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Reflection Of Middle Child Behavior

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In this paper I will analyze my personality, we all know that understanding ourselves is very hard and critical, biases will be evident, but if we look it into different perspective, this will serve as a tool for us to improve ourselves and be better.
Let me start with my family structure, I am a middle child, third from my four siblings. What I can remember on my childhood is my 3 siblings love to pick on me, and because of that (before) I believed on Middle child syndrome, I have this feeling of exclusion. According to Adler, character traits and behaviors derive primarily from developmental issues, including birth order. Adler describes the middle child may grow to be more competitive, rebellious and consistent in attempting to be best. Middle children may …show more content…

This type of conditioning holds that a certain behavior and a consequence, either a reward or punishment, have a connection which brings about learning. It is very well practiced on our family, we are a total of 4 children in the house and only one guardian whom is my dad since my mom passed away during my early years, I remember him using slippers and belt to punish us if we did something wrong, at first he will reprimand us but since we are all hard headed sometime he needs to use physical punishment for us to learn, and I must say yes it is effective. We are scared of punishment that’s why we did our best to do good things.
During teenage years, I started to have relationship, since my mom died early, I’m really longing for affection with someone, somehow believed of Horney’s theory; she believed that neurosis resulted from basic anxiety caused by interpersonal relationships. Her theory proposes that strategies used to cope with anxiety can be overused, causing them to take on the appearance of needs. These behaviors include such things as the neurotic needs for power, prestige, and

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