Before I begin my essay, I would like to state what I know to be true, in order to dispel the multiple lies and misconceptions contained in Betty Rollin’s “Motherhood: Who needs It?” I wish I knew the names of the sick individuals who decided to put this book in the curriculum, and the names of those who have supported this, because then I could tell them what I am about to tell you. Just as the magazine that contained Rollin’s essay was immediately defunct, (it ceased publication a year after Betty Rollin’s article was published) so should be “The Norton Reader”.
Motherhood is a major theme of Toni Morrison’s Beloved, as multiple characters often lament the futile extent to which they can be mothers. In Chapter 5 Beloved, the reader is introduced to two new motherhood dynamics, both relating to the mysterious Beloved. Wherever motherhood is mentioned, water imagery—with its established connections to birth, healing, and life—used as well. Because it factors into Beloved’s symbolic “birth” and nurturing, water is an important image that relates to giving and sustaining life and motherhood in Beloved.
Lucy Westenra presents a rejection to motherhood when she eats the body of a child and throws it away. ‘the new woman represented a threat not only to the social order, but also to the natural order.’-101 ‘the child that she had clutched strenuously to her breast’ p.188 ‘scientific research defined a woman entirely in terms of body, one which characterised women’s bodies as devoid of passion. Science greatly feared sexual excess, which it felt could lead to men’s debilitation, which in turn could weaken the entire race. Since men’s passion was considered strong and more naturally inclined to excess, the controls were, instead, placed on women. The idolisation of motherhood was partly aimed to control female sexuality and curtail the threat
There has been impressive work about the idea of the maternal in the mast twenty years . Maybe as expected, a significant number of these are re-examinations of Freud's beliefs and concepts about maternity. In her study The Mermaid and the Minotaur: Sexual Arrangements and Human Malaise (1976), Dorothy Dinnerstein utilises Freud's ideas of the Oedipus complex to attribute a great part of the fault for the ills of man-run society to the mother being the primary and often exclusive nurturer, caregiver and protector of children. As an option, she proposes that both men and women should share equal responsibility for the care of children. In the same year, Adrienne Rich publishes her critical book: Of Woman Born: Motherhood as Experience
One of the ways a misogynistic culture suppresses the woman is to question her role as wife and mother. Literature, in particular, feeds this culture in regards to how an author portrays the mother in the context of their relationship with their children. In particular, the relationship between the mother and daughter. In The Reproduction of Mothering, Nancy Chodorow explains the difference between “mothering” and “fathering” from the viewpoint of a feminist in 1978. She states while the female adult would be “mothering” a child, a mother would never be accused of “fathering” a child because it is not a nurturing role. A father is capable of “mothering a child, yet the patriarchal society rules that fathering is left for the man in a child’s
Dr. Versna Leskosek, in her, Historical Perspective on the Ideological of Motherhood and its Impact on social work, states that, motherhood has been considered as a basic aspect of a woman’s existence and an inseparable part of her existence, through out history. It is their inner instinct that ensures the healthy and proper development of their child, under their love and protective care. it is the same instinct that draws women into motherhood. so strong is the instinctual connection between motherhood and womenhood that the two are equated with each other. But women are not just mothers they have to perform their kinship roles, where she has to perform her duty as a wife, daughter-in-law, daughter, sister, etc. But motherhood was considered
He moved from one foster home to another and sometimes he stayed with his friends because of his mother 's inattention due to crack-cocaine addiction (Collman, 2015).
“The Natural state of motherhood is unselfishness. When you become a mother, you are no longer the center of your universe. You relinquish that position to your children” Jessica Lange. When a child is born, so is a mother. Some children require their mothers to be there at every waking moment but others learn to stand on their own early on in life. In the Story The Locked Room, by Paul Auster, Jane Fanshawe is introduced as a manipulative cold-hearted woman with sinister intentions, but societal pressures reveals this malicious woman to be a vulnerable mother.
MOTHERHOOD – A FEMINIST PERSPECTIVE To be able to comprehend the journey that the feminist liberation movement has undertaken, ever since it came into existence, a brief overview of the feminist movement is imperative. It is also important to understand why motherhood is an important issue for the feminists and the impact of motherhood on womanhood. It is only then that a clear picture of the issues related to motherhood and their role in fostering gender - dichotomy can be studied. In order to understand the twin related issues - womanhood and motherhood and the role of the feminist movement. This chapter has been divided into two parts. The first part deals with
MOTHERHOOD – A FEMINIST PERSPECTIVE To be able to comprehend the journey that the feminist liberation movement has undertaken, ever since it came into existence, a brief overview of the feminist movement is imperative. It is also important to understand why motherhood is an important issue for the feminists and the impact of motherhood on womanhood. It is only then that a clear picture of the issues related to motherhood and their role in fostering gender - dichotomy can be studied. In order to understand the twin related issues - womanhood and motherhood and the role of the feminist movement. This chapter has been divided into two parts. The first part deals with
Psychologists and Pseudo-Scientists have long sought to explain the inborn human desire for self destruction. The urge to be selfish even against one’s own benefit, the urge to harm or to be harmed for the sake of one’s own security, drinking, smoking, these clearly injurious thoughts and actions seduce individuals by an instinct Freud coins the Death Drive (Beyond the Pleasure Principle 30). Moreover, as advances in genetic engineering tear the veil between science fiction and fact, modern critics have questioned how this suicidal drive may push into uncharted frontiers. Such concerns have fostered a fear of unadulterated scientific progress captured within the works of Margaret Atwood. Oryx and Crake, especially, utilizes almost hyperbolic predictions of scientific innovation as evidence of a deeper self-destructive nature, and as justification for fear. As a result, Atwood
In strengthening the importance of adapting to the ‘good mother’ script, a crucial role was played by psychoanalysis. As it will be shown, psychology has been instrumental in constructing the ways in which motherhood is seen, and in maintaining mothers in their current social position. Moreover, psychoanalysis is a useful tool which can be used to show how we acquire our heritage of the ideas and laws of human society within the unconscious mind.
It is not an easy task to define motherhood, but people can understand it as the relationship between mother and child with intrinsic sociological, physiological and affective aspects. These aspects have its genesis since the first moments of planning to have a child, through physiological conception, or through adoption, and they extend throughout life. The establishment of his relationship varies among women and cultures (Freitas, 2015).
This chapter analyses the polar opposition between those who consider maternal love as an innate instinct that all females share, and those who regard it as a cultural construct. The first part of the chapter analyses the evolution of the concept of maternal love from the eighteenth century to the present, to later consider its representation in different areas, such as psychoanalysis, and popular culture. The main aim of the chapter is to determine the ways in which the definition of what constitutes ‘natural’ mothering patterns has become static in our culture, and identify the distinctive characteristics of both good and bad mothers. This will be done by focusing on the growing prominence given to the figure of the mother in psychoanalysis,
The ambivalence in maternal experience and attitude is reflected in a variety of poems, which focus on the theme of motherhood. Imtiaz Darker’s poem “Zarina’s Mother,” reflects Marxist Feminism in an even more powerful way. The poem depicts an elite woman who is also a mother, watching another mother who is poor, has four children and facing poverty and related hardships in life. The speaker becomes aware of the gap between her own experience and that of a mother living in the slums. From being a distant onlooker at the misery of poverty, the speaker moves from guilt to pity, and feels a sense of identification with the other mother.The opening lines of the poem correct the prejudice of having judged as