Living in a small household with six sisters, an alcoholic father, and a semi-depressed mother sounds like a recipe for disaster. As a kid, my parents would either be involved in a quarrel or be at work. Stereotypically, a child living in this type of environment would not seem to see a bright future for themselves. However, this does not apply to me.
I remember how I would regularly look forward to going to school and see my teachers every day. I also remember to never have a good response when my fellow peers would ask me why I love school so much, but as I reflect I now realize that the reason was because I considered school to be my safe haven.
Having so many sisters made me grow up and take responsibility from such a young age. Yes,
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I meant that I no longer live with a father who loves alcohol. My father has been sober for six years and my mother seems to be a lot happier now. Despite my fathers' past addiction and old decisions, he has always been someone I've looked up to. He would always teach my sisters and me the importance of family and would always share his childhood stories with us. Which have taught me to be grateful for what I have despite our past circumstances, and also that everyone no matter who they are has problems. These stories and the environment I lived in helped shape the way I am and from those days on I realized to stop feeling sorry for myself and realize that what's keeping me from being happy is myself.
Knowing that every day there's a person who's in need of someone and having experienced that feeling has made me want to be an approachable person. I have tried to show that I'm trustworthy and I have tried to be a positive person every day and I do believe that I have accomplished that. I also believed that the human mind is destined to do great things and that explains why I have always challenged myself and my peers. Also, whenever I start something I have to finish it because I don't like the idea of quitting something because I believed that there is always a
For about 10 years of my life, my family and I have struggled with the fact that my dad is an alcoholic. For about 6 of those 10 years, I didn’t really understand how much of a problem it was. Growing up, my dad had always been my hero. We were super close. He would play softball with me, take me fishing, and teach me crazy things about space.
Tragedy marred my childhood, I witnessed my two baby brothers die as infants. My mother passed away when I was only 14 years old. And my father died three years later. However, my aunt orphaned us which helped my sister and I obtain an excellent education, which was unusual for women in
Who are you today? How did you get to where you are? Was it a terrible experience affected you to become the person you are now? Maybe it was your family or friends. Or how about your environment?
As lifeless as she looked, her eyes were open. Smothered underwater in a baby pool on the back porch, I ran to her aid thinking she was no longer alive. Fortunately, she was still breathing and I cautiously dragged her out of the water. Tears streamed down my face as I shook her limp body in an attempt to bring her to consciousness. As a fourth grader, this was a horrendous experience, however, several other of my mother’s drunken episodes were just as terrifying.
“Ok anyone got the How it Works?” Andy called out as his blue bulging eyes scanned the seats. “I do!” Linda screeched, Linda a woman in her mid 40’s, with hair dyed red, and some reading glasses proceeded to list out how NA meetings work. “Thank you Linda, who has the twelve traditions of NA?”
I woke up every morning before dawn to work a full day in agriculture and ended the day singing with kids from the hostel. The work was hard and exhausting, however at the end of our two weeks, I cried. Not for the work, but for the people whom I had worked with. We could barely speak to one another, but created a relationship out of hugs, smiles, and laughs. I learned a great deal about myself, about the strength I had and what I was capable of.
Throughout my whole life, my father has been an alcoholic. There have been times when he has tried to quit, but it never lasted for more than a few months. His addiction has brought on stressful times for my family. Some days we did not know where he was or if he was coming home. Although my father’s addiction might not have made the best childhood, he did show me the kind of person I did not want to be.
My experience overall is an example of it. I lost many friends, made new ones and learn several new things. Even though those times weren 't the best, I know there are going to be better days in the future. I 'm getting closer to becoming an adult in which I 'll soon be making my own decisions based on where I want to work, where I want to live and what career I want to pursue. Hopefully, the path I choose to take I, give me the chance to accomplish my goals.
When I was a teenager, the cool thing to do was hang out with friends, party, and drink alcohol, so I thought. My friends and I would tend to follow the crowd and it seemed to always lead to trouble. I was only 14 years old the night it all began. At the time, I could not drive so my friends came and picked me up, we all went to a house party and alcohol was there. Because we were senseless and easily influenced, we decided to try some to fit in.
I have acknowledge that my family members and school played a major role in my childhood and one such interrelated relationship they had was the pressure from my parents to be normal. Don’t get me wrong but I loved learning so much, however school simply ruined it for me. The early hours of waking up to the horrible facilities that my school had were just some of the reasons that put me off from exploring my passion and love for learning new things. The fact that everything was just memory based and had no stable reason on why we were performing this constant repetition.
I was walking through the halls of my elementary school watching as the other girls and boys reluctantly walked to their classes. I nervously walked to my classroom, and sat in my alphabetical seat next to the same boy I was always forced to sit next to, I waited to hear my name as the teacher started to call attendance. It was finally my turn, but my name was never said, however the name I did hear was my sister’s. At this point the name mix up was a regular occurrence, but every year I still hoped that it would be my name that I heard. I felt like a broken record having to correct not only teachers, but other people who would mistake me for one of my older sisters.
The moment you're told that you lived through something that could have eventually killed you, will certainly change your perspective on life. Since that day I have taught myself to do whatever it takes to make others happy, myself as well. If you live everyday like its not worth being here, you aren’t really
July 4th, the day America claimed their independence. Every year I’m so pumped for this holiday to come around. Just something about makes my day. Maybe the fact that I get to eat and drink cotton candy, funnel cake, and strawberry lemonade for a week straight. Living in Clear Lake never once have I had a 4th without the carnival, it 's the best part.
Living alone without the family is one of the worst things in the world especially for the teenagers who cannot depend on themselves. For me, at least I can bear than anyone else because I can depend on myself for domestic works. I don’t need to own to anyone and also my parent don’t need to worry about me. They believe in me that I can live properly and depend on myself. Except trying to adapt the new society and environment, everything is fine for me.
One of the valuable reasons for preserving your life story is because in the process you will confront these life changing experiences. Write a sentence or two describing why you feel each event could be important to your readers. You will discover how they affect your beliefs, your actions and the way you view life. Sometimes returning to these memories helps you grow. This can be especially beneficial if any of the events in your past are holding you back from truly living life to the fullest.