Purpose The purpose of this study was to focus on the presence of sexual attraction within cross-sex relationships. They looked at how much of a challenge this may pose on the relationship, whether it is a real or imagined threat. They also attempted to quantify how the sexual attraction would change one’s definition of the relationship and if, or how, the attraction would define the future of the relationship. Several studies have been conducted previously on this topic, however, the researchers aimed to prove many of these wrong, including a study done by Monsour et al. in 1994, who claimed that there was not a significant challenge in cross-sex friendships in the form of sexual attraction on behalf of one or more parties. Research Methods There were two studies conducted based on the researchers’ hypothesis. First, they conducted semi-structured comprehensive interviews where the participants were asked various questions regarding their same-sex friendships and the obvious or latent sexual attractions from either party. The second study was aimed to find a “general quantitative recording of friendly relationships” (Halatsis & Christakis. 2009, p. 927). There were over 300 participants selected with an almost equal number of men and women …show more content…
They did note that all though there will probably be sexual attraction to some extent in all cross-sex relationships, the consequences are “generally not calamitous” (Halatsis et al., p. 935). They also discovered that even if sexual interactions are introduced into a friendship, the party interviewed will still define that relationship as a friendship. This may be in part due to the fact that many of the interviewees saw a relationship as less open and realistic as their
To understand the linkage between sexuality and gender, it is important to reimagine the relationship between sexuality and gender and the rapport they hold with self-identification. Not long ago, sexuality was tied to procreation - becoming the core of one’s identity. Gender had always been tied to biological sex. However, a crisis of gender identity emerged and blurred the gender and sexuality binaries that had become commonplace social facts. A fluidity was created that allowed individuals to not feel the pressure of fitting inside distinct identification categories.
The following paper is an elaboration of an observation made on sexual interaction when I visited the Potomac Park. The park is a public recreation facility which is located in Washington, DC amidst high rise building and the busy city life. It is among the few places where one can find a peaceful picnic atmosphere for rest. The park is frequently visited during the lunch break when people are away from their offices of work and during weekends. It is a tourist destination which is highly visited by both the local and the international tourists.
Emotionless sex is not possible and yet so many students believe it is. While many truly enjoy their sexual activity, they are only in the minority. The hookup culture values men more so than women when it comes to needs and desires. However, to say that men are happy in the hookup culture is wrong. The hookup culture applauds masculine behavior and seeks to remove caring, affectionate, and loving behavior, yet so many of Wade’s students have reported that they want “meaningful connections with others” (Wade 245).
To analyse this study, first, the readers should know about human sexual behaviour, it will conduct to understand this study. In this world, human could not avoid themselves from sexual behaviour because it is the way that human can express their sexuality. There are many variety of
William Fairbairn is known for postulating that libido unlike what Freud said is object seeking and not pleasure seeking. He said our search for relationships is more primitive than the desire to gratify them. Fairbairn’s structural model proposes, “that the libido is not primarily aimed at pleasure, but at making relationships with others.” Fairbairn’s internal objects are formed directly from actual experiences with external objects. For Fairbairn, badness is the internalization of parents who are actually depriving or rejecting.
Lia De Marco Annotated Bibliography Romantic relationships are influenced by a majority of effects throughout life. Growing up your family history, communication and peer relationships form the skills on how you are gong to react as an adult. The part that interesting is how individuals use the influence to impact their romantic relationships. From being an outsider and watching parents handle conflict to being involved with conflict within itself.
Throughout the past few decades, there have been several issues and controversy based upon interracial relationships. Most of the issues are based on several criticizing the relationship and not approving it. Although I understand, the reason why most people discriminate and don't approve is mainly because of how complex things were in the past. It is likely agreeable that the past is the past and the people who are now in an interracial relationships shouldn't be discriminated and judged based on who they’re in love with. Instead, people should embrace the fact that several others want to experience something new and explore what they like outside the box.
Inside and beyond the myth and the social impact of the subject as One or Substance. Alan H. Goldman’s essay ‘Plain Sex’ is a central contribution to the academic debate about sex within the analytic area, which has been developing since the second half of the ‘90s in Western countries. Goldman’s purpose is encouraging debate on the concept of sex without moral, social and cultural implications or superstitious superstructures. He attempts to define “sexual desire” and “sexual activity” in its simplest terms, by discovering the common factor of all sexual events, i.e. “the desire for physical contact with another person’s body and for the pleasure which such contact produces; sexual activity is activity which tends to fulfill such desire of the agent” (Goldman, A., 1977, p 40).
One problem most central to advancing our psychological understanding of the experience of intimacy has been in defining or circumscribing the phenomenon itself. While much has been written on the topic of intimacy in a variety of contexts by both academic and ‘popular’ authors, paradoxically, there exists less research (and even less concurrence) on essential matters such as the definition of intimacy (Register and Henley, 1992; 9: 467-48). “However, in the literature, many researchers (Berscheid, 1985; Hatfield & Rapson, 1993; Levine, 1991) have concurred that there are four main components of intimacy: love and affection, personal validation, trust and self-disclosure,” (Hook, Misty, Gerstein, et al .2003) which are enshrined in Rogers core conditions of empathy, respect and genuineness (Rogers, 1957). If these components are absent in a relationship, intimacy may not occur. “When people are aware that they are loved and liked, the risks associated with self-expression decrease, and they become more willing to open up and share their ideas and feelings.
Sociological Perspectives Sexuality has three assumptions to it 1. Sexuality of members 2. Institutions of society such as family, religion, 3. What is appropriateness or inappropriateness of sexual behavior with in the cultural it occurs in.
Hsu and J. Michael Bailey called “Autopedphila: Erotic-Target Identity Inversions in Men Sexually Attracted to Children”. The article is very relevant to the discussion of why or what causes a person to be interested in children in a romantic manner because its research digs into the idea that there is more than one dimension of maturity that is discussed in regards to men, which are sexual orientation and their sexual maturity. Those who ran the study did an online survey that found many of the men who answered the survey said that they had fantasies that had to do with children, or autiopedophillia meaning the sexual arousal by having ideas of a child (HSU). An interesting aspect of this experiment is that it was completely online and anonymous, in hopes that it would comfort the participant to feel that they were able to answer the questions as honestly as they could. This was done hoping that there would be no outside pressures of answering the questions one way or another or untruthfully.
Many people believe that men and women cannot be friends. Like Harry in When Harry Met Sally, many people believe that sex will always have a role in these types of friendships. Research has found that there are five challenges to cross-sex friendship, and sexual attraction is one of them. Emotional bond, equality, audience, and opportunity are the other challenges. Firstly, emotional bond challenge brings up the question of whether the closeness is due to friendship or romantic love.
Understanding gender and sexuality as socially constructed categories is important because it helps people understand a certain group. Gender and sexuality is expressed in many categories and people must be careful not to mix people in the wrong category. Simply because one expresses their sexuality different from another person does not mean they should be bashed or treated differently. Sometimes it does not matter what you identify as, who you identify with, people will always judge you, so its best people just do what they want. Putting gender in a category helps others not stereotype them as something they are not.
I believe that sexual attraction, sexual behavior, and sexual identity are all connected when defining one’s sexual orientation because, in most cases, one’s sexual behavior and sexual identity are based on the sexual or romantic attraction. For example, when a person finds out his sexual attraction, it helps him deciding his sexual behavior, and eventually, he can define his sexual identity once his sexual attraction and sexual behavior are determined. At the same time, however, I also believe that there can be inconsistency among these three considerations because people can choose their own sexual behavior. Even though sexual/romantic attraction is a natural thing that one cannot change, sexual behavior is something that one
Authors of Human Sexuality talk about human sexuality, “Our awareness of ourselves as females and males is part of our