I Want a Baby I belong to the classification of people know as educators. I am a teacher and unfortunately, I am not a mother. Yet. Just recently my younger sister of 28 years, just gave birth to her third child. Her first and most beautiful 7.5 pound little baby girl. With hair brown like melted chocolate and eyes the color of honey, dressed up in a pink mommy’s little girl onesie. I see her kids every day and I see other people’s kids every day too, but why don’t I have any of my own? I thought about it as I sat there rocking little Evelyn in my arms and it suddenly occurred to me that I, too, would like to be a mother. Not just an educator or an aunt, but a mother with a baby of her own. Why do I want a Baby? First of all, I would like to stop the flow of overwhelming questions I always get from my family, coworkers and especially my students. The repetitive cycle of “how many kids do you have?” or “how come you don’t have any kids?” or my personal favorite “you better hurry, you’re not getting any younger.” In which I always respond with my favorite answer, “Why would I want any kids if I already have 147 of them who I see every day.” Not just that, but I want a baby that I can call my …show more content…
Throughout the essay she creates a list based on all the things she feels that men take for granted and expect the women to do. Brady also repetitively uses the phrase, “I Want a…” to express the selfish and ignorance men have when it comes to looking for a woman to marry. In my imitation, “I Want a Baby,” I wrote about a teacher who concludes that she wants a baby because of the benefits. Similar to Judy Brady’s essay, “I Want a Wife,” expressing an overall feminist message, my imitation, “I Want a Baby,” mirrors the original by following the same basic sentence structure, point-of-view and
“Okay.” You huffed and puffed as this belly of yours was troublesome. You couldn’t wait for this little monster inside of you to pop out. You had enough carrying this weight, receiving achiness all over your body. You declare to yourself that you weren’t going to carry anymore babies if this was terrible.
There is no going back from this moment on. She is no longer just her mother’s child-- she is a mom. Her baby’s mom. It is as if her whole world changed in a blink of an eye, but despite the rapid change, she embraces it. She loves her child to an extent only a mother can imagine possible.
In the essay “Not All Men Are Sly Foxes” by Armin A. Brott, he explains his impact on how children books are giving the wrong messages and showing discriminatory materials. Brott states that in these book it is told that mothers are better at handling more situations such as taking care of the children, the home, and managing a work life at the same time. Brott takes references from book such as children books and parenting books to get examples to support his case. The author indicated that in parenting books are saying that not having a father is normal and shows how to take care of a child without the help of men. In the essay “I Want a Wife”, Judy Brady also feels that she feels treated unfairly.
Chrystal Meeker When becoming a mother, the first instinct is to protect and raise a healthy child at whatever cost. Habits are drop as well as large life changes. The last bite is given as well as altering one’s life style to insure the child has no needs. This could mean getting rid of negative, toxic people who could pose as a threat or even a sleeping pattern may need to be altered. However, the child comes first and the mothers wants are secondary.
She then goes on to discuss the various, so-called, wifely duties that men seem to expect from their spouse. Brady states that “[she] wants a wife who will work and send [her] to school” (Patterns,502) and that while she is attending school she expects the wife to care for the children. To dress them, feed them, arrange playdates
If I was in Simone’s situation I don’t think I’d be able to handle it as well as she did. I don’t plan to have any kids in the future and I feel like it would greatly affect my success in the future. I plan to get my PhD in psychology, so that's approximately eight years of post-secondary education and I am not financially stable enough to support myself and a child. I don’t think I could handle having a child this early on in my life.
Parenting has been a long practice that desires and demands unconditional sacrifices. Sacrifice is something that makes motherhood worthwhile. The mother-child relationship can be a standout amongst the most convoluted, and fulfilling, of all connections. Women are fuel by self-sacrifice and guilt - but everyone is the better for it. Their youngsters, who feel adored; whatever is left of us, who are saved disagreeable experiences with adolescents raised without affection or warmth; and mothers most importantly.
In the 1970’s women were expected to stay at home and take care of the household. They were usually not expected to further their education, but instead take care of the children or tend to their husbands’ needs. In 1972 Judy Brady decided to let the readers of Ms. Magazine know how she felt about her “duties”. In her short essay, “Why I Want a Wife,” Brady uses pathos to connect and appeal to the reader’s emotions while explaining why she wants a wife.
Fortunately, there are other methods to having kids, such as adoption. II. Thesis
“Not Wanting Kids is Entirely Normal” is a short essay written by Jessica Valenti. The author states that many parents regret having children so that a family without a child should be recognized just as the traditional one. To support her argument, the author provides three pieces of evidence, including secret confession, Nebraska Law, and the results of a research study. The author first provides her observations concerning Nebraska Law in support of the message she delivers.
Making emphasis that some men are selfish and they want everything without give something in return. In addition, Brady says, “I want a wife who will work and send me to school. And while I am going to school I want a wife to take care of my children” (502). This shows that men think only for themselves, they want to worry only for one things, and their wife need to take care of everything else. Overall, Brady’s goal is sow the readers that some women are treated without respect by men, leading in failure of
Becoming a Single Mother Becoming a single mother was one of the hardest things to do in my life. I was only nineteen years old and new to the world. I had just gotten out of a five year relationship when I met this guy on social media, a few weeks later we finally met in person. Fast-forward about four months later, I was still working as a manager at one of our local fast food restaurants and just wasn’t feeling the greatest. One of the employees suggested that I could be pregnant, I didn’t think that it was possible since I did my part and was on the Pill, and still currently taking it.
Judy Brady’s “I Want A Wife” is a revolutionary piece that attempted to reveal the unequal roles men and women held in society. She goes through her prose by listing all the responsibilities her wife must have and the ways to make her happy. Brady’s whole article is satirizing these roles and is, in general, very sarcastic in her tone. She mocks a society that has given women an impossible standard and she starts with the deprivation of her education then continues with the role her wife should play in domestic ways, and then finishes with the expectations the sexual aspects of their relationship. I believe that Brady’s underlying message was and still is important for the development of equality in our nation.
Mary Wollstonecraft’s, Maria or The Wrongs of Woman, is an analyzation and critique about a woman’s place in society. Specifically, that socially, politically, and economically woman are at a disadvantage. Furthermore, society perpetuates this imbalance through certain expectations about motherhood, marriage, and double standards. This power imbalance has always been present in society and through the analyzation of Maria and themes such as: motherhood, domination, and traditionalist thought it is possible to contextualize the era that Mary Wollstonecraft lived in to gain a better understanding of what women went through in her time so that we have a reference to compare to how women are treated today.
Becoming a father in my life was the best thing that has ever happened to me. Living for someone else and not just yourself is a special feeling. Knowing that it is your sole duties in life are now to love, provide, teach, mentor, discipline and love some more. I always hear people say “ Im don 't think I 'm ready to be a parent.” and to be honest I do not think anyone is ready to be a parent.