Positive Thinking and Conflict There are many times in one’s life where a simple positive gesture can make their day. Anne, in “The Diary of a Young Girl” by Anne Frank along with Louise Ogawa in “Dear Miss Breed” by Joanne Oppenheim, display attitudes that not only helped themselves, but gave other people hope. Though some might argue that positivity during a conflicting situation won’t help resolve anything, having a positive outlook on a negative situation can help someone solve their disagreement swiftly and efficiently. The best way someone can respond to conflict is with a positive attitude because it can be a stress reliever, give tremendous benefits to their physical health, and make others around them happier. Having a positive attitude can make people less stressed during a time of conflict. According to the Clinical Practice and Epidemiology in Mental Health, “...optimists tend to use coping strategies that focalize on the problem more frequently compared to pessimists. When these strategies cannot be enacted, optimists resort to adaptive strategies that focalize on the emotions, for example, acceptance, humour and positive re-assessment of the situation.” Unlike pessimists, optimists are more equipped to unravel a dispute calmly and quickly. After people use healthy strategies, a conflict would not be as stressful as before. Likewise, in “Dear Miss Breed,” she got a letter from a little girl named Louise Ogawa saying, “This trip has made me realize the
‘Sometimes Gladness’, a collection of poems by Bruce Dawe mention a variety of references to Australian culture; although often looked over by the reader. Without the use of stereotypical behaviours or even language known universally, the naming of certain places known to Australia in ‘Drifters’ and ‘Revire of a swimmer’ gets muddled with the overall message of the poems. Moreover, even when Australian slang is incorporated into the poem, a larger audience can relate to what is being said; as Dawe relies on universally issues to form the backbone of his poetry, especially in ‘Homecoming’ and ‘Life-Cycle’. Lastly, a distinct Australian poem would only be expected to explore issues relating to the countries individual culture or issues, though
Negative Attitude Towards Conflict What mindset is best to have during conflict? Mr. Van Daan was always moody, and never really appreciated what he still had. Most people deal with conflict in a negative way. A positive attitude towards conflict may be the best way it handle it but, some people have a negative attitude towards conflict.
People often don’t think about the impact of their words. Humans have different experiences in life and people don’t necessarily recognize others’ views or experiences. This causes misunderstood wording and hurt feelings. In Dear Martin by Nic Stone, Jared realizes that the impact of words can differ from the intent. This causes Jared to rethink what he says and think more about the consequences of these words.
Your example is one my favorites from the seminar. Truly, we do not realize the power of our minds and how our thoughts impact our feelings and reactions. Similar to an old technology phrase, garbage in and garbage out, we can change the very dynamic of our perceptions by placing a positive spin on a negative situation. As mentioned by Dr. Steinberg, we should fill our minds with golden nuggets (G. Steinberg, personal communication, December 12, 2015).
Does Miss Brill Successfully Gain Happiness? In the short story “Miss Brill” by Katherine Mansfield the main character Miss Brill is introduced by mentioning the fur. The fur represents wealth, meaning Miss Brill is wealthy when she puts on the fur. The fur is not a perfect picture for wealth though, it was covered in moth-powder and the furs nose needed black sealing-wax.
Throughout history, we have had to deal with conflict. How we deal with conflict can be most challenging of all. We all can find our strength to make it through treacherous times. A positive attitude can help a tremendous amount when dealing with conflict. An example of this can be found in The Diary of Anne Frank.
All humans have been in tough situations involving conflict. It is only human nature to respond to these conflicts. The book Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl and the historical fiction The Boy in the Striped Pajamas provide good examples of attitude connected with human survival because their characters, Anne, Bruno, and Shmuel all demonstrate a positive attitude and frame of mind when they were in hard situations that could have resulted in life or death. What though, is the best way to respond to conflicts? It has been proven by real life situations, experts, and scholars that a positive frame of mind or response to bad situations (conflict), is one of the best ways that one can deal with difficult trials they might face and could even be the key to survival.
Encourage positive emotions. Positive emotions build creativity, helps to look beyond horizons, and find alternative solutions. Negative emotions are destructive, and positive emotions can undo every impact a negative emotion had and also remove the emotion fully.
When people are getting through hard times in their lives, it’s always better to think positive. An article by Dallas Morning News and a book by Gary Paulsen, has shown the power of positive thinking. Paulsen's’ book ‘Hatchet’ is about a boy name Brian Robeson, who survived a plane crash and how positive thinking helped him have hope that everything will be okay and how he will survive. In the article “Juvenile justice program teaches boys life lesson and accountability’’ it states how positive thinking has helped people with their life and characteristic.
Furthermore, in the short story Sadie and Maud, it describe how a woman who did not make the politically correct decisions for her life but was still happy. Sadie was a free spirited woman who was happy about her life. According to the story, “Sadie did not go to college,” but she still was able to provide for herself. Sadie enjoyed what life had to offer. She may have been content on what she had, but she was happy.
One reason having a positive attitude helps someone succeed is showing one can go through the hard times. In the Maze Runner the book, Thomas and his friends are trapped in a maze. There are other people watching them in the maze. Later on Thomas and his friends are trying to escape. While escaping they lost people but they stayed positive and succeed in escaping the
Introduction Organizational Behavior is the field of study which investigates the impact that individuals, group and structures have on behavior within the organization. We are born in an organization, we live, we work and most probably we will die in an organization. Yet most of us do not understand how people function, behave and interact between each other within these organizations. We also do not understand if people shape an organization or an organization shapes people. Different people work differently in different situations.
People can best respond to conflict by staying positive because it affects their physical and mental health in a helpful way and can affect others around you in a positive way. It can help someone greatly in stressful situations when their life could be at risk. Positive thinking is one of the best ways to respond to conflict because it can affect your physical health in a constructive way. The Mayo Clinic Staff states that a positive attitude can, “Increase a person’s life span, can help them build up resistance to the common cold and cardiovascular disease, have better physical well-being, and better cardiovascular health”. Staying positive is somewhat crucial to a person’s health.
In the movie titled “The Pursuit of Happyness”, there was a problematic family living in San Francisco in 1981. The main character, Chris Gardner worked as a salesman invested his entire life savings in portable bone density scanner to support his family including his wife Linda and a five years old son Christopher. However, Chris’ business is not doing well and his wife was forced to work. Day after day, Linda was suffering and she always quarrelled with Chris and blamed him didn’t play the role as a responsible father and a good husband. Luckily, this was not the end for Chris.
Conquer your stress and conflicts with a mindset of a warrior. The heart of the warrior lies in understanding that without confrontation, there is no victory, without a fight there is no progress and success. Warrior trains his entire life to be ready for the battles to come. Warrior understands that the main enemy he has to defeat is his own fear, his own limitations. When faced with a vision of fighting for life and death, the warrior understands that the only fight he cannot afford to lose is his fight with his own fear, because he realizes that every other fight is the step to victory either by winning or by gaining experience and valuable lesson.