Life always serves us; with situations that become hard for us to handle; with circumstances that put us in positions of vulnerability; and with people who may or may not be the ones we think they are. It’s all part of the restaurant that life is. But all that is served has two sides to it. There are two types of situations one the ‘shortcuts in life’ which give you an easy way out, the other the ‘mazes of life’ that you might be stuck in for quite a long time. Then there are two types of circumstances, one that you put yourself in, and the other that people put you in; some ‘voluntary’, the other ‘involuntary.’ And finally, people! People are either who they appear to be or not to be; they are either ‘themselves’ or ‘transformations’. Whatever they might be, they are all around you, all having unique proportions of characteristics and skills, all that you might or might not know of.
Our past is one of the departments in our restaurant, which serve us true or false conceptions about our self as the entrée, good or bad memories as the main course, and right or wrong morals of it for dessert; all in the present. One could say that each of the dishes served has their pros and cons, some too spicy the others too sweet. But you can’t stick to just one. You can’t be an optimist and eat something sweet and sugary all your life as you’ll end up
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If the past was something that the restaurant had served and the future is something that the restaurant will serve, you might be wondering what the present has to do with this. I’ll tell you that the present has a very different and unique quality. It is the connection between the past and the future and what you want in the future, depends on the present but is used in context with the past. And you might be thinking what complicated equation I am hitting you with, but really it’s not some mathematical equation you have to comprehend, it’s an idea that you’ve long
The writer’s use of anecdotes, imagery, irony, and considerate syntax, portrays an incident in his life when he was said to be a person that didn’t exist. Through this usage, the reader infers that the essay creates relatable incidents to the way society identifies individuals, that leads to the formation of individualist, specified personas. Society tends to stereotype individuals depending on substantial exteriors, which leads the individual to construct an altered persona depending on the society surrounding; such as family, strangers, teachers, etc. Somewhere along our life span, we have been “labeled” or classified as people we truly aren’t
The life Eighner describes in his narrative gives off the impressions that it is a very tough life and heavily luck based as well; instead, we should provide services in order to give these people a more comfortable and attainable
Central Influences Throughout our lives something has influenced the decisions we make, how we feel, how we present ourselves to others and how others perceive us. Whether it’s buying groceries from the same store your parents took you as a little kid or the things we tend to eat because that’s what grandma used to make for Sunday dinner after church. In some way, shape, or form our families effect how we are today. When we tell a story to a friend what you believe in or the decision you make you somehow relate to “that’s the way I was brought up” or “my mom” or “my dad taught me that” or even in most cases, “I remember when …”
In life, there are many possible roads that a person can take. Some may be smooth and lined with gold bricks and success, and some may be bumpy and paved with dirt and frustration. The things that a person does in their lifetime that leads to the end of the road comes along with many accomplishments and even more failure along the way. There are some things that can prevent these defeating things from happening such as a good supportive family and having role models in life. As exemplified by the memoir The Other Wes Moore, the author suggests that regardless of environment, lives can end up entirely divergent due to family support, choices and consequences.
When responding to situations in life, people must consider if what they are doing will benefit themselves or the people around them. In circumstances that demand quick thinking, people often can not form a concrete decision based on how little information and time they are given. In life, people must frequently try to do so through their daily battles with the people around them, in addition to themselves. People's hardships often affect what will compel them to respond, in many areas of a person's environment they are tied to certain deprivations in life, either privately or through another person. With those ties, come the understanding and compassion, these setbacks can help others gain a better insight into another person's difficulties.
Throughout life, humans acquire specific traits or personality type depending on the circumstances they must live with. Although difficult situations are thought of as being unfavorable, they often bring about individuals most admirable qualities. The Roman poet Horace makes this point by saying, “Adversity has the effect of eliciting talents which in prosperous circumstances would have lain dormant.” By this he means that people often have hidden qualities which only emerge in harsh conditions. These qualities or talents, which are usually buried deep within the individual must develop in order to allow the individual to move past the current obstacle.
There are major milestones that all people endure, such as the birth of a child, starting a career, or the death of a loved one. All of these milestones, no matter how insignificant they may seem to some, undoubtedly have a profound effect on the recipient. Truthfully, no one can successfully progress through life without enduring hardships or unfortunate circumstances. The success of the people who undergo serious life changes is dependent upon how well they choose to handle their happenings.
An Appreciation for Time Memories make up who people are. Whether they be good or bad, these events shape the very being of mankind. It is, however, what memories that stick to the mind that speak a thousand words to who the person is. The concept of memory is discussed in the words of Tobias Wolff in his short story “A Bullet in The Brain”. Wolff writes of Anders, a book critic turned misanthropist through being consumed by his trade.
My reasons for wanting to serve Peace Corps Volunteer are personal and intellectual. First of all, I want to share the knowledge I have acquired throughout my life by making myself available and becoming part of something bigger. I’ve had the opportunity to attend school and I recently completed a graduate degree; this has been a great accomplishment not only for me, but for my family as well. Therefore serving as a PCV would be a rewarding experience not only for me but for those who have supported me throughout my life, since I will contribute towards a bigger cause by helping to improve the lifestyle of less fortunate people. After successfully receiving a graduate degree, it is expected that I find a permanent job related to my field of
Making a Difference in My Community What are your long-term personal and education goals? How has knowledge or awareness of your own culture and other cultures affected your understanding of yourself? What key experiences with your own and/or other cultures influenced your goals and your interactions with others? Please provide specific examples.
A person’s backstory is always relevant; it’s what shapes us into who we
Assignment #2 - What does service mean to me? This is a concept that I have been considering in great detail. I have always loved doing community service and giving back to the community. However, I never thought of what my life would be like without community service. The definition of service based on the Oxford dictionary: "The action of helping or doing work for someone.
Beneficiaries called to ask me if I wanted to perform community service at a cathedral in Dallas, TX. I agreed because I like to volunteer in any event when it is needed. This event was called “Feed the Hunger,” which I signed up for and looked forward to because of my desire to lend a hand and assist the needy and unfortunate. At first, I thought this event was just one of those other community service opportunities that I am usually called to facilitate and volunteer my time. However, in the end, this occasion was a life-changing experience.
Community service does not only have a profound impact on our community, but the impact it has on the individual people is even greater. The concept of community service has always been something that I grew up with, and now that I am older I better understand how important community service is for society. I have participated in community service activities. Starting in elementary school, I helped feed the homeless and rescue animals. Even with my wide range of volunteer experience, it was difficult to find an activity that would be meaningful and fulfill my thirty-hour obligation for my senior project.
Volunteering is a way of helping others. It is giving a person 's time and ability to help someone who may be in need of help. Not only does volunteering help others, but what they may not know is that it can be helpful to themselves. It is a great way for someone to interact with others in their community. It gives someone that time to themselves while also creating bonds when they are doing the greater good.