Little Sisters Club
Before kindergarten I was part of a neighborhood play group, complete with matching red baseball caps with our club name “The Little Sisters Club” embroidered across the front. We all had different family sizes, but what we all had in common was that we were the youngest of the bunch. We all looked at our siblings with admiration of their age and seeming independence, and simultaneous abhorrence for our bossy tormentors. We put up with wet willies, loogies hung over our faces, secret languages and constantly being excluded by signs that read; ‘NO GIRLS ALLOWED’. At the same time, we had best friends with us on every road trip, shoulders to hold onto in the deep end of the pool, and plenty of jokes to steal. I’ve only ever
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Nobody said I had to, It just stemmed from a fear of being teased or excluded just because I was a girl. I was a shy kid from the start, but around the time I started sixth grade I had a fear of sharing what I loved with people In fear of them thinking it was stupid. It took a long time to get rid of this fear. I still have trouble talking about myself and I still get shy, but when I found my own world, filled with my friends, my ideas, my art and my music, I realized I was my own person, and a person who I love. I realized my family can fit in that world too, and they only make me prouder of it. I feel so much power in my strong relationship with my mom, I learn and gain so much inspiration from making art with my brothers, my relationship with my dad became so much better when I gave up on fitting into the father 's only daughter archetype. Now I question his double standards, his subconscious sexism when it comes to cooking and cleaning, and now I feel no fear in standing up for myself, which we both learn a lot from.
There are so many pressures for young girls as they grow up to shrink themselves, endless messages telling girls to physically and figuratively take up less space in this world. Growing up with boys is a small one, but It has inspired me to always stand up for all the other little sisters. I hope that whatever I do in my world, I am helping
The daughter yearns for approval and therefore the mother has more power. Tannen shows this by saying “Because a mother’s opinion matters so much, she has enormous power. Her smallest comment– or no comment at all; just a look– can fill a daughter with hurt and consequently anger” (450). This same idea is presented in Kimmel’s essay as well. He starts of by saying that he asked women what it means to be a women and they said it can mean whatever they want, but “For men, the question is still meaningful– and powerful” (469).
As Miss Kosciusko’s Outstanding Teen people have questioned why a teenager is wearing a crown and a sash. The thing is people don’t realize that it’s not about the crown and the sash but it’s about serving the people and the community. I have received many opportunities to help within the counties I represent, I have learned to talk professionally, hold my body in a professional manner, and learn to promote my platform in the best way I see fit. I have had some weird encounters while volunteering at many places.
Did you know that 74% of girls say that they are under pressure to please everyone (Girls Inc, The Supergirl Dilemma)? In our society, young girls are not taught to give to themselves, for that is being selfish. But instead to give themselves to others. We are socially enforced to give time, energy and love to people, specifically men, but not taught to provide that same energy and love to ourselves. Their Eyes Were Watching God, a novel written by Zora Neale Hurston, perfectly articulates this concept.
Ever since I was young, I have always heard someone talking about Marquette. Part of this may be due to the fact that three of my neighbors have gone to Marquette and have absolutely loved it. Adding on to that, I have met even more people that have gone to Marquette that have really liked it and are usually successful in life. I met even more people at the Marquette open house that were from all over the United States and said they went to Marquette and they hope their child will attend Marquette as well. This made me realize that Marquette is truly local, since I know several people that have gone to Marquette that live by me and at the same time it is global, since I have met people around the United States, as well as other countries that
Five of five”, “the last member of the team”, “the end of the Campbell Clan”; that’s me. When you are the fifth of five boys, that’s what you hear. Along with the occasional “Were you hoping for a girl”? That one always makes my day.
My ambitions are to be the first, the first to invent, research and to write, I stand imperfect, I live life flawed but I remain determined to overcome my flaws. Talking about the firsts, my influences start with the firsts, Amy beach is the first female composer in the United States. Her piece for solo piano named “Eskimos (1907)”, is such a worthy example of exoticism. At first I was against the idea of a non-native composer trying to create a piece with foreign melodies, but Beach did a prodigious job of keeping the melody true to its’ origins.
At my high school, the Beta Club is the most elite, respected, and prestigious club. It is filled with the leaders, the doers, the hard-working, and the individuals who turn their dreams into reality. It is not for everyone, and in our ever-changing society, that is clear. Most people today do not like to rise up to the ever-growing challenge of leadership. It takes a certain kind of person to be a good leader, and the Beta Club has greatly helped me in doing so.
Over the last fifteen years, I have grown mentally and socially. I credit my growth to my ability to analyze and understand the world for what it is. Social imagination is the use of information to understand the world and ourselves for who we are. Possessing the quality of mind that can develop reason and the capacity to shift perspectives are the basis of social imagination (Mills 2000). As I mentioned in reflection one, I came to realize that my way of thinking is what helped me overcome living a poor lifestyle.
The Meaning of Family According to Chicago Tribune, “About 80 percent of Americans have at least one other sibling.” Most know having siblings is not always easiest thing. They can be annoying at times but “Ohana means family. Family means nobody’s left behind or forgotten” (Lilo & Stitch). The true story of graphic novel Sisters by Raina Telgemeier present the reader with the tough real life choices that family’s experience.
I was scared that I would be judged for being myself, and that is the worst feeling in the world. Anytime
As the Vietnamese proverb reads, “Brothers and sisters are as close as hands and feet.” My older brother, Joseph Outen, possesses traits of loyalty, humility, intelligence, and compassion. The admiration I feel towards Joseph grows deeper every day. He inspires me in my academic studies, extracurricular activities, community involvement, and he inspires me to show my true self to the world without shame or fear of discrimination. Though many siblings share close bonds, the relationship my brother and I cherish offers a uniqueness unlike most.
As a little girl you are encouraged to be who you want to be. You fill your world with fairy tales or Barbie dolls that inspire you to believe that the sky is the limit. But little do you know, that as you grow older, the dreams you are forging for yourself is no longer achievable. Where you once saw the sky as the limit is now transformed to be seen as a man’s word as the limit. No little girl, you are not liberated nor are you empowered…you are simply propagated by a man’s world to believe that you are.
Last week was Homecoming, and it was an entertaining week. In my opinion it was the best Homecoming I ever experienced, but my favorite event was the Womanless Pageant. It’s a pageant where the boys dressed up like girls and walked around the gym and have a good time. I participated in the pageant this year and had a blast. When I first heard about I didn’t want to join but I lost a bet and had no choice.
As I converse with the children at my country club, I begin to forget about the incessant profanity and negativity I must express to fit in with my coworkers. “You serve him, I’m just straight up done with this job,” says my coworker, Brett, engrossed in his phone and refusing to even nod at our customer. “Chill, it’s just a kid,” I reply smoothly, and jumping from my chair to escape the sweltering heat, I exclaim, “Hey Max, what have you got there, buddy?” Stepping up to the counter, Max fires a foam football at my head, with impressive accuracy for six year-old. My hands jolt up from my sides and I catch the ball inches from my nose, “Wow Max you have a pretty strong arm!
Imagine being a little opening that new Barbie Doll present you had been waiting for a year. Totally, the feeling I got when our car pulled up in front of that blue and white house on Berry Gordy (Grand) Boulevard in Detroit, Michigan, last Spring. From the parking lot I could see the line was extremely long, but I really didn’t care because my only thought was getting to that front door. While waiting in line some of the people waiting along with us started what I would describe as a mini concert out on the sidewalk singing The Marvelettes “Mr. Postman” and attempting the dance moves that made them famous it was amazing! Their singing and dancing made me more excited about touring the museum.