Conditional Love
Love, when mentally projected, will always be conditional. The unconsciousness in the mind will not be aware that its love is conditional. Even saying this to the ego would cause it to react. In the overbearing clinging of the ego, direct “calling them on it,” will most likely cause extremely defensive behavior. Ironically, this emotional reaction is bringing forth the very conditions being mentioned in another form of non-acceptance.
Non-acceptance of any situation is indeed “CONDITIONAL LOVE TO LIFE.” Since you are life, your mind is getting angry at the very source of well-being. An unconscious behavior in which will distort itself into Egoic love. Egoic love is not loving at all. It is a mental and emotional disease that
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Clarissa has a small awareness of the light inside, while Rick, still shedding baggage has a very bright light. Clarissa’s ego sees Rick as a handsome and charming man who is high on her ranking system of how the male form should appear. In other words, she is unconscious of being, Egoically attached to form and has a shallow reach in relationships. Clarissa bases her system off of looks and money alone. Rick has no ranking system, but he is still attached to the Egoic sexual forms and images. After Rick dances with all his heart; he receives much female attention. He does not intend this when he dances, but it is a result of his high …show more content…
That is not for me to say. However, two weeks after their relationship ended, Rick received a text message from Clarissa. She thanked him for showing her what she needed to see in herself. Clarissa, was not aware how big her ego was because the egos’ she spent time with only matched her frequency. The frequency that only served to reinforce her false-self further. Clarissa quit her job at the club, dropped her hopes of becoming a stripper, and got a job at a gym so that she can take up a healthy lifestyle and be home to spend more time with her son. Rick learned more about women, and his own sexuality. Clarissa learned that not all men who are physically attractive are mean, controlling and selfish. Do you think it was “chance” that Clarissa and Rick met? Perhaps you have been listening to the book and you feel as though the source knew exactly what was perfect for them to grow. They were perfect for each other then. You can react to your life situations, recreating the same pain, or you can respond, and choose to grow with awareness as to why it is happening. You can blame, or you can take responsibility, even when on the surface it looks as though it is not yours to take. One path is unconscious and painful, while the other is conscious and in alignment with life. One will attract ego, the other will attract authentic love and reverence for life. The choice is
The relationship had much less time to be beneficial to either
Character Analysis of Rick Deckard Rick Deckard is the protagonist of Philip K.Dick´s novel ”Do Androids Dream of Electric sheep” which was published in 1968. The novel is set in a post-apocalyptic future where Rick Deckard is working as a bounty hunter and his job is to retire (=kill) androids or ”andys” as they also are called. The earth has been destroyed by World War Terminus and all animals species has died because of radiation. Humans have left earth for a new colony on Mars and androids are built to be humans slaves on Mars but they often escape back to earth where they must be killed because the have no empathy towards living things such as humans and animals. Rick Deckard´s job is to retire six Nexus-6 androids, which is the most advanced type who is very alike us human, in only 24 hours.
Ludacris, a famous male singer released a song featuring Mary J. Blige in 2007 called “Runaway Love.” This song speaks for itself and Ludacris does an excellent job of portraying his message about various struggles that some people are faced with in life. Runaway Love reperents the struggle of life through hip-hop and rap music. The song portrays a story of little girls who are for instance “stuck up in a world of their own.” The people around them strictly don’t care about them, which leads them having to own up and care for themselves.
Do we really love what we do? In the article “In the Name of Love,” Miya Tokumitsu covers the issue that doing what you love (DWYL) gives false hope to the working class. Tokumitsu reviews how those who are given jobs ultimately cannot truly love what they do because of the employers who make jobs possible. These same employers keep their employees overlooked.
Nevertheless, they only loved each other more despite their
In conclusion,Alice Walker used two characters to carry out a deeper meaning of a short story. It showed similarities and differences to my family, and the family in “Everyday use”. Also it show how maggie and Dee are two very different characters. Maggie and Dee didn 't share a bond with each other throughout their,but I am glad my brothers and I
Love is an involuntary factor that many people have come across in life. In the novel The Secret Life of Bees, by Sue Monk Kidd, the main character Lily, has an internal conflict with her mother which affects how open she is to love. Lily grew up with her father and the culpability of her mother's death.(more info) She was raised with a harsh understanding of love due to the lack of love given to her all throughout her life, for she was more open to love because she hasn't doted as a child. However, Lily found love through the Daughter of Mary, the Boatwright sisters, and Rosaleen, who later taught her how to love herself.
In her early years, Maggie underwent the devastation of a fire. In a result of that, she acquired an inexperienced education and an awkward, introverted mentality. Maggie bacame a burn victim in consequence of the fire and had countless
Heartbreak and vengeance make the perfect cocktail for any juicy story, but so does the concept of a twisted illusion of reality. Stories of passion such as, Evona Darling written by Silas House and My Ex-Husband written by Gabriel Spera, are both examples of stories that give the reader the equation of love and hate entwined together with the tainted sense of reality. House descriptively writes a story about the passion of a mother’s love whose heart has been taken away by her child’s father, who through suspicious friends got Evona’s custody stripped away from her. On the other hand, Spera creates her poem in her perspective of being married to a man that betrayed her and played his cards of deceit. Both stories were passionately written after love had partaken, but the fairy tale ends had come upon them.
For 5 weeks he only gave her happy memories. But the time came
Many see love as a positive quality and for the most part it is. It gives us compassion for our fellow man, allows us to bond with each other, and care for our families. But it also has self-destructive properties too. In Thucydides History of the Peloponnesian War, the Athenians feel a really strong patriotism to their city and empire.
The Significance of Female Figures in Love in a Fallen City " In 1918, Lu Xun asserted that whenever the country seemed on the verge of collapse, Chinese men would thrust their women forward as sacrificial victims to obscure their own cowardice and helplessness in the face of the onslaught of aggressors and rebels" (Louie 15). Eileen Chang critiques the social status of females during the transitional period before the modern era in China throughout her novella Love in a Fallen City. Eileen Chang was influenced by the New Culture Movement in China, which promoted gender equality and education. Also, Eileen Chang 's mother who was a "self-possessed, westward-learning" (Zhang xi) female, enormously impacted her philosophy thoughts.
Although it took time, each person realizes that there really is no difference other than the
If you are looking for a steamy romantic comedy than Erin Lyon's I Love You Subject to the Following Terms and Conditions may be just the book that you're looking for! Taking place in a world where people sign contracts when they enter romantic relationships, and if you breach your contract before it ends you have to pay up. I Love You Subject to the Following Terms and Conditions follows Kate whose life is suddenly turned upside down when her long-time partner decides not to renew their contract. What ensues is a variety of romantic misadventures and a sort of (but not really) love triangle (or square?).
And that’s why I chose to unlove someone whom I used to love so much for myself to be free of the toxicity of what myself have gotten to. And of thinking that letting go is the hardest decision that I will make. I came to a realization that letting him go is not the end, letting him go is the beginning of the new chapter of my life,