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Lessons Learned: A Bad Experience Of My Life

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I really learnt lessons from this incident that if a person is silent it means they are not interested to talk to me and If a person want to talk to me they do respond through messages. I wish I could roll back the clock and fixed things so that she never would had to deal with any stress, anxiety or worry. In the future, I will check my messages twice before sending them to anyone to make sure they are polite, and cannot be misconstrued. In case I feel emotional, I will try to restrict myself to message any concerned person at least 24 hours to make sure that my emotions do not reflect my messages. I will definitely restrict myself to avoid using facebook until I get out these feelings and forget completely about this incident, and never see that young women 's profile. I feel my sincere regret for having done anything which might have frightened her as my intentions were the complete opposite. I have learned to give people more space (not bombarding them with messages or emails) and that I should carefully reread anything I send to make sure that I attempt to passionately and maybe romantically express how I feel cannot possibly be …show more content…

This is a good rule to control my emotions, and think about the things I need to express properly and organise words that best suit to convey my feeling about the situation. Secondly, Do not rush to express myself. I learned that I should give more room to others to think and react to the my feelings and if the other person is not responding I should not try to force them to a reply. Thirdly, Deal the situation face to face. Dealing the situation face to face will definitely convey our feelings properly, As messages can not show up our intensions there may be a chance of misconstrues. Fourthly, do not attack and stop. This generally helps to deal the situation when I am angry. This rule helps me to control the situation for being more worst. Fifthly, Listen and respond. This rule helps me to know what the other person is thinking about me and I can understand the feelings of other person too. If other person is not responding through the messages I should not bother them to respond to my messages. Nevertheless, Never try to communicate with the person whom I never met in my life. As I never know the other person 's intension, It may hurt my feelings and

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