The Problematic Life of Sydney Stranford In Sarah Dessen’s novel, Saint Anything, a young girl named, Sydney Stranford, shows multiple manifestations of her low-self esteem. Readers catch a glimpse of how Sydney carries herself, with minimal confidence and self-punishment, which shapes her narration. Sydney’s insecurities originate from her parents and their behavior towards her, which elucidates the motives behind her actions. Although Sydney feels helpless in her situation, her issues are resolved effortlessly and disappear to present her a happy ending. One indication of Sydney’s low self-esteem is that she views herself as unattractive. As a matter of fact, she compares herself to her brother, Peyton, who is undeniably handsome, and …show more content…
Despite all of the judgmental glares, she feels invisible. In fact, Sydney tells Mac, “I’m used to being invisible. So any kind of attention makes me nervous” (247). Even though Sydney feels that she has been disregarded by everyone, this statement seems like a plea for attention, which is something she claims makes her “nervous”. Again with her inconsistency, Sydney feels more comfortable with being ignored, however is desperate for any sliver of attention, which is another manifestation of her lack of …show more content…
This minimizes Sydney’s self-confidence, which is a common occurrence in relationships between neglectful parents and their children. According to her research, Lucy C. Driscoll’s thesis, “Parenting Styles and Self-Esteem”, unveils the correlation between parental neglect and an adolescent’s self esteem. Studies by Martinez and Garcia indicated that children, like Sydney, who are raised by parents who show no interest, obtain the lowest self esteem compared to children who were raised with more nurturing ones. Driscoll states, “The research showed that adolescents with authoritarian and neglectful parents had the lowest levels of self-esteem,” (Driscoll 8). Sydney’s parents are both authoritarian and neglectful towards her. Her mother dismisses Sydney’s personal interests, whereas her father barely speaks up for her, yet once she does something wrong, she is severely disciplined for it. Sydney being punished for obscure reasons is due to the fact that her parents fear the possibility of her following Peyton’s footsteps. Sydney’s mother says to her, “your brother started off with one mistake, which led to another and another” (Dessen 328), and compares Sydney’s behaviors to Peyton’s, which is an unfair justification of being over-dictatorial. They also neglect Sydney and her teenage angst, which is why Sydney claims that her parents “don’t look too closely at me”
In chapter five of The Catcher in the Rye, by J.D. Salinger, the reader learns about the death of Allie, Holden’s younger brother. Holden and Allie were very close, and his death left a mark on Holden both mentally, and emotionally. It is inferred that Holden feels Allie did not deserve to die. “You’d have liked him. He was two years younger than I was, but he was about fifty times as intelligent.”
Connie’s home life does not bring any self-assurance that a healthy one would. Her mother scolds her and compares her unfavorably to her older sister June (369). Her father, instead of actively debasing her like her mother, simply ignores her (370). Nicolas Emler, a professor of social psychology at the London School of Economics, notes that the nature of how parents raise their children is a significant factor in whether those children will have low or high self-esteem. Giving
In Dead Poets Society, A Death of a Salesman, and Unbroken, the theme of "battle against conformity" is expressed through the main character's reactions to overwhelming societal pressures, the reasons behind conformity, and the consequences of characters willingness to forsake their individuality. (Thesis) In various literary works, a character's reaction towards conformity and societal pressures often leads them to forsake their individuality effectively taking away the unique aspects which wanes their distinctiveness. Essentially, conformity causes one's eccentricity to be molded into universal concepts or ideas shared by the masses. This level of thought is proven true in Death of a Salesman through the ongoing conflict between the
One must choose wisely and continually combat the world’s messages because self-image can set the stage for one’s entire life. Grealy’s struggles with self-esteem reveal the fluidity of one’s self-image. A confident young girl can evolve into an insecure teenager or adult because of a new circumstance or the damaging words of others. Grealy does not disclose extensive details about her life or sense of self-image before cancer, but a few brief scenes paint a picture of Grealy that only accentuates the deterioration of her self-esteem.
This action represents the suppressing or drowning of Allison’s insecurities and shame which in turn could possibly lead to her own
Holden failed to tell his parents that he was kicked out of his boarding school, again. He felt the information was superfluous to others, other than to himself and other people he wanted to know, such as his younger sister, Phoebe. My critique on this book starting with character development would be negative. The reason it’s negative is because the author completely and utterly skipped this step in the writing process.
The only motivator that Holden has to continue living is his younger sister, Phoebe, who is extraordinarily intelligent for her age. After he gets kicked out of Pencey, Holden is lost in life. He speaks to many people, seeking advice and comfort, but they are not able to help him find a human connection. Holden’s depression increases throughout the novel, almost to the point of suicide. He criticizes many people and ideas, labeling them as ‘phony’.
Hannah experiences a transition from ignorance to knowledge. To begin with, after Hannah moves in with Tante Rose, she becomes consumed by her passion for piano. To her “there [is] nothing else in the world”
Whenever Holden comments on other people, he calls them “phony” in order to distance himself emotionally and isolate his feelings. Even when talking about his sister Phoebe, with whom he holds the strongest emotional bond, he simply says she would “feel pretty bad if [Holden died]. She likes [Holden] a lot.” (173). In the instances Holden finds himself unable to insult a particular relationship to discourage himself from becoming attached,
You can easily relate “Creep” by Radiohead to Holden Caulfield and his pessimistic attitude towards everything and everybody in the book. Wherever Holden goes, he constantly refers to people as “phonies”, without even speaking a word to them. He is very critical and hold high standards for not only other individuals, but of himself as well. His low self-esteem is quite apparent from all the negative comments he makes throughout the text. In my honest opinion, I think Holden puts others down as a way to make himself feel better about the bad in his own life.
Best of the Worst Parenting is never perfect. Every parents questions whether they are raising their child correctly, and no parent ever feels like they are doing the right thing. With no clear distinction between good and bad parenting, it is usually left to personal preferences and judgements to decide which parents have adequately raised their children and which have failed. When a parent so call “fails,” often it is the children with their strong will and determination to survive that collectively raise themselves. In Jesmyn Ward’s Sing, Unburied, Sing, Leonie, one of the narrators and the mother of another narrator, Jojo, is not the most caring, hands-on mother, but is loving of her children nevertheless.
In Anne Tyler’s short story, Teenage Wasteland, a teenage boy named Donny struggles in school. His teachers and family feel they try everything they can, even hiring a tutor, but within a year Donny simply disappears. Daisy, his mother, tries to find a scapegoat for her son’s downfall, but ends up placing most of the blame on herself. While Daisy certainly played a role in her son’s demise, not one single character is to blame for Donny’s eventual disappearance – they all played a part.
Holden struggles with growing up and facing reality. There are many examples of Holden’s immaturity that are displayed in many forms such as facing responsibilities, his speech, his actions, and etc. Holden’s outlook on adult life is that it is superficial and brimming with phonies, but childhood was all about looking pleasing and innocent. He wants everything to stay the same and for time to stop. As Holden progresses in age, he will discover more about becoming mature in the
She tries to navigate through her first year of high school, and it seems like the entire student body despises her; she feels more alone than ever. I will be analyzing and making connections to three specific elements in this novel: the search for one’s identity, Melinda’s inner conflict,
Part of the reason Holden does not call his sister, Phoebe, is due to his “parents being the ones that answered the phone” (77). Holden finds protection in avoiding talking to anybody, which results in isolation. This event contributes to plot development as after refusing to call anybody, Holden continues to make excuses for things he should be doing, but does not. With each of Holden’s excuses, new adventures arrive, thus thickening and developing the