Frank Sinatra once said:“Perhaps the best brand you can wear is your own identity”.However, it took me a while to really comprehend the weight of gravity in Sinatra 's words. I grew up in a religiously diverse environment. Being the oldest child in my family presents itself with great opportunities that allow one to develop a sense of leadership, responsibility, determination in the hopes of proving one’s capabilities. It was 2012 when puberty slapped me in the face. I knew this because I became taller than both of my parents. Not only had puberty changed me physically, but mentally as well. Its that moment in time when thinking independently of your parents sets in. Metaphorically speaking, I was like a blank canvas that can be dyed any color. My journey began when I made friends with the wrong people. They were friends that hated school but loved, wasting their time playing video games at each other’s homes, they would do this while simultaneously …show more content…
A man whose words of inspiration would pierce anyone’s heart. He spoke to me using the verses from the Quran which said that: “God does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear”. After hearing those words I had an epiphanic experience. What I was going through was a simple test from God. He was testing my patience to strengthen me. And as it said in the Quran, God will put pressure on your soul that’s only unique to you, to test your patience. Because for every hardship comes ease. For the next 4 years of high school, I began prioritizing my time by studying hard to meet the standard qualifications required of a successful college student. I started attending after school tutoring 5 days a week further, with extensive practice and a great deal of patience my grades progressively became better. Teachers became impressed with my development, which in turn improved my self-esteem. It’s then that I realized that perhaps the best brand I can wear is my own
Maturation is a natural phenomenon experienced by everyone. It starts from the day birth and continues until death. Although this process is natural and will happen inevitably, different people in a person’s life can hasten it. For example, a person can be spurred away from home by his family and forced to mature prematurely. As well, someone could say something to make one see the world a different way.
A person’s personal identity builds his or her identity based on what others say about him or herself (Stewart, 2012). Because, I surrounded myself with more positive people and began reading about how my
I also used to struggle to keep my grades up during elementary school but as I progressed through the years, I eventually became better. With all being said, you must go through pain, struggle, sacrifice, commitment, etc, to reach what you
The transition from eighth grade to ninth grade is one of the most difficult but unforgettable things a student must do in his adolescence. For me, it was filled with new opportunities of taking Ap classes and joining clubs. One of these cubs was Youth and Government (Y&G). For as long as I can remember my brother, Riad, has boasted about how amazing Y&G is and how it has changed his life. My brother is three years older then me, so as a freshman he was a senior in Y&G.
“During adolescence our infantile identifications reflected in self-representations are subjected to scrutiny and change, while new identifications and valuations come into being”.29 Eventually, these new identifications will lead us to clarity and newfound conclusions about ourselves, allowing us to grow and change as
I was born on January 21st, 2002 in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania at Allegany General Hospital. The next morning my parents brought their youngest daughter home where she would live at for only six months. After six months of living in Pennsylvania, my parents decided that the weather wasn’t ideal for them, so we set out to Palm City, Florida where we have been living for twelve years. I obviously have no memories of my life in Pennsylvania, but I have many of my life in Florida. Wow!
Nevertheless, I received from Him the strength to move ahead with my life and the patience to resolve problems with confidence. By His grace, I am not the same person that I
Mr. Higgins, First I want to thank you and the rest of the staff for organizing the intervention this morning. I was reflecting back on my time at Brophy after the meeting and recognize that I have received many opportunities that most student can not receive in public high school. If I had a chance to redo my four years of high school I would definitely still pick Brophy. Even though my high school career at Brophy could have been better, none of the moments I have had (good or bad) has been a waste. Brophy has dramatically changed my life farther than any school could have and changed the way I think and carry myself between freshman year and now.
Pacoima is a city with five or six active gangs. Here, the low-income neighborhood carries a sense of fear and despair that permeate the air. In the summer of 2016, after having mustered the right confidence, I took on a summer job at Hubert H. Humphrey Recreation Center - home to one of the city’s most deadliest gang, the Humphrey Boys. Ironically, that summer would be the park community’s turning point, hosting the safest, most loving, and consistent 2016 Summer Night Lights (SNL). At first, the despair stuck with me, and the job terrified me.
The environment in which an individual grows up in can affect life greatly. Our surroundings influence one’s personality, self-expression, and individuality, otherwise known as identity. Finding one’s true self is the most grueling stage of life and expectations of family and society make the process even harder. One’s true identity can sometimes clash with hopes of others, thus breaking tradition and/or family ties. Pressure to change will always be present, but staying true to uniqueness will prevail.
How others see you is influenced by material, social, and physical constraints. This causes a tension between how much control you have in constructing your own identity and how much control or constraint is exercised over you. How we see ourselves and how others see us differ in many ways, but is an important factor of our identity. “A Lesson Before Dying”,
On February of her second semester, Brianna turned 19. By this time, she gained a sense of individuality, but was starting to feel like she was missing something in her life. All throughout high school she held several leadership positions and was labeled roles such as “dancer,” “singer,” or “captain.” At college, these titles were replaced with “freshman,” “pizza maker,” or “club attendee”; none of which she felt had substance. There came a point where she hit a mini-identity crisis.
Instilling a sense of pride in your identity is valuable for people reflect from their history to know where they are going and based on their heritage of where they have been. It is interesting that the generations of family members have passed down the importance of traditions, holiday’s and family values that each have contributed to my sense of identity. Persons who have had the greatest impact on my life are my Mother and Father. In many ways having strong role models directly in my life gave me the courage to make difficult decisions.
I was younger then, unsure of everything and constantly over analyzing my every move. I did not even know if I could trust my own thoughts, always cautious about what everyone else thought I was. Everywhere I looked I saw people with their entire lives put together like a puzzle, everything falling right into place without a care in the world. The day I was invited to volunteer at a camp was the day my life took a 180 turn, little did I know my life would never be the same again. Those next two weeks I would acquire the advice, support and stories I needed to change for the better.
My peers have less of an influence on my identity because I have learned to care less of what others think of me. I am unapologetically my own person. Contradicting to societal stereotypes, I am an adolescent that appreciates boundaries and constraints. Like Walker, I find that an excessive amount of freedom can be overwhelming. Freedom becomes a