They want to cheat you, steal from you or hurt you. You will be called a ‘loser’ by some or even something even worse! You can be bullied, pushed in a corner or even be persecuted for no fault of yours! This is what predators do. They position themselves in close proximity, if you call them your friend all is lost.
Observe and clearly see when someone shows themselves to you. Do not give them a chance of a ‘do over’ again. Not unless you want to get screwed twice. You give your friends and loved ones as many chances of a do over as possible but never someone who has tried to abuse you or your family, destroy you or your reputation, a person who tries to alienate you from your piers or tries to gossip about you. Beware and be wary. Forgive
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So do not waste your time on such people. Be cordial but not close. And never familiar. Be a good natured acquaintance in their life. Because if you shun them or avoid them that too will sort of trigger their anger or insecurity. Just have a nondescript presence in peripheries of their life. No more no less. No need to socialise or invite them to your parties or social celebrations. I do not like to be seen with shady or nasty people. You can always say the gathering was impromptu, intimate and for close family/friends only. No need of explanations needed here. Keep them in your peripheral vision to see their movement that’s all. So that you can safe guard yourself & your interest. That’s …show more content…
Even in the animal kingdom most creature have heightened sensitivity which helps them to survive in the wild. A pool of fish may disperse just by a small ripple. Just a hint of rustling of grass and the deer sprints to safety. So you see you can use your power of sensitivity to equip yourself with the power of foresight, take action with dexterity and position yourself to safeguard your interests.
Biggest artists, thinkers, musicians, writers, psychics and healers in this world are the most sensitive wonderful human beings you will ever meet. If you are one of these sensitive person like me with a strong mind and a weak heart. Who hurts easily, loves freely and dreams big. You need to learn to reprogram your mind and emotional fragility to become a stronger version of yourself.
You need to learn how to thrive when the world overwhelms you. You need not worry if the bad people get recognised, punished or arrested. Or there bad karma hits them back three fold or not. What you need to learn is how to remove yourself from the harms path and become inaccessible to them permeneantly.This book will slowly but surely show you how you can reprogram yourself for success. Take small steps, be persistent and not to give up ever! And you will succeed for sure! Sounds simple right. But it is not. I have designed certain steps for you to follow and achieve it effortlessly though. So you do not have to struggle on your path as I
If you don’t forgive someone it can haunt you for the rest of your life and may affect how you see different objects and
Although, not everything/everyone deserves to be forgiven, forgiveness is necessary to be genuinely happy because holding onto something will cloud your vision and overwhelm someone with emotions. If you can never let go and forgive someone, holding onto something will eat away at your happiness or even distract you from being happy. From personal experience, I once got into an argument with my best friend who I would spend everyday talking to. We were a part of each other’s daily lives and would always be there for each other. Until one day we got into a heated argument and began to
It’s just a part of living life. The crowd that you are around should display themselves as being a nice person but that doesn't always happen. By the way you present yourself and interact with one another can impact on your relationship with them. In the story, “And summer is gone”, by Susie Kretschmer.
While I remain aware of others emotions I have a tough time keeping my emotions in check and tend to react before taking the time to reflect on the
We are humans and a majority of us have dealt with heartache, pain, broken promises, along with the joyous things like dreams, aspirations, and successful futures. Humans mess up and make mistakes, but we have to remember that forgiveness is a very prestigious and powerful thing. Forgiveness affects people’s lives in positive ways through the hardships, difficulties, and struggles of life. There comes a time when forgiveness should not be available to some individuals. However, this depends on the past situations that have occurred in your life as well as other individuals.
In order to evaluate the contribution of qualitative research on friendship, it is crucial to define and have some background of friendship, define and understand qualitative approach and then evaluate its contribution to friendship research. Friendship is considered to be one of the pillars of day to day life starting from childhood to very old age. Friendship is a complex endeavour and can be difficult to define as it may have different meanings to different people at different times. Friendship has different stages and occurs inversely in different stages of life i,e childhood, adolescence, and adulthood friend, long-term friend, best friend, good friend, school friend, college friend and etc. Friendship is a mutual trust and support between
Forgive, not because they deserve forgives, but because you deserve peace. It’s not easy to stop blaming someone’s fault, especially for someone who do wrong to us. In the book The Sunflower written by Simon Wiesenthal, a survivor of the Holocaust during World War II, he described his conflict with Karl, a dying Nazi soldier who killed many innocent Jews and begging for forgiveness for his outrageous crime at the end of his life. At the end of this sad and tragic episode, Simon did not response to Karl’s request directly; instead he left us a tough question: “What should you have done?” Based on what Karl had done during World War II and his repentance, each person might have their own point of view about where should we draw the line of forgiveness.
“I learned a long time ago that some people would rather die than forgive. It’s a strange truth, but forgiveness is a painful and difficult process. It’s not something that happens overnight. It’s an evolution of the heart.” (Kidd)
Mozart’s Influence In the Enlightenment The Enlightenment was a train of thinking that started with philosophers in the eighteenth century. Philosophers warned against religious division, cultural division, and social inequality. Today, our Declaration of Independence is based upon these same values of equality. In the Enlightenment, music took a different shape.
In other words the person wants to get under your skin about anything. There is no support within the relationship that you have with that person. As in the essay of the married couple Burroughs knew of and how the wife left the husband. She also moved out the house but left her dog with him. Months went by without any type of communication on her dog but an email she received saying that the dog had a health problem and he
At the beginning of the film (4 minutes and 50 seconds) shows how the different Hierarchical Groups taking part in this movies. Social Dominance Theory explains the behaviours that being participated in and experienced in middle and high school as well as the behaviours in the above mentioned move, Mean Girls. The theory states that people all belong to groups and members protect their group and act to maintain their hierarchical groups. The clip demonstrates this principle in how a member of the group did not follow their standards and therefore, in order to protect the group, she was dismissed. The top group has high social value which motivates and maintained the hierarchical status.
Victims of stalking often are ordinary people, with mostly just cases of famous victims being reported on the media. Victims are likely (but not necessarily) female, young, educated and single. Violence is more likely if the stalker and the victim had a prior relationship, resulting possibly from a sense of ownership over the victim. Many cases of stalking are not reported (around half of them). Still, the psychological harm done by threats, stalking and intrusion is often judged by the victims as more severe than actual physical assault.
Is lacking empathy or compassion for you and others. Views you as an extension of themselves rather than as an individual. Emotional Blackmail Escalates abusive language or behavior if you talk back. Uses guilt trips or shaming to get his or her way.
Many people believe that men and women cannot be friends. Like Harry in When Harry Met Sally, many people believe that sex will always have a role in these types of friendships. Research has found that there are five challenges to cross-sex friendship, and sexual attraction is one of them. Emotional bond, equality, audience, and opportunity are the other challenges. Firstly, emotional bond challenge brings up the question of whether the closeness is due to friendship or romantic love.