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Reflection On The Mask You Live In

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The Mask You Live In was a very powerful documentary that helped me see men and masculinity in a very different light. When I think of men I think of strong, aggressive, powerful people, but from this documentary and class I am learning that there is much more to being a “man” than just the stereotypes. The documentary dealt with the fact that men will put up this fake version of themselves in public but hide a completely different person underneath, and I did not realize that just about every guy does this. I am thankful that I was able to watch this documentary because it made me think about what I thought I knew about masculinity. Throughout the documentary I had a mixture of reactions including sadness, sympathy and empathy, and happiness.
The biggest reaction I had during this documentary was sadness that almost brought me to tears. There were quite a few people who talked about growing up and being abused by their father or going through a rough home life. I personally have had a privileged homelife with loving parents so I never had to hide that from the outside world. It also makes me very sad to hear about parents beating their kids because the parents are supposed to be a role model for their kids and show them love. When they were doing the exercise of writing down what they show on their mask and writing down what they hide behind it I was also very sad. These high school aged boys were hiding a lot of anger and pain and not being able to let that pain out can

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