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Reflective Reflection About Conflict

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In modern society, there are many conflict among people, and a right way to solve the conflict are importance. This report is about my reflection of some conflict that exist in my daily life. And below I will describe one of the situation that I happened few weeks ago , the place was happened at a restaurant , and that day I was having a re-union with my secondary school friends and my secondary school class teacher. And after I finish the description of my situation. I will analyze the types of conflict of the situation. After that I will think that how to handle and resolve the conflict more effectively. The situation is about one day I had a meeting with my secondary school friends and my class teacher. We booked a café that near Mong Kok. …show more content…

The conflict styles of the first conflict situation, I am belongs to the Competing, I insist that we is not going to pay for the penalty. And the style of my classmate and the manager are compromising because the manager called his company and he finally find out a method that both of us can be accept. And the method he find was we do not have to pay the penalty that time. But we still have to pay next time. And the manager break the policy of his company. That suit the definition of compromising. And then for the conflict styles of the second conflict situation, me and the manager both of us were belongs to Compromising. We were just arguing with no reason or arguing with our own anger. This is a “lose-lose” scenario. Me and the manager at the last do not have any solution to solve the conflict between us. And finally the conflict style between me and my classmate was avoiding. Because my classmate did not talk with me that our opinion. They just let me arguing with the manager. On the other hand I did not ask the opinion of my classmate. At that time we just avoiding to communicating with each other. And this is the conflict analyzation of my

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