(p.416) This is one of the reasons of how the brother causes Doodles death because he made him work to hard and by having little concern for Doodle and more about his pride from what he
Mark is a very involved volunteer at my church, he was my small group leader at my youth group for that first year living with my dad. From working at the church mark has grown to be such a great servant and puts other before him at any given time. Mark said that he didn’t want to see me have to leave just because me and my dad couldn’t get along, so without even questioning it he said to me “well we do have that guest room open at our house”. Mark saw that I was in need and knew that it would be very stressful for me to have to move back up to Maryland. Regardless of how awkward it may have been with me living with his kids and wife may have been (since they didn’t really know me), he knew that I was hanging on a limb, and I needed the help.
Which his father funeral was also his nineteenth birthday. Baldwin also reveals that he was extremely scared of his dad. He and siblings thought of him as a bitter individual. Baldwin’s dad was extremely pleased about being black. He didn't have any white companions, and did not want his children to become friends with whites either.
This, in turn, caused Troy 's mother to abandon him, leaving him without love from a parent or anyone to show him the correct way to treat females, a sin that affects his relationship with Rose as an adult. His father 's treatment of Troy made Troy believe there was more to his suffering than what was humanly possible "The gal jumped and run off...and when my daddy turned to face me, I could see why the devil had never come to get him...cause he was the devil himself"(Wilson 52).This metaphor used by Troy, adds a certain weight to the gravity of his situation as a teen. His father wasn 't just cruel but was the devil, a symbol of pure hate and all evil.
It would feel awful, I assume, and that person would not be forgiven or taken as someone who could change their actions. No matter how much they say they care, no matter what they try to do to “make it up to you”, and no matter how desperate they say they are. To do something so bad as to lose somebody’s trust is a terrible thing to do, and common people won’t accept them as friendly
In addition, if a person feels ashamed of their unhappiness, then they may be afraid to share their feelings. If one is afraid to discuss their feelings, then they may never seek help if they need it. In a way, our society has stigmatized negative emotions. This stigma has also resulted in the notion that it is looked down upon to seek therapy and counseling. Instead of enforcing the categorization of our emotions, we should learn to openly accept that all emotions are natural.
More than anything else, we are more afraid of being judged by others for our failures. Now that we have somehow isolated this fear of criticism, can we do something about it? How do we conquer the one thing that gets in the way more than anything else - more than lack of skills, more than lack of knowledge, more than bad luck or anything else we might think of – how do we conquer fear? How to Handle Fear?
What is social acceptance? Why getting socially accepted does matters so much? Rejection and acceptance are central to our lives, we tend to adjust ourselves in the society no matter it is by our own will or by force. Being socially adequate is a major thing these days. It appears that this has dependably been the situation on the grounds that fitting in with the right individuals has been an essential piece of life for a long time.
Imagine having a disabled brother who couldn’t walk or even barely move himself because his legs were so weak they could break, then imagine trying to teach him to walk and be at fault for a huge upcoming disaster. Doodle was a disabled person who was at first very hated by his brother because he was embarrassed to have a disabled brother. Doodles brother actually had plans to kill doodle, but instead of killing him he tried to help him, by teaching him to walk. Brother is a good brother because he was just trying to help his little brother not trying to hurt him in anyway. Doodle brother was trying to help doodle out by teaching him to walk even though doctors said if he walks he could very easily fall and die.