Divorced, beheaded, survived.
To die is the only thing we can be sure of, that everybody will. Everybody will die, and you cannot do anything to live forever. You can live long, and some can live longer than others, but we will all die, sooner or later. This short story is about a woman called Sarah. She looks back at her childhood. When Sarah was a child she lost her big brother, Terry. Now, later in Sarah’s life, she needs to go through another loss, but this time it is her son, who losses his friend, Peter. I looked up the author, Robin Black, and I think she can relate to her short story herself. She got married, divorced and remarried. Sarah was also married two times, the first one was brief. She sees herself very much in her third child.
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It is too soon to die, when you are still a kid, and no one deserves to live through stuff like early deaths. But still, maybe it is destiny. But death is the one of the hardest things to get through. It does not become easier the older you get. There can be different types of factors for death. You can be very sick, like Terry, have physical damage, or you can be lucky to die of old age. Some people say, that you can die from grief. I do not think, that you can die from grief. You can die as a result of grief. You maybe stop eating or drinking, and that you can die for. But you cannot die exactly of grief. But another theme is also love. It is hard to lose someone, but losing someone you love is even harder. Death makes us appreciate life more, and the people, who are surrounding us.
The name of the short story is ‘’Divorced, beheaded, survived’’. The name is a part of the rhythm: ’’ ‘’Divorced, beheaded, died, divorced, beheaded survived’’, which refer to King Henry VIII six wives. He is divorced from his first wife, and his second wife, Anne Boleyn, got beheaded. The third wife dies, he is divorced from the fourth one, the fifth one is also beheaded, and the last wife survives.
Death is something most of us do not want to face. It is hard for some people to admit, that everybody is going to die. Some loss feels unfair, and way to early. You have to let people use their time to grief. Maybe it is destiny and maybe it is not. I believe in destiny, and not many people do
Generally speaking, humans cannot be entirely prepared for dying or the death of a close person in their life. Some people say that facing death gives a person both opportunity to grow mentally and the strength to carry on in life; however, it can be too much to handle alone. Help can be needed not only from relatives and peers, but also from the experts. Strong grieving is more than usual, but life must eventually carry on. Death can be both interesting and frightening at the same time because nobody knows what happens afterwards.
We will all die one day. But It’s a complete mystery to us how or when, that is unless you have a terminal or life shortening illness/condition. It’s hard to imagine living knowing your life will end soon. What’s not very hard to imagine is that these patients, despite dying soon, don’t see the point in suffering any longer and want to end their life. This is totally fair and understandable considering these patients could have been suffering with their condition or illness for their whole lives.
In life people die. Usually at an old age after they have lived a long life. That's normal. But when people die at a young age, that's different. People who die early miss out on the rest of their lives and they didn't get to experience much of it.
Everyone will lose someone or something to death, it is unavoidable. Someone important to me died when I was around seven or eight years old. One hot summer day, while my mother and I were out running errands we got a phone call. Riddle Hospital’s emergency room called to tell my mother that my grandfather had fallen outside of his home.
Steve Jobs once said "No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life.
Unlike Lauren Winner who had said she has been lucky to not have experienced much death in her life, I have had very much experience with death. When I was four years old my maternal grandmother was diagnosed with stage four inoperable lung cancer. My mom and I went with her to every appointment—chemotherapy, radiation, scans, check-ups, etc.—and she was eventually cured. She had always said that the reason she lived through it was because God wanted her to be able to see me grow up, and I have always thought that there was some truth to that. She went ten years without recurrence, and the doctors had said she was officially cured of cancer, but one day it came back.
There are unlimited ways to express healthy emotion. As everyone experiences this, loss is understood as a natural part of life. However, we can still be overcome by shock and confusion, leading to prolonged periods of sadness or depression. The sadness typically diminishes in intensity as time passes, but grieving is an important process in order to overcome these feelings and continue to embrace the time you had with your loved one.” (Nordal PhD, Katherine APA).
In the process, we can either choose to let the indignity overcome us, or we can gaze to Jesus, the one who conquered death. We can have hope and bear the burden of dying as ones who are not subject to it. We will be raised again and we will live with Christ forever. This is the hope that gives dignity to all men, whether they are dying or
As I slowly walk along the path of life through the valley of the universe, the shadow of death slowly darkens my sun. Everyone dies. Margaret Atwood asserts in the F scenario of “Happy Endings” that regardless of which scenario from A to E the reader chooses, regardless of plot or character name change “…the endings are the same however you slice it” (Atwood 29). The reason, all scenarios loop back to A: “John and Mary die” (Atwood 29).
When you hear the word death or you hear that someone has died today in the news or on the television I know a lot of people think “Man, I feel sorry for the family that they have to go through that.” or they thank god that it was not them or their family members.” Sadly though people try to push away death and push away the fact that everyone dies at one point in time. This is even truer when they witness their own family member in the hospital with a critical condition that the doctors cannot fix even with modern medicines on the doctor’s side. Another such time would be when a person’s family member is diagnosed with an incurable sickness that is fatal.
“We understand death for the first time when he puts his hand upon one whom we love.” -Madame de Stael. None of us are immortal in life. Losing a person you love, is losing him forever. “Nevermore,” you will see that loved one, with the smile upon his face.
Everything in the world can change or collapse in an instant, but the one thing that will always hold constant is that at some point everyone will physically die. The best way to cope with that fact and transcend the empirical thinking is to just laugh. Laughter makes the scary things such as death seem less. It allows for instances where people can forget about the inevitable and focus on what is in front of
LOSS, GRIEF AND HEALING As human beings, we suffer losses of many kinds and sizes in our life time. While some of these losses are small and do not hurt much, some are big and hurt deeply. Those that are accompanied by pains that are difficult to bear include the loss of a loved one through death or divorce, cheating or unfaithfulness in a trusted relationship or loss of good health when a diagnosis of a terminal illness is made. In all these instances of loss, pain and grief are experienced and an emotional wound is created which needs healing.
At some point in life we all have been devastated with a sudden death of someone we loved and cared for. I can connect this to John Green’s fiction novel, The Fault In Our Stars, when the main character Augustus Waters dies. Hazel tells the audience, “Augustus Water died eight days after his prefuneral, at Memorial, in the ICU, when the cancer, which was made of hi, finally stopped his heart, which was also made of him” (Green 261). Hazel was so upset when the love of her life died. She never expected it to come so soon.
Then he decided to hope that the world would end in fire; so, that everyone could experience what he experience which was watching his loved one die a slow and painful death. Then experience what his wife experienced by dying a slow and painful death screaming all along the way then finally no one hears anything, and you’re dead. “From what I’ve tasted of desire I hold with those who favor fire .” ( Fire and Ice”, lines