I have been given the opportunity to complete extra credit by sharing my views on an article. I chose The Science of Why New Year 's Resolutions Don 't Work by Susan Weinschenk. The article is about how many people don’t complete their new year’s goals because the goals are too drastic and they don’t use “actual science to change behavior”. Susan stated how “to change a new habit you essentially have to create a new one, so whether you are changing an existing habit or creating a new one, the “scientific” method for doing so is the same.” So, in order to create a new habit you have to add onto an already existing habit or create a small new one. Everyone has hundreds of habits currently, so this part of the process shouldn 't be hard. Based on B.J. Fogg and Charles Duhigg, there’s three steps to creating a new habit. First, you must pick a small action. Instead of going all the with saying you will lose five hundred pounds, you could say you will walk more or drink a smoothie more or cut out fast food for example. Therefore, the ultimate goal will be more approachable through small baby steps instead of changing your whole lifestyle abruptly. Secondly, you must attach the new action to a previous habit. Find a habit that you already have. Simply embellish on it to help you reach your goal. If you have a habit of going to sonic after school (like me), go to subway instead. If you give up working out after an hour, stay …show more content…
Even write out the stories that go against the new goal( not enough time, expensive gym fee, too busy, etc.). Secondly, you should re-write the story. “Tell the story of the new way of being. Tell the story of the person who appreciates life, and takes time to take care of him/her-self.” Research shows that self-story changing makes a profound change on whether or not a person sticks with and reaches his/her goal from the start. This author also says how she has tried both the 3-step method and the creating a new self-story. She insists that they
For instance, she allows her feelings of being abandon by Heather to assist her resistance of being taken advantage of. Also, out of concern for her former best friend, Rachel, she tells her about what her boyfriend did at the party. Slowly she begins the process of acceptance and coming forward. The reader will be able to bear witness to the strength she found within herself to overcome the obstacles she faced; not wanting to be used by her peers and not wanting her attacker to strike again, but fearing how people would react to the truth. The novel portrays how the process of coming forward can be excruciating and that it will likely get worse before it gets better.
2. The story follows the first person narrative of the older NYU girl. This method of narration gives the feeling that the girl is trying to explain in her own words the process which she had to go through
Some of the stories are autobiographical, while others are more fictionalized. The book offers a range of perspectives,
I also realized with this book that I have been spending a lot of time complaining about my problems, and when I complain about some problem nothing changes, but if I use that time working hard to accomplish my goal, I could get
The second article that I found interesting is: Just Do It! by Jill Weisenberger.
All the stories reflect the human ability to thrive against all odds! Don’t wait till the end of the year to establish new resolution and habits. Do it now! Charles Duhigg will guide you through one of the best journeys in understanding habits and how to form them. His approach takes in consideration years of scientific research.
After her experiences, she was to go to therapy in order to recover, which was not fully productive since she already decided that she liked the way her life was
The first step to solving a problem is to realize it is there. Melinda does exactly this when she looks into the mirror and sees herself with dark circles underneath her eyes. Shortly after this she resolves to become normal again saying “I have to stay away from the closet, go to all my classes. I will make myself normal again” (Anderson 125). Melinda begins to recall what she was in the past and feels she needs to do something to turn her life
Just like all of the other self-help books, it helps you make the changes that you need to become a better person in the long run. All of the 100 tips that Dr. Carlson outlines in this book, it is more focus on your time at the workplace and not like the chicken soup for your soul.
"I am stronger inside and out and have gotten past fears that none of the medicines I 've taken could conquer" (Patterson and Friedman pg. 212). In my life, there are many goals that I have not reached because of my lack of determination. This book has given me determination to reach my goals because if Cory did it, I can too. Who am I to not try to make myself the best human being I can be. This book has been my change and I now have a greater
English 10 Honors has been an invaluable learning experience filled with many opportunities to showcase knowledge and to learn new ideas. I began the year coming off a successful year in Honors English 9 where I learned important writing and reading comprehension skills. I feel this year I was successful with reading and interpreting text and I believe that I made big strides in my writing and in my command of the English language.
Jeremy Dean is a British psychologist and author of PsyBlog. His book concentrates on how to create new habits and how to stick with it until it became a habit. He also mentions that a good way to start is by using "if...Then" statements. “For instance, if you’re trying to be a kinder person this year, say, "If I see a person struggling with a stroller, then I will offer to help." Dean calls this "implementation intention."
If you have read the book “7 highly effective habits for teens”, if so have you ever wondered how these habits build off each other? The book, “7 highly effective habits for teens” explains different habits that you should break,or make to make your teen years more successful. The 7 habits build of each other to make you become a better person. The first habit that you should follow is being proactive and becoming the force for your mind. This habit is important because you need to know to take responsibility for your life, as well as your actions.
While I could never be completely isolated for the rest of my life, I now firmly believe living a simplistic and minimalist life surrounded by nature is what will make me feel most alive and happy. My generation by far has the absolute most stress on them and we are constantly being told what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. Life is now being treated as a job rather than a simple existence, and it is not something I will continue to support. This may mean I will never have a fancy home, car, or clothes, but at the end of the day I’ll have my happiness and my sanity and that is all I need. Saying this book changed my life may be a bit of an overstatement, but it's definitely not false.
For example, you might commit to practicing gratitude daily during you're morning shower or you could practice gratitude as you brush your teeth every night. Aligning your new gratitude practice with an already established daily action will make it significantly easier to maintain consistency and commitment. According to Angela Duckworth (2016) in her book on Grit, “Routines are a godsend when it comes to doing something hard. A mountain of research studies shows that when you have a habit of practicing at the same time and in the same place every day, you hardly have to think to about getting started. You just do” (p.139).