Adoption and foster care is a somewhat controversial subject in today's society. Perhaps the most controversial thing about adoption and foster care is positive adoption language. Positive Adoption Language is a way to talk respectfully to adopted children and their families. People either feel that Positive Adoption Language should be encouraged in today's culture or that it's far too politically correct and therefore unnecessary. In a modern society of political correctness, there is a vocabulary that surrounds the adopted children, adoptive parents, and representatives of the adoption industry.
When an adopted person tells somebody that they are adopted, they react one of two ways. The first way they react is by saying, “Oh, thats cool”
Laura Finley states, “Indeed, restoration of the family is achieved in over half the cases of foster care, according to federal statistics. Where this is not possible, permanent adoption is the goal with about twenty percent of foster children. Other children are simply waiting until emancipation…” (Jacobs and Finley). The issue with this view on the foster care system is that its completely sugar coated.
Followed by “Overly intrusive questions about adoption” with 86 incidences mentioned and “Assumptions of Bionormativity” with 62. Harrington et al. (2010) conducted interviews with 46 families who have adopted from China with Baden (2015), a contributing author to the Harrington et al., searching online collecting comments or statements from those in the Adoption Triad analyzing for themes related to adoption microaggressions. They found 14 themes specifically related to adoption, of which only 8 apply to the adoptee, of these 3 were the same as suggested by Garber (2014) and Garber and Grotevant (2015). They found the most common theme impacting adoptees was “Biology is best” with 55 incidences reported followed by “Bad see adoptees” with 9 incidences and “Grateful adoptees” with 8 incidences.
The current adoption process is broken because of the outlook it tries to portray. The message behind most adoptions is that it is a way to get a child if you can’t get one biologically. This is a prime example of what is wrong with the adoption process. Not all adoptive parents fall into this category, but most adopt for the wrong reasons. Adoption should be about being able to emotionally, financially, and physically support a child.
Now to the pro side of all of this it is good for the people adopting the kid it gives them a chance to love something that maybe the can 't have or at least giving them a shot at being parents and it will give the kid a second chance to. The kid can bond with them the kid will feel loved and so will the parents no matter who you are you should always feel like someone is there for and thats what these parents are tryna do for these kids “If you have no kids, wait until your foster kids call you Mom and Dad for the first time. It is an awesome feeling and you will never look at life the same. There is no love like that of a child’s where they depend on you for so much.” I feel that this quote/saying is basically understanding the meaning of a new start like how every mother gets to feel that special little sense of love when they hear their baby 's first cry ,and the baby 's first word.
boosts incredibly and their outlook on life is positive. The parents that emphasize good character and raise the children to be more than phenomenal, impact our society greatly; let alone the foster children’s lives. Those are the kind of parents we need to encourage to have open arms and embrace foster children to truly effect their lives for the best of them. It’s a tragedy that finding beneficial parents are so laborious. “More than one-half of children in foster care have ever experienced caregiver violence or caregiver incarceration and almost two-thirds have lived with someone who had an alcoholic or drug problem” (Bramlett).
The foster care systems has and will always be a part of society. The idea of a foster care system has always been around, even if it was not properly attained in the past. There has also been other methods to try to find placement for children with no or bad homes, for example the orphanage train, living with widows or living house to house in a community. Now in today’s time, we have an organized system of foster care with two different types of homes for children. For example we have group homes, which is a care facility that houses six or more children at a time.
A black family? A multiracial family? A white family? All other factors being equal, what makes one family more qualified than the other? The experiences of interracial couples who have adopted reveal an adoption system that is grounded in essentialist understandings of race.
Anti-abortion laws are becoming increasingly prominent in today's age. Foster care homes are also becoming gradually prominent, and it is very clearly an unsatisfactory alternative in most cases. The United States of America is becoming more strict on abortion, and some states are even banning and restricting them. Women in tight situations cannot get proper care for their pregnancies, and while some women cannot afford to care for their children, they end up giving birth to their child nonconsensually, only to leave them in what they believe is a safe foster care system until they are of legal age to make their own decisions. Though people immediately think of a caring home for children when they think of the term “foster”, foster care homes
From the young age of twelve, I knew that I wanted to be a piano teacher. So, I did. I began teaching at 15 and figured I was all set for life. Then when I was 26 I adopted twins from Milwaukee county. I soon discovered their needs were greater than I had anticipated.
Walking Talking Contradiction: Transracial Adoption and Identity Transracial adoption occurs when the child’s race is different from the adoptive parents. This can occur in both domestic and international adoptions. Transracial adoptions arose in the 1950’s with Korean and Native American children (Patton, 2000, p. 46). Later the civil rights movement publicized the number of colored children that was in need of a good home (Patton, 2000, p. 46).The intent of any adoption is to give a child a loving, caring and nurturing home.
Tie to the audience: Some of the children that are in foster care might be related to you or the child could be someone that you know like a friend’s child. C. Thesis and Preview: Consequently, we need to do something to make adoption easier and better not only in the United States, but all over the world. Today I will give you a few solutions to fix the foster care system. I’ll begin by telling you about the need to improve foster care. II.
Every year, more than 100,000 children in foster care are available for adoption according to Children’s Action Network. Foster care is a temporary living situation for children whose parents are unable, unwilling, or unfit to care for them. Minors whose need for care has come to the attention, are placed with a state certified caregiver which is arranged through the government or a social service agency. The primary goal of foster care is to reunite children with their parents. With the history and known statistics, this many children entering the system every year, finding the right care becomes increasingly difficult.
Rhetorical Analysis Ruth Graham in the article, “Why Adopted Children Struggle Over Time,” explicates that adopted children are proven to have more difficulties compared to “normal” children regardless of when they were adopted. Graham supports her claims by giving factual evidence from recent scientific studies. The author’s purpose is to bring awareness to the effects of being adopted in order to clarify a common misconception that while in most cases the children are adopted into successful families, they still experience effects from adoption. The author writes in an educated tone to convey to her readers, the general public, that her claims are credible.
II. Body Paragraph- So what is adoption in real life?