Paris and Romeo are shown as polar opposites in William Shakespeare's classic tragedy "Romeo and Juliet," each embodying a different set of goals and motivations. In spite of their rivalry for Juliet's devotion, the approaches, personalities, and fates of the two men emphasize their considerable differences. The play's actions and exchanges between Paris and Romeo are examined in order to highlight their different relationships and the characters' unique personalities. Paris and Romeo approach finding love in very different ways from the beginning. Paris, who is after Juliet's hand in marriage for social and political reasons, exemplifies conventional courtly love. Lord Capulet praises Paris as a righteous man and a good match for Juliet in Act I, Scene 2. Romeo, on the other hand, has a strong and impulsive love for Juliet. Romeo's statement after their first encounter at the Capulet's ball in Act I, Scene V, "Did my heart love till now? Forswear it, sight, For I ne'er saw true beauty till this night” demonstrates his instantaneous awe. Romeo is different from Paris in that his love is motivated by strong feelings as opposed to Paris's deliberate goals. …show more content…
Paris stands for societal uniformity, stability, and order. He upholds customs and corresponds to social norms. He speaks with Friar Laurence about wedding preparations in Act IV, Scene I, demonstrating his loyalty to the standards of society and his belief in upholding order. Romeo, on the other hand, conveys passion and a disregard of social standards. He ignores the repercussions of his actions, the wishes of his family, and risks his life for love. When Romeo kills Tybalt in Act III, Scene I, he demonstrates his impulsiveness. He was motivated by a desire for vengeance and justice for Mercutio's passing. The conflict between compliance and revolt is highlighted by these opposing
After the death of Tybalt and the banishment of Romeo Capulet changed his decision. Everything happened very fast and Capulet decides to make Juliet marry Paris. “Unworthy as she is, that we have wrought so worthy a gentleman to be her bride?” (Capulet) “Not Proud you have, But thankful that you have. Proud can I never be of what I hate, but thankful even for hate is meant love.
Paris wants Romeo to “obey and go… for thou must die” because he doesn't want his loved one's tomb to be destroyed (5.3.57). Paris tries to show his dominance over Romeo through violence but ends up dead by the hands of Romeo. Paris is influenced by violence because he was consumed by the desire for dominance over his “wife’s murderer”. Dominance is known as a positive emotion which acts as the generator for violence.
Romeo was reckless and did not love Juliet enough to save her. Lady Capulet had never truly been a mother to Juliet, their relationship was formal and respected, not kind and gentle. Lady Capulet thought she knew what was best for Juliet, she did not however care if Juliet was happy. She insisted Juliet to marry Paris “The valiant Paris seeks you for his love”(DBQ: Project, 2013), a man Juliet did not love.
This is displayed when Paris is talking to lady capulet and says “ these times of grief are no time for romance. good night madam. Give my regards to your daughter”(Shakespeare 106) Paris didn't care about what Juliet felt towards him and only cared about marrying her and being a part of the Capulets. Last example is The fight between Montague and capulet. This allowed them to not accept the love between Romeo and juliet.
Then have at thee boy!” (Shakespeare V. III. 70). Romeo took Paris’s words as a challenge. He fought and killed Paris because he was in the way of Juliet and his impulsive nature shines through with anything concerning her. He has no impulse control and doesn’t think, he just acts on things he will come to later regret.
Not only does she not love Paris but she is already betrothed to another man, Romeo. So Juliet reacts to the social normality by begging to her parents to not get married and discard the marriage
Tybalt is hungry for a higher position in the Capulet family, and he wants to grow closer to the man who rules over it all, Capulet. When he sees Romeo noticing Juliet, Tybalt knows it is the perfect timing. He suggests killing Romeo to please his uncle, however, it does nothing but cause a rift between the two when they disagree. This event sparks a rage in Tybalt, formed by his uncomfortable conversion with Capulet. Additionally, Romeo’s insecurity in his masculinity causes him to resent his relationship with his wife.
This is shown on page 225 when Paris tries to fight Romeo over Juliet's honor. Initially Romeo shrugs him off essentially saying that he would not like to see an angry greaver. However Paris doesn't listen to Romeo's warnings and attempts to fight. Romeo wins but Paris tells him to lay his body in the tomb which Romeo does. I think that Paris knew that Romeo was a better fighter but because of his pride he cared not if he won or lost, he only cared about his loyalty.
Paris wants to get married to Juliet, however, she is already married to Romeo. This causes her to see him as an obstacle and view him negatively. Even though Juliet does not like him very much, Paris is thoroughly in love with her. He shows the depth of his love when he comes to visit her in the tomb, “Sweet Flower, with flowers thy bridal bed I strew/Which with sweet water nightly I will dew/Or, wanting that, with tears distilled by moans/ The obsequies that I for thee will keep/
Both characters had nothing else to take their anger out on. Romeo was so blinded by his anger that he killed Paris. This is shown when Romeo says, “By urging me to fury. O, be gone!” (Rom.
Juliet’s encounter with Paris in Friar Laurence’s cell is an instance of dramatic irony by letting the audience know Juliet’s true feelings towards Paris, but him not knowing himself. Paris believes that Juliet loves him, when really she does not; Paris states, “Do not deny to him that you love me.” Juliet then replies with, “I will confess to you that I love him.” Paris replies once again with, “So will ye, I am sure, that you love me.” In this scene, Juliet is not talking about Paris when she talks about confessing her love, but is talking about Romeo.
The differences between the two of them are the methods of the way that they each go about marrying Juliet. The methods that Paris would want to do would be by following regular tradition and ask Lord Capulet for Juliet’s hand in marriage because he prefers to do everything smoothly and does not mind to cause conflict. The way that Romeo would do this would be to just keep it between Juliet and himself and ask for her hand in marriage because he does not want any conflict to be involved. Between Romeo marrying Juliet and Paris marrying her it would probably be better for Romeo to marry her due to the fact that he knows her more and is also closer to her more than Paris is. The way that Paris had asked for Juliet’s hand in marriage was actually the right way because he asked Lord Capulet.
" This quote shows what love Juliet has for Romeo has already done to her. She is willing to harm herself if she can't be with him. This proves that Count Paris is a better husband for her because he will be able to protect her, and won't harm her like Romeo has. In addition, in Act 3 Scene 5 Juliet
This passage is significant because the theme of blind devotion further develops. Juliet's extreme love for Romeo is the sole cause for her extreme hatred of Paris. Juliet is blindly devoted to loving Romeo and not sinning, or in other words, having two husbands. She does not care that perhaps Paris may be better than Romeo, that Paris comes from the Prince's family, or that her father recommends him. She is set on her decision and disregards the consequences of evading such marriage.
Romeo and Paris were both in love with Juliet. Romeo is very loving and compasionate for Juliet, and so was Paris. Paris had shown up at the vault to see Juliet and confront her about he feels. Romeo shows up at Juliet's balacony and says "But