One thing about bitterness is that you do not create things that cause bitterness but circumstances of life which include loss of loved ones, unemployment, unfruitful marriage, barrenness, financial loss, being single, failed ministry, unfulfilled expectations etc. What is important about this is to find a way to handle them well. The Bible says, do not let bitterness take root in your heart.
When Joseph was mercilessly sold into Egyptian slavery by his brother and then tempted by Potiphar’s wife, he didn’t allow depression and despair to take over his life. When falsely accused and sentenced to prison, he didn’t allow bitterness to wither his soul.
James 1:2-4 says, "Consider it a great joy, my brothers, whenever you experience various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. But endurance must do its complete work, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing." Great joy does not mean we are laughing in the midst of pain. Rather, it means we can have deep sense of peace in painful situation knowing that God will never leave us.
1. Forgive: Everyone gets hurt, but we help ourselves out of the situation by not dwelling on the circumstances whatsoever.
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The fear of scarcity: The fear of scarcity creates the thought of financial corruption in people mind. It is the fear of scarcity that makes people get frightened of losing their office of authority to someone else. It is the fear of scarcity that makes people feel their success may not last forever. They are afraid that the financial status they have maintained for a while, and currently have is not going to be there forever and instead of continuing to give dedicated and great services, they are always thinking of cutting corners to try to make sure that they keep their success increasing or their profit margins high. In the process of trying to find a shortcut out of their panic, through their subconscious fear of scarcity, they lose the position to their
"The Hate U Give" is a 2018 film based on the bestselling novel by Angie Thomas. It tells the story of Starr Carter, a young African American girl who witnesses the fatal shooting of her unarmed friend Khalil at the hands of a white police officer. The film explores the aftermath of the incident and its impact on Starr, her family, and their community. These characters, among others, contribute to the exploration of racism, discrimination, and social activism, highlighting the complexities and struggles faced by marginalized communities in their quest for justice and equality. The movie sheds light on the complexities of identity, the effects of racial bias, and the power of speaking out against injustice.
In your own life, what does all this mean? Is it, saying that you never fail at anything? Does it mean you get “A” in every one of life’s tests? Or does “handle” mean you never have to recover because you slipped up? Can it mean we never have to repent despite the fact that repentance the Lord requires from us?
Finally, Kor expresses the importance of forgiveness. “Anger and hate are seeds that germinate war. Forgiveness is a seed for peace. It is the ultimate act of self-healing. I look at forgiveness as the summit of a very tall mountain” (Kor and Buccieri 133).
Often, different individuals are more prone to resilience not only by their forgiveness and their social surroundings but also their prior experiences, leading to the finding of peace. The ability to forgive can alter the way a person endures tribulation. For example, in Unbroken, Louis is able to extenuate his hatred toward the
Hostility not Expression James Peter recently was suspended for refusing to remove a Confederate flag belt buckle to school. The student had refused to remove the belt after the principle told him he needed to remove it because it violated the school policy. The policy was developed a few years back because of racial tension in the district. The student is suing under the first amendment freedom of speech clause with emphasis that the buckle was an expression of his southern heritage and interest in the war and not slavery. According to the fourteenth amendment equal protection clause, case law, and the Turner test for the first amendment the school was well within its rains of authority to ban the flag.
When a person is met with the challenge of judging someone's innocence or guilt, it’s hard to do it impartially. Prejudice can be found everywhere- even in a courtroom, as can be seen in the play “Twelve Angry Men,” by Reginald Rose. The play revolves around the jury’s thoughts and decisions regarding a case of first-degree murder committed by a teenager against his father. During the three acts, three specific jurors were very obvious about their prejudices in one way or another and allowed this to effect their judgement: Juror number 3, Juror number 5, and Juror number 10.
People choose forgiveness because they want to release the initial offender from their guilt and past action to form a better relationship with them. As Chernoff discusses, "When we release others from the penalties of their actions, we create a space where our own thoughtless actions against others can be forgiven as well”(1). The quote above explains how forgiving others can allow for a better relationship based off of forgiveness between the initial offender and the avenger. People forgive because they see it as the right thing to do. In the text, "In reality, I was just a man who got somebody mad-- mad enough to want to kill him-- and survived it.
In the novel The Hate U Give, world-renowned author Angie Thomas details racism and social injustice through the eyes of Starr Carter, a sixteen-year-old black girl from Garden Heights. Garden Heights is a predominantly black community and at the beginning of the book Starr watches her childhood friend Khalil get murdered by a white cop. Despite the efforts of her parents, Starr experiences racism in all aspects of her life, including her home, school, and neighborhood. Throughout the novel, Starr encounters racism in her own home and with family members.
We are humans and a majority of us have dealt with heartache, pain, broken promises, along with the joyous things like dreams, aspirations, and successful futures. Humans mess up and make mistakes, but we have to remember that forgiveness is a very prestigious and powerful thing. Forgiveness affects people’s lives in positive ways through the hardships, difficulties, and struggles of life. There comes a time when forgiveness should not be available to some individuals. However, this depends on the past situations that have occurred in your life as well as other individuals.
The involvement in a community lightens up warmth within oneself. Angie Thomas’s novel, The Hate U Give embodies an ideal model to what a neighbourhood must be. A positive community aids Maverick Carter in developing as well as bettering himself for the sake of his loved ones. In The Hate U Give the feel of community and belonging allows for growth; Maverick Carter breaks the cycle of crime previously constructed by his father, leaves a life and home he knew, and comes to terms with Starr’s additional father figure, leading him to progress as a father as well as provide security to his family. Maverick’s father failes to express love and security to him as a child which encourages him to be an exceptional father for his children.
But the pain and the negative is just as important as the joy and happiness in life. You can not grow without rain and sunlight, you need both the good and bad, the positive and negative, to become the best version you can be, “There is nothing unworthy of acceptance. The light of awareness will doubtless illuminate things we would prefer not to see”. To be able to move on with the difficult times in life you have to accept them as lessons and be able to learn from them so you do not end up in situations you wish to repress again. Though remembering and growing from the pain we have endured is necessary, embracing those memories and feelings does not mean indulging in them, “To embrace hatred is to accept it for what it is: a
But I-I was a wretch, and none ever conceived of the misery that I then endured (110). —This passage hopes for the existence of a fair comparison between a creator with understanding of the how to the Created works and the Created. He claims to suffer a fate than no one ever suffered, but religious doctrine shows the necessary endurance that God must have had in order to let humanity be after realizes the
One would think prejudice is a thing of the past. Unfortunately, that is not the case, prejudice is still a common factor in todays society. Vincent N. Parrillo’s essay “Causes of Prejudice,” helped me to understand how we are affected not just psychologically but in a sociological way as well, as John A. Camacho explains in his A Few Bad Apples opinion piece published in the Pacific Daily News. Both forms of prejudice are continued to be explained through Stud Turkel’s “C.P Ellis,” he gives us an understanding of psychological and sociological prejudice through C.P Ellis’own experiences. This furthers our understanding on how we can be affected by both psychological and sociological prejudices.
Our life experiences make our present, our values, our way of behaving and thinking. Although no one is perfect, we are prone to develop prejudice against those who are totally different from us. For most of the time, prejudice only affects us personally. But if an individual is given a power to be responsible for another person’s live or death, prejudice can turn into a deadly weapon.
“The deep truth is that our human suffering need not be an obstacle to the joy and peace we so desire, but can become, instead, the means to it. The great secret of the spiritual life, the life of the Beloved Sons and daughters of God, is that everything we live, be it gladness or sadness, joy or pain, health or illness, can all be part of the journey toward the full realization of our humanity” Henri