I first found out I was pregnant two months after turning eighteen. Looking at that positive pregnancy test, I was terrified. I had countless emotions running through my head at the same time. The first question was, am I going to be able to do this? Of course, abortion was never an option. From that moment on, I decided I needed to find the courage inside me to step up and become a parent at such a young age. I had absolutely zero experience with babies. My family is small and not very close. Therefore, I was never around any babies or small children. One of the strongest fears I had was that I wouldn’t know what to do once the baby arrived. I figured I could handle the diapers but I had no idea about formula, feeding schedules, how to warm …show more content…
My life instantly changed. Everything that once mattered meant nothing. The feeling of your heart expanding to allow more love in your heart than you knew was possible is only something a mother can explain. I didn’t think I was capable of loving someone so much. One look and I was hooked on her already. She was perfect and tiny. All my worries disappeared in that moment. I knew that whatever happened I could handle it and everything would be great. In that same moment, I knew something was wrong. My baby wasn’t making any noises and her color looked wrong. Within minutes, she was rushed away to the Neonatal ICU. The umbilical cord had been wrapped around her neck causing loss of oxygen to her organs. She spent two long weeks in the Neonatal ICU. During that time, I was unable to hold my baby. She was fed through a tube until her stomach could handle formula through a bottle. That was one of the hardest things I have even been through. Thankfully, she recovered swiftly. We were able to finally go home and start our new life together. Bringing this little girl into my life changed me for the better. It was as though life didn’t exist before she was born. Although things didn’t go smoothly, I wouldn’t change a thing. What seemed like a tough road ahead actually turned out to be the best thing that has ever happened to
As a parent for the weekend, I lost a lot of sleep, didn’t get to do much, and struggled getting my homework done, but I learned a lot. I learned that I overall liked having a child. The fact that I had to care for another human being brought me joy. Along with learning what I did like, I learned about what I didn’t like. One thing I didn’t like was very time I picked up the baby I wanted to play with him
Who knew that something so beautiful could be so difficult? Adoption led me to a season of surrender, hurting, and healing, but most importantly, a place of grace and perception. Soon after my fourteenth birthday, my family invited a young boy who had been struggling in his original, adopted home to come live with us. Adopted from Ethiopia at the age of 10, Elias arrived in Texas, only to be sent to my family in Kentucky one year later.
It was May 29, 1997 when a bald little creature was born; her name is Theresa Buenrostro. Indeed, that was me. My mother who is a small Latina woman had 3 boys already. Just 1 year and 5 days before I was born she had my brother. According to her though I was the most difficult one during pregnancy and labor.
From what I understood getting pregnant was something only irresponsible, stupid girls did. I didn 't realize how wrong this understanding was, not that I think my mom and dad are bad people for being conservative and telling me that if I got pregnant it would be own thought, and I would have to deal with it... by raising my child. In fact they were right. I am an middle to upper class white girl, who has more privilege and opportunity than a lot of other woman, if I got pregnant I would and should be responsible for raising my baby. Reading Killing the Black Body, The Geography of Abortion, and all the other articles and clips on abortion turned out to be a serious reality check.
I waited a few weeks the flu like symptoms, sick stomach, sensitive skin, random headaches; finally giving in and went and bought a test. When it came back positive I was in disbelief. I made my appointment at our local pregnancy center to get my confirmation letter. The confirmation letter is required to go visit an actual OBGYN. The appointment was two days before my twentieth birthday, I also had to inform the father of the child I was carrying.
Abortion is in fact the ending of pregnancy before birth and refers to the destruction of the embryo or foetus prior to life by removing the fetus in the uterus. An abortion can be either occurs naturally, that is due to an accident, disease, trauma or genetic incompatibility of the mother and foetus. Or, it can occur artificially, that is the foetus is removed by medical means or in the backstreet by unqualified people known as charlatans. Such risky abortions often result in septicaemia. Abortion is a major problem affecting most couples especially when contraceptives are ineffective.
Teenage Mom It is estimated that around 750,000 teenaged girls get pregnant every year, in the United States. I am a part of this statistic. At the age of 15 I became pregnant with a baby girl, whom I later named Penelope Rose Clark. I thought this was the end of my life, but I later found out that I was terribly wrong, it was only the beginning. Life may not go in the direction you had planned, but that doesn’t mean it’s going in the wrong direction.
My life was complete the day my first child, Luke, was born. His delivery went smooth, and I did not need an epidural. He was cleaned off by respectful nurses and given to me. I decided on breast feeding my child because the benefits extend well beyond basic nutrition. I had baby monitors everywhere, even in closets.
Who would of thought one little girl could change my life so much. The smallest thing’s like sleep , going shopping , and even showering changed in so many way’s. With all the changes I had to make , I would never change anything about my life now she made my eyes open to life and made me see what I couldn’t see before . My baby girl made me grow up and made me realize I have meaning in life and I mean the world to someone and that im someone extremely special to her . I never would have pictured my life like this just four and a half years ago.
I realized that I had experienced love and I knew what it took now to make a heart keep going. At this point I started to notice the love that was prevailing around me. When I was 17 my mom was in love with her final husband. When I was 18, me and my dad are closer than ever. When I was 16 my papa had found his soul mate.
It’s difficult to pinpoint a specific moment in one’s life in which your life is transformed. We often realize that this moment is so signingagent when looking back on personal experiences and don’t realize it at the time. For me, this moment occurred when I realized that I had taken what I love most for granted. It all started back in 2004 when my family suggested that I get into a sport at a young age.
I can still remember like it was yesterday the day my son was born. The feelings leading up to the day he was born were the most nerve racking days of my life. On August 27th 2015 me and my wife sat at home expecting the our son any moment. My mother was also with us and was there to help us after the baby was born. As the day went by the house filed with boredom and the feeling of nervousness, and outside being gray and rainy I knew that it wasn 't a beach day.
After scorpius was born I was cautioned against trying to have more children, being just over eighteen when he was born my body clearly had not been ready for the ordeal that was childbirth. I had always wanted a large amount of children, I needed the unconditional love and approval that only being a parent could rectify. Obviously being told I couldn't broke my heart. Draco tried his best to comfort me, but didn't understand why I was taking it so poorly. You see in his family as far back as anyone can recall you only had one child, and that child was a son.
Then 9 months later on February 16, 1999, at 3:10 am my precious son came out of my womb and placed on my chest. It was the most amazing experience ever, but also extremely exhausting thing ever! I was in the hospital for about another week till the doctor told me to go home, funny thing is that I got discharged on my birthday February 21, 1999, which I turned 16. At first, it felt like being a mother was easy, but in reality, it wasn 't because I also had to go to school plus he would always wake me up in the middle of the night, and be in an extreme of exhaustion. I started missing school more and more till I finally dropped out.
It was terrifying, but she was so appealing. The remainder of the week consisted of me driving to her house in the darkness of the night, falling victim to her arms and her bed, and driving the two of us to school the following day. Her eyes would trail behind me in the hallway as she scuttered with her feet practically under mine. She would smile every time I looked in her direction. Everything I did became her.