Reflection On Gender Socialisation

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In this essay, I will be sharing about gender socialisation, what it is about and my own personal experiences of gender socialisation. I will share about gender socialisation mainly through my gender role development and how gender stereotypes and gender role differentiation affected me. But firstly, what is the difference between gender and sex? “Sex refers to a person’s biological status and is typically categorized as male, female, or intersex” while “Gender refers to the attitudes, feelings, and behaviours that a given culture associates with a person’s biological sex.” (American Psychology Association, pp. 10-42). “Gender socialisation is the process of learning the social expectations and attitudes associated with one’s sex” (http://www.chegg.com/homework-help/definitions/gender-socialisation-49). …show more content…

Through which they develop my gender role, which directly affects my gender socialisation. “Gender roles” are actually reflection of gender stereotypes in everyday behaviour (http://ehlt.flinders.edu.au/education/DLiT/2002/family/gender.htm). Growing up, I hung out with my male cousins a lot and since I got to play with his swords and toys, I wanted my own sword. However my parents didn’t allow me to buy toys like swords and Gameboys. Despite all my crying and begging, they always suggest Barbie dolls or cooking toy sets, which I gladly accepted in place of swords since I still get to play with it whenever I hung out with my cousin. My cousin influenced me to be slightly masculine as I get exposed to “boy toys” often, which my parents were not really happy …show more content…

Research suggests that “Males, on average, score higher on tasks that require transformations in visual–spatial working memory, motor skills involved in aiming, spatiotemporal responding, and fluid reasoning, especially in abstract mathematical and scientific domains.” (Halpern, pp. 1091-1102). This means that males tend to do better in math and science in school as compared to females. Math and science are the core subjects in school and it is always a big issue if any of my siblings or I fail it. My family gender stereotyped my intelligence level as they think that males are smarter than females. Just because I achieved my O level grades with the help of math and science tutors and my brother did not does not necessarily mean that I am unable to do well in math and sciences. Moreover, psychology studies is a humanities course which does not focus much on math and science other than the biology and statistics component. I found it quite absurd that my family learnt this gender stereotype and was hesitant in supporting me in taking up a course of my interest as it is a competitive course like my brother’s. Due to gender role differentiation, I somehow felt a fair share of inequality for the females in my family; how males of the family are strongly supported to

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