Personal Narrative: Don T Compare Yourself With Others

Somewhere I can relate to this question very well because ‘sometime’ I feel in the same way, there are certain things that we cannot rid of completely such as feeling lazy or unmotivated, but, of course, we can always choose to make a difference. There are some ways that I applied to get motivated in my life. I hope it will work for you also.

Don’t Compare Yourself With Others: Stop being, comparing yourself all the time, like who is best in your niche, you cannot become like them in one day or one month, it takes time and a lot of hard work. They reached that spot by their hard work, patient and spending those days, which you’re spending now. Irrespective of comparing yourself, work in those ways which can improve your skills like them.

Dream Of It: Until you get motivation for the work, always dream of that time when you will accomplish that task. How you will feel free after that, no burden on your neck. You can spend your free time to playing X-Box

This type of self-interrogative question helps me to focus.

Set A Dead Line: How much time you want to give yourself to accomplish that task? Use a timer to set a deadline for that. You may not be able to complete that task, but at least, you will start doing that.

Do What You Love: When we love something, we don’t need any motivation to do that, kid loves to watch cartoons; he doesn’t want any motivation to that, he just loved it. Find your one, what you love the most; what keeps you going.

“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.”

— Steve Jobs

Fear Of Failure And Criticism: Instead of worrying about failure and criticism start using them for your progress, I never see criticism as a bad thing. I feel it’s better to get criticize than to be praised for none. Improve yourself each day, this is the most important part; do not repeat the mistake that you had done in your past. Learn from it.

“To avoid criticism say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.”

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