Losing my father at a very young age and realizing with tears in my eyes that he might never come back to his family, especially to me. This made the prospect of life and the world a lot bigger as well as intimidating and the thought of not having a father around terrified me greatly. Living without a fatherly figure was the most challenging obstacle have ever had to overcome. Everyone needs a male role model to influence how they will grow up into a young prosperous man. The absent father figure in my childhood was a difficult obstacle to overcome because I never met due to him leaving his family for another woman, I was disappointed and alone, this event impacted emotionally. For example, in the article “Single Parent Families Cause Juvenile
Tragedy marred my childhood, I witnessed my two baby brothers die as infants. My mother passed away when I was only 14 years old. And my father died three years later. However, my aunt orphaned us which helped my sister and I obtain an excellent education, which was unusual for women in
Describe a time when you overcame a serious challenge. Explain the details of the situation and how you handled things and worked through things. A serious challenge I have faced is growing up with my grandparents. While most people say that I’m so lucky for it there is a lot they don’t know.
One challenge I have persisted through is my father's substance abuse and how it effected me. Growing up, I watched as my alcoholic father turned abusive. Eventually, after years of witnessing domestic violence and fearing for my life, my father was incarcerated. Although I thought he was gone for good, he returned from prison after a few years. However, I was convinced that he was changed.
Traumatic changes, a difficult time in life that was already challenging, such as parents divorcing, the
Throughout my whole life, my father has been an alcoholic. There have been times when he has tried to quit, but it never lasted for more than a few months. His addiction has brought on stressful times for my family. Some days we did not know where he was or if he was coming home. Although my father’s addiction might not have made the best childhood, he did show me the kind of person I did not want to be.
Something challenging I had to face at a very young age was losing my best friend, after losing her I was never really me and I felt like part of me was missing and it was. Carolina Alavazo was my best friend, we were inseparable and when we were together we only created memorable memories. Weeks before Carolina was deported I had noticed she was not the same, she had told me she was sad to see her parents fight and scared all the time but at that time both of us we didn’t know why.
Throughout the course of my young life I have been faced with some adversity. The first thing that comes to my mind is when I was in eighth grade and my dad lost his job. This was very hard on all of our family has we felt bad for him. It was especially hard for me because my dad and I have a very strong relationship. When I first learned that he had lost his job I felt very bad for him
Knowing who a person is can be a deep mystery. It takes time to truly know someone. A relationship has to be formed. One cannot simply meet someone for the first time and know everything about them. That is the beauty of forming relationships.
Death. Everybody has been affected by it. Whether it’s a death of a loved one or a death you hear about on the news, it makes you stop and think. When I was 12 years old my brother and I had a best friend.
I didn’t grasp the fact that my step dad Patrick was risking his life at work, but when I did, I was angry for a long time. I couldn’t understand why he would risk his life for stranger’s lives. I wanted him to be selfish because if he died or was seriously injured at work, my mom would lose her husband and my brothers would lose their dad. Patrick has given me insight into the life of a first responder, and opportunities that helped me develop my understanding of why someone would want to be a first responder. My step dad Patrick is an all-around good person, and I am grateful he came into my mom’s life.
The war I fight against my parent’s extreme drug abuse has been a long-lost battle, though my opponent is no army, and my life is no war our struggles are equal. The Spanish Netherlands continuously lost battles and then eventually the war against the English in 1580, they fought again and again. During the struggles, I have come across many undefeatable obstacles. My parent’s negligence and denial of all allegations has made my attempt for their savior much more complex. I would bring an entire Spanish army against their queen, but this war was not winnable.
Fatherless. Growing up as an African-American female, I have come to certain realizations that have made me more cautious of the people I chose to associate myself with on a day-to-day basis based on ignorance that society distributes for others’ use. For example, society portrays the black cultural without a father raised in a single-mother household in a low-income environment. By providing this image to the world, it allows them to interpret that image in any way they chose. In my case, my father was in my life for a short period of time which proved that stereotype right.
My mother is a lone parent for the past 21 years or since the birth of her first born. Since then, she has raised all of her four children single handedly as there are no other working members of the family. She is the only one providing for our financial needs with no support received from our relatives. With her as our only source of income, the expenses of our family consume most (if not all) or her salary. We have minimum to no extra income for luxury.
I believe I experienced emotional autonomy when I started to de-idealize my father. Prior to entering the adolescent period of my life, I already did not think very highly of my father. For as long as I can remember my father had been around physically, but he never he was never present and this made very unreliable. But, he was my dad and I guess I still thought that he could be better.
Life for me growing up was super difficult. A lot of my childhood was pure traumatic. Also, it was a struggle for me and my family, money wise and food wise. Also, our house was very small. We even lost our father and I also became a teen mom.