cultures, I did not fully understand how to accept death seeing that one is more death affirming whereas the other is not. As I was growing up, I saw the two conflicts before my eyes, but it never impacted me in any way. However, one day after rushing my aunt to the hospital, my family and I discovered she only had two months left to live. A year later, my grandfather passed away due to a stroke. This was my first time ever dealing with death and my first time seeing my two culture clashing; consequently, with not knowing what to do, I spiraled downward in the abyss.
LOSS, GRIEF AND HEALING As human beings, we suffer losses of many kinds and sizes in our life time. While some of these losses are small and do not hurt much, some are big and hurt deeply. Those that are accompanied by pains that are difficult to bear include the loss of a loved one through death or divorce, cheating or unfaithfulness in a trusted relationship or loss of good health when a diagnosis of a terminal illness is made. In all these instances of loss, pain and grief are experienced and an emotional wound is created which needs healing.
Losing someone you love dearly is one of the hardest things anyone can go through. Sometimes it hurts so bad that you may yourself, “What’s the point of being here anymore?” I ask myself that question all the time, ever since my Grandmother passed away. April 22nd, 2016, was a very emotional experience for my family and me. The day started off like any other day for us.
In Gabriel Garcia Marquez’s 1981 novella Chronicle of a Death Foretold, the narrative recounts the events leading up to the eventual murder of bachelor Santiago Nasar, a man accused of taking the virginity of the defrocked bride Angela Vicario despite the lack of evidence to prove the claim, and the reactions of the citizens who knew of the arrangement to sacrifice Nasar for the sake of honor. This highly intricate novella incorporates a range of literary techniques, all of which are for the readers to determine who is really to blame for Santiago Nasar’s death. Marquez uses techniques such as foreshadowing and the structure of narrative, along with themes such as violence, religion, and guilt to address the question of blame. Although Santiago