Speech On Valentine's Day

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The forgotten art that will turn you on this Valentine 's day…

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“On this day, I will charmingly express what you really mean to me…”

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Being a Valentine means you’re that special someone to someone, and the only person he/she will be spoiling on that day.

But it’s actually not the box of chocolates, or the 12 red roses, or the fancy dinner women want when Valentine comes along every February - that’s just the dazzle, that charming prince on the white horse.

What most women really want, are something more assertive, more exciting, more rousing, more ‘sweeping of her feet’ stuff… like when the ‘shoe finally fits’ and the lights go off...

So this year, as you plan on treating your date with a box of chocolates, or making that michelin-star restaurant reservation and carefully wrapping that gift… don’t forget at the end of the date to pay detailed attention to what probably brought you together in the first place. Sex. Everyone wants to be desired, for who they are as a person yes, but also physically - as that’s where the real excitement happens.

Generally, women appraise ‘desire’ differently than what men do; women need an emotional connection and lingering lovemaking first to physically engage in sex, and guys need the sexual activity to feel connected.

So, what is Tantra exactly? Tantra is a 5,000-year-old practice, using various mind-body-energy influences to solidify the connection and intimacy between partners, which often leads to intense and enlightening multiple orgasms. Tantra is also a way to weave together (that’s what the word Tantra means) every aspect of daily life, with a central goal of realizing the inherent beauty and perfection of the world and sacredness of all beings, including oneself. “It positively awakens and cultivates that appetite, desire, curiosity and energy that’s intrinsic within all of us, which has the power to intensify our self-healing, self-confidence, self-respect and self-actualization,” explains

“As soon as the first date on Valentine’s night,” laughs Psalm. “Depending if you have chemistry or not, as some women feel that’s necessary for spontaneous sexual engament.”

“But it actually depends on the level of your sexual comfortability scale, meaning, if you’re not experiencing any of the common sexual barriers people generally struggle with.”

Common problems experienced by women…

Women tend to suppress their powerful energy, and look outside themselves for approval to feel beautiful, powerful, loveable and wanted.

“And that’s totally understandable, since we all have to shift through a considerable amount of baggage and negativity as a result of unhealthy relationships or past experiences.”

Barriers or baggage like...
Past traumas
Fear of intimacy
Scared of losing control
Scared of losing reputation or character
Feelings of unworthiness
Constant doubt
Criticizing own body
Fear of being judged

Psalm adds, “I found most women feel guilty, ashamed and embarrassed when it comes to exploring her sexuality and asking for what she wants. Others are simply frustrated because they can’t reach orgasm, and sex is just not great for them