I declined to return the blow and walked out. It was hurtful and painful that she did not honour my request, I was disappointed in myself that I did not stop the situation and its progressive pace. However as I become more aware of my lack thereof, I am slowing putting and keeping to my boundaries. I have decided to set aside time for myself and start considering my needs as important too. Certain people are finding ways to respect my new found rules, even with my ex roommate I respect my space and I have asked that it is respected.
The majority of people always say that they want to live the moment, forget about their future for a second and just relax a little bit. However, in today’s society, we have lots of work to catch up with. From our homes to offices, daily struggles don’t seem to let us live by the motto, “carpe diem.” Nevertheless, it’s in the human nature to interpret commands as challenges, so we do the opposite of what daily struggles want us to do and we procrastinate. Procrastination is doing the most enjoyable thing at the moment and delaying the less attractive ones to another time. Let’s say you have homework to do for tomorrow but also HBO didn’t show you what happened to Daenerys Targaryen at the last episode of Game of Thrones so you are crawling
Which is noteworthy, as I’m not one who gets angry or curses. Yet throughout that day, I found myself steadily cursing at Derek in my head as I tried to think of what I should do in light of what I could only see as a betrayal. When I saw him later, I did curse*** and told him off about his apparent inability to hold anything in confidence. We didn’t speak for another six hours, and I definitely considered extending it to days or weeks. However, as a student who aspires to be a counselor, I knew waiting would be immature and only make matters worse.
There are rules they must follow and if they break a rule then they get released and trust me, to be released is a bad thing. One of the main things are that they can’t lie, but I think everyone should lie occasionally, so they can protect themselves and sometimes lying is important, it just depends on the situation. In the community it isn’t a safer place to be than reality, because when everyone is the same they can’t be who they want to be. Also, you can’t feel pain but feeling pain is a good thing because if you can’t feel pain then you’re not real, well that’s what I believe. Feeling emotions are amazing and why would anyone want to take that away?
People have insecurities that lead them to lie and over exaggerate their position or title in the world. What they don 't realize is that most people would rather be told the truth about someone than being lied to about someone 's identity. Everyday Health says that “being lied to can be frustrating and it often breaks the bond of trust between two people, causing problems in the relationship” (“Understanding People Who Lie.”). Lying about one’s self-image or title has the
Similarly, he expects the same thing from me and I gave the proper response to him and behave properly but because of his nature and attitude it leads to the conflict between us. Judgement conflict: This conflicts involve the differences over empirical or factual issues. This conflicts also called cognitive conflicts. It is all about the true and faith. Most of the people get confuse about the true and false in the empirical sense.
This plays a huge part into why people lie. It often happens when individuals have a lack of problem solving skills and the capability to handle abrupt situations. From time to time, we admit to ourselves that we have done some mistakes, but we do not know how to solve them. In situations like this, we tend to lie as a quick escape instead of facing the actual problem. The truth may sure cause some conflict for the mean time, but lying instead of facing the problem would cause so much more conflict in the future.
I think that being transparent with myself, but kind, has been my greatest asset. The fact that I have had a lot of ugly things said and done to me, and yet I don’t let those circumstances control me, says a lot of my true self. I know a lot of ugly things about myself and am okay with looking at the girl under the mask because I know her good and her bad. On the other hand, I think that I could use a break. I can be too focused on myself and protective of myself, that I come off a little self-obsessed and guarded.
Based on the article, “Why Honesty Isn't Always the Best Policy,” which she wrote, she believes that being honest to tell the truth is often a veiled form of self- indulgence, for honesty is just like a knife which will hurt other people. Telling a truth can let the person will not feeling guilty, but it will hurt other people’s feeling; in addition, the relationship can be broken more easily through telling the truth with angry expression. Because of the reason, Jamie Turndorf against that honesty is the best
There are many people who have many creative ideas or great morals and thoughts, but are scared to express themselves for the fear of being laughed at by others. Many people lie all the time to themselves and pretend to be someone else in front of others just to be like them. Some people even change their likes and dislikes in front of others just to be accepted by them. The dishonesty in people, which they show to themselves is the biggest flaw in human beings. Showing honesty to yourself and saying that “yes I am who I am and I will not change myself for anyone” is the most important.