I agree that it’s okay to tell them good job or try again next time, but it isn’t fair to those who won the activity if those who lost are also awarded a prize. After studying whether children should be rewarded for losing, it is clear that people who think it is okay to give awards to losing teams should take a second look at the effects it has on children. Awarding losing teams has a bad effect on a person’s future and how they deal with hardships in life, it also rewards the wrong team, and it costs too much to award all
“The effects of depression may include school problems, running away, drug and alcohol abuse, low self-esteem, Internet addiction, reckless behavior and violence” (Parents must watch, 2013). Throughout all the stress that a teenager may encounter they may also turn to not so great substances such as drugs and alcohol. These substances can be highly addictive and one is very likely to abuse these substances. People may turn to these because they think that the substances will relieve and ease their pain. However, they do just the opposite.
Competition only makes children bound to be winners. It also discourages sportsman spirit. Instead of being a source of healthy growth, these competitive sports have started becoming the source of depression for children when they don’t fulfil the expectations of their parents. These sports should enhance the sportsman spirit in children and must be beneficial for their mental and physical health. Concentrating on winning or losing spoils the fun that games hold.
The cause for bully can be triggered because of many different reasons, some reasons are because of race, gender, socioeconomic status, religion, or ethnicity, or just because they have found an easy target. Celie was bullied by Albert, because she was a woman. His bullying made her feel worthless, ugly, and unloved. I believe bullying makes many students feel worthless as well, and it also makes them feel as outcasts, and not liked. Some of those students turns to suicide, because they believe life would be better.
And it's not appropriate to teach our children that you win by hurting others’’(pg. 2). That is telling us if we don't solve this problem more of the weaker kids are going to have low self- esteem and get hurt from all the ball that they are getting hit with. Also, it’s letting the people know that the most skilled players are going to just pick on them on and off of the dodgeball floor. That’s why we should not allow this game of
This study shows that most parents feel that hitting a child for misbehaving is the only way that they learn from their mistakes. However, others feel that having to use this type of punishment will build anger and depression. Physical punishment to a child can be put into three main heading; Anti-social behavior, physical damage and grows fear and anger. Physical punishment should be banned as it causes damage to a child health and builds an unhealthy relationship between a parent and a child. First of all, anti-social behavior if one of the main affects that a child gets due to their Parent’s way punishments.
Competitive sports should Not be Played “I've been all too familiar with accounts of N.F.L veterans exhibiting Alzheimers-like symptoms in their 40s,” says Adam Buckley Cohen of the New York Times. Many people playing sports are experiencing severe injuries.Competitive sports are sports that include physical contact. The sports include football, lacrosse, soccer and baseball are some. And there are over 45 million kids play competitive sports according to Jay Atkinson from The Boston Globe. Competitive sports should not be played because they can cause injuries, they are taking over kids free time, and competitive sports are very expensive.
It becomes more like a job for him than a relaxation. The extreme training techniques may also have severe negative impact on the growing bodies of the children. The author also states that these sports evoke the fear of losing in a child’s mind. This may also affect him mentally. Winning and losing can be a part of the adult life but children sports should be all about fun.
“...tryouts are not setting good examples by allowing kids to believe others are better and that they’re not good enough,” says Alyssa C. a journalist for the BlueTimes. This means that a kid who fails tryouts may think that all the other kids are better players. This leaves the child feeling very down-graded. This could lead to kids not participating in sports at all. ¨When children make the team, their self-confidence increases, but for those who get cut, their self-worth may decrease¨ says Alyssa.
People get bullied because they are not pretty enough, aren’t skinny enough or etc. that can hurt them so much. These are the effects of being bullied. Being bullied can cause many and long-lasting effect to a victim. First is that the victim will be suffering from deep depression because they were thinking too much on why other people are bullying them or maybe because they were thinking that they are very different from others.