Amy Morin said, “They often encourage their children to talk with them about their problems, but they usually don't put much effort into discouraging poor choices or bad behavior.” This shows that as parents, they can make their child open up and talk to them but never help them make the right decisions. While they want to be more of a friend, you can argue both sides. A child would love if their parents were their friend and they can be as open as they want to them as if they were in school. But If a child does not have authority figures to protect him/her then there will be little to no rules/boundaries on what they can do then they can have lack of self-discipline, become self-centered, battle with authority, act out, and also take in bad habits such as underage drinking and the use of drugs. Now, why do parents become this way?
Being mentally or verbally abused is just as harmful as being physically abused. The definition of verbal abuse is “a negative defining statement told to the victim or about the victim, or by withholding any response, thereby defining the target as non-existent.” Verbal abuse can have many negative impacts on the victim such as mental trauma, suicidal thoughts, post-traumatic stress, panic disorder, anxiety disorders, and depression. The constant thought of someone weighing over the victims shoulders telling the victim they are worthless can really change their mindset. According studies done about verbal abuse versus physical abuse research “indicates that it is just as bad and, in some cases, may be worse.” Now when you think about it, that
A man named Bob Lype stated, “Because workplaces involve human interactions, and because humans are unpredictable, it will never be possible to prevent all workplace violence. However, certain steps are advisable to minimize risks and liabilities (Lype)”. Along with a no tolerance policy, companies need to put repercussions in place for the person performing the violent act. As well as to protect the person being bullied; things should be kept confidential to maintain safety for everyone. There should also be ways to report the issues without having to directly speak to someone; possibly submitting an anonymous letter, or email.
(source used) ii. What are their justifications? (source used) C. Refutation of the opponent’s view i. Prove that physical punishment is not the way to motivating your child into doing the right thing. (source used) D. Concluding Sentence: Therefore, it is obvious that physical punishment is still being used by parents widely, yet this idea can be easily opposed due to the physical harm that the child is exposed to and how this creates children’s fear from their parents rather than loving them.
Children are people, and they should have to reach to learn about things, to understand things, just as adults have to reach if they want to grow in mental stature. Life is composed of lights and shadows, and we would be untruthful, insincere, and saccharine if we tried to pretend there were no shadows. Most things are good, and they are the strongest things; but there are evil things too, and you are not doing a child a favor by trying to shield him from reality.” Just like Disney, Jennette’s parents also didn't believe in downplaying children, in her parents eyes the kids have the responsibility that they should have for their
Abusers always want things to get better but for some it never will. Some people don’t even recognize that they are in a abuse relationship, and if they do recognize they are still dealing with it because most likely their is a kid involved. If you think your in a domestic violence relationship contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline or you can think about the things I mention earlier and see is anything relates to you and your relationship. “Don’t let your loyalty become slavery. If they don’t appreciate what you bring to the table… then let them eat alone” - Anonymous.
Having a positive attitude dealing with negative attitudes could be difficult because, the ones with the negative attitude are the haters you have and their going to start trying their best to bring you down until you get weak, tired and give up on yourself. You should never give up on yourself. You have goals to achieve and dreams to believe in. To achieve you must believe because if you don't believe you a have let some one change you goals and mind set. You should never let someone do
After a few question, if you do not agree, you can say: I understand and respect your views but I’m not convinced. Let’s agree to disagree on that one. At least once, it’s a good idea to verbalize that you respect them or their views. It will surely increase their respect for you and you can be sure they will remember it for a while. On that train of thought, no backstabbing, no gossip and no trash talk when you are not with them because this is a sure road to lose everybody’s
There is absolutely no reason that parents should be allowed to spank and physically punish their children to discipline. In this paper, I will argue and show parents how spanking and physically disciplining our children can have negative and detrimental consequences because it causes psychological damage, a lack of trust between child and parent, and when it is not done in the right mind set it can lead to more serious matters such as child
Guardians need to actively facilitate thoughtful communication in order to have productive dialog. For example, a parent denouncing their child’s attire by stating “You look like a delinquent.” this kind of language is representative of authoritarian parenting that will inevitably create divisiveness because youth do not understand the vastness of the authority’s intention. A more effective approach utilizes character by implementing patience to examine the indirect consequences of obduracy. “I understand the feeling of not wanting to care what society thinks about you. However, not caring about people and their feelings is a bad character trait that can negatively affect you throughout life.” This complex package of meaning divulges life experience but is wrapped with the implication that morals will help them achieve happiness topped with a bow of understanding.