Pretend. Just how many times a person can pretend to feel some things in life. There are many occasions that force us to. But mostly it is our own choice.
Everything is a game of pretend. With every person being on different levels emotionally and mentally, we get to know how better they can pretend. Not everyone shows the real them when you first meet them. Everyone has build walls around them. You’ll get to know with every minute you spend with them, how tall their walls really are.
Its not just with one. Almost everyone does it. With every brick they shut off a piece of themselves. With every stone they shut off their memories in a box. With every wall they hide their each face. No one could ever break those walls. Sometimes we might get a window, but not for long. You can only see the person as they show themselves. It’s up to them to show their real face or conceal it with walls. You cant break those walls with love or force. neither you could scale them. You’ll always have to wait for the window.
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They flee from the situation. Because it would be better to run away than deal with thorns of questions. It’s better to not feel anything than go through any actual pain. There are hardly people who pick pain over pleasure.
It all works in a loop. You can ignore it once, twice or more than that. But eventually you’ll have to face the situation. You never think of the bridges of hope when you hurt that person on a loop. It could be a no, or just a simple yes too that might break every connection. It doesn’t just happen. There is always something causing it. If you cant take the blame for it you shouldn’t at least run. Where would you able to run from life.
Things happen in a loop. Just as we keep building more and more walls. Just as the sun and moon give up for each other. Just as that little kid gave the money for his chocolate to the beggar. It doesn’t change on its own. You have to change the
Everyone has experienced pain, but we all deal with it differently. Some people try to avoid experiencing pain, for they are scared; while others accept their punishment and agony. Moral people tolerate their pain and trauma by making their traumatic experience meaningful and important. They learn from their punishment and try to provide insight. In the stories of Antigone and Boycott, Letter From Birmingham Jail, righteous people fought for their beliefs without violence and dealt with their suffering without hesitation.
(Grafeman et al. 92). Those who have narcissistic tendencies tend to appear as though they are warm, charismatic, or even charming, as part of their initial relationships, but lack the empathy to sustain any type of relationship past a given point. For people with higher levels of narcissism, there is a strong desire to maintain a positive concept of self, and will often engage in ego-boosting activities to prove their worth. According to Grafeman et al. , it is “this constant pursuit of proving one’s competency to the self and others that is thought to frequently contribute to relational problems” (92).
If we can learn to look deeper–to see past appearances, to surround ourselves with truth, then perhaps we can begin to see people for what they truly
Social Psychology Alecia Reynolds 1403451 “Fake it till you become it,” are the words from the above link that captured my attention. This means to impersonate certainty so that as the certainty produces success, it will create genuine certainty. Social Psychologist Amy Cuddy, discusses the way our non-verbal communication impacts our view of ourselves; the way we think and feel, and how to utilize non-verbal communication to support our certainty and enhance the nature of our lives. Seen in the link were examples of different body positions classified as “high power” and “low power” poses. The high power poses are described as being open and loose/relaxed but the low power poses are more closed and reserved.
In this way, indifference is so inhuman that it would cause another human to become oblivious to the suffering of those around them. The failure to recognize such suffering is an end. When no one becomes involved to help those affected who will pay attention to the victim's cries? Surely not the enemy.
The purpose of life is to experience deeply. And that hurts. And naturally the attempt to shield from the pain. In the short-term, that may work.
The Nature of Mankind How do you react in the face of fear? Do you freeze, not knowing what to do, or suffice and take action? Are you scared stiff or get away from whatever it is? Maybe you’ve never been faced with this kind of situation.
1. I feel that forgiveness is not for the other person, it’s a process that provides you the energy and the self-confidence to move on. One reason why is forgiveness is not for the other is because in my experience, forgiveness is a situation where serious harm has been done to you physically or mentally. The next steps are finding a way to relieve your conscious of the harm caused.
In other words the person wants to get under your skin about anything. There is no support within the relationship that you have with that person. As in the essay of the married couple Burroughs knew of and how the wife left the husband. She also moved out the house but left her dog with him. Months went by without any type of communication on her dog but an email she received saying that the dog had a health problem and he
It may seem naïve to some, but those are just views from the outside. In these cases, the minds of these victims are confounded. Denial is real, and while in denial they just can’t seem to wrap their minds around the possibility that the individual, that they came to know and love, might not be who they initially thought they were. Outside of pure love, there are also many other emotional factors.
They just move on when it threatens to be too much for
The film does not mention other possible contributing factors such as
Today, each and every one of us interact or even act as phonies. For example, you may consider a “mean girl” a phony due her need to downside others to put up herself. This act of insecurity is considered an act of fakeness therefore, displaying phony like behavior. Even though, “mean
Eventually the suppression of the inner self builds a desire to express the individual’s true feelings. The urge to express oneself is at its core, a right, and is not unlike one of the most