Conditional Love Analysis

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Conditional Love
Love, when mentally projected, will always be conditional. The unconsciousness in the mind will not be aware that its love is conditional. Even saying this to the ego would cause it to react. In the overbearing clinging of the ego, direct “calling them on it,” will most likely cause extremely defensive behavior. Ironically, this emotional reaction is bringing forth the very conditions being mentioned in another form of non-acceptance.
Non-acceptance of any situation is indeed “CONDITIONAL LOVE TO LIFE.” Since you are life, your mind is getting angry at the very source of well-being. An unconscious behavior in which will distort itself into Egoic love. Egoic love is not loving at all. It is a mental and emotional disease that …show more content…

Clarissa has a small awareness of the light inside, while Rick, still shedding baggage has a very bright light. Clarissa’s ego sees Rick as a handsome and charming man who is high on her ranking system of how the male form should appear. In other words, she is unconscious of being, Egoically attached to form and has a shallow reach in relationships. Clarissa bases her system off of looks and money alone. Rick has no ranking system, but he is still attached to the Egoic sexual forms and images. After Rick dances with all his heart; he receives much female attention. He does not intend this when he dances, but it is a result of his high …show more content…

That is not for me to say. However, two weeks after their relationship ended, Rick received a text message from Clarissa. She thanked him for showing her what she needed to see in herself. Clarissa, was not aware how big her ego was because the egos’ she spent time with only matched her frequency. The frequency that only served to reinforce her false-self further. Clarissa quit her job at the club, dropped her hopes of becoming a stripper, and got a job at a gym so that she can take up a healthy lifestyle and be home to spend more time with her son. Rick learned more about women, and his own sexuality. Clarissa learned that not all men who are physically attractive are mean, controlling and selfish. Do you think it was “chance” that Clarissa and Rick met? Perhaps you have been listening to the book and you feel as though the source knew exactly what was perfect for them to grow. They were perfect for each other then. You can react to your life situations, recreating the same pain, or you can respond, and choose to grow with awareness as to why it is happening. You can blame, or you can take responsibility, even when on the surface it looks as though it is not yours to take. One path is unconscious and painful, while the other is conscious and in alignment with life. One will attract ego, the other will attract authentic love and reverence for life. The choice is

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